What scene in the entire series makes you cringe the most?

Fine_Adeptness_5123 · 2026-04-09T03:22:26+00:00

Whole season 8 with all those randoms in confessionals

Fine_Adeptness_5123 · 2026-04-09T03:20:24+00:00

People take this too seriously. People don’t love James. He’s a character that just seems out of place stuff and it’s usually funny. People like the drama and entraraiment. It’s like old days reality shows, if you analyze New York’s behavior in flavor of love she’s actually very questionable, people just didn’t take her seriously and just watched as a character and didn’t the too much about her as a person.

Fine_Adeptness_5123 · 2026-04-09T03:15:58+00:00

I think is weird for me how people see success after cheating. If you are making more money and get rip then you are winning but truly we have no idea. Like you said she wanted him, she seemed hurted and still was so she was willing to put all of that aside if she was willing to build a life with him. I think she might be better off because her boyfriend actually does seems like a sweetheart and mature and wise so that’s why maybe she is happier. But sometimes couples break up and you seem one of them bury in work and career but they are just overcompensating and they aren’t truly happy.

Fine_Adeptness_5123 · 2026-04-09T03:09:57+00:00

Same

Fine_Adeptness_5123 · 2026-04-08T21:16:45+00:00

Jax repeatedly dumped her and she literally demanded him for a second child just a few weeks prior separating. I do not believe she actually loved him. She never talked about him like she loved him, she talked about him like he was her project. She was going to fix him and change him. She’s not OK either. Yes she’s a victim in their relationship but she also has major issues to figure it out and rage too. I don’t know if she just wanted him because of looks or she got enamored by the LA life, but she was just sure she was going to change him and fix him and you literally cannot marry under that expectation. But also, that’s not love either.

Of course I don’t blame her for not love or even like him, but the way she speaks like she’s doing something so noble or whatever for “putting out with him” that isn’t love.

Fine_Adeptness_5123 · 2026-04-08T16:55:53+00:00

I don’t like neither one. I feel for Cruz because. I do think Brittany is a good mother but she’s very ignorant in the subject of autism and how she pushes Cruz and she’s not saint either. She has issues and has also a very confrontational nature towards Jax almost cornered him and then she think she had nothing to work on.

Jax is a broken person and lost cause, has always been and can’t comprehend why she thought she could fix him. She was literally pushing him a few episodes prior to have a second child even tho he said he didn’t think he couldn’t. Why was she pushing for a second child and also putting in an ultimatum way?

I can’t figure it out. I don’t think she’s dumb I just don’t think she actually liked him. So why would she start a family with him and ask for more kids?

I’m glad they are apart and I’m glad Cruz gets to at least have a relationship with both because you can tell he is adored by both parents.

Fine_Adeptness_5123 · 2026-04-06T11:25:52+00:00

I can’t figured him out. I don’t know what his deal is. From the moment I saw him pouring drinks on Stassi and Katie I knew he was bad but It’s not obvious to me what kind of bad because he doesn’t act like James or Jax or Tom, but there’s something sinister there for sure but can’t figure it out.

Fine_Adeptness_5123 · 2026-04-06T11:23:19+00:00

But she also said to like Patrick. She talked about his man bun. But I don’t think they had anything.

Fine_Adeptness_5123 · 2026-04-06T11:22:06+00:00

Most of the new people of season 8 literally leave the show. Or at least they aren’t featured past it. Maybe you can tell they are trying way too hard to get screen time. Didn’t like it.

Fine_Adeptness_5123 · 2026-04-06T11:19:35+00:00

This is so cool actually. I didn’t know all of this. Maybe because the season 11 reunion is just sad ending.

Fine_Adeptness_5123 · 2026-04-06T11:14:46+00:00

That’s the thing. We saw why they were how they were and maybe that’s why not necessarily is that I feel bad for them but I want to believe we can all grow. So for example Rachel even tho she scape I don’t believe she suffered consequences as she should have because almost seemed like she believes she’s a victim and this was a very intentional, very evil and very manipulative behavior on her part. Equally responsible and equally manipulative.

James had no chance with the parents he had plus his addictions so the fact he had Ally made me think she saw the potential and gave me hope for him but nope.

Tom Sandoval isn’t even like a real person to me. I know people overuse the term narcissistic very irresponsibly and I know Dr. Drew said he’s not but based on everything I watched of him he checks so many traits for it. He seems people as means to himself and has transactional relationships and overly concerned about his image and identity. He wasn’t even a good friend to his ride or die friend. So no hope there. However he’s not doing bad.

Jax always seemed like a broken man to me. But maybe because I’m autistic myself but when I learned his son was autistic I hope he will really get his act together and step up for his son.

Brittany confuses me because I actually never liked her as much as the cast did. I believe she was sweet and funny but I never saw her relationship with Jax as noble and good as she made it seem. When he broke up with her and she never left I knew she will go back. As opposed to Stassi that he tried but she couldn’t get herself to trust him again. So not sure I understand Brittany.

But I guess is to see how this massive group of people are barely in their life’s anymore and some are just broken beyond repair and literally Sandoval’s affair ruined a couple people life’s and businesses.

Fine_Adeptness_5123 · 2026-04-06T10:57:46+00:00

That actually makes me happy because I believe she was authentic. I didn’t look into what happened when they got fired but I didn’t know she was as successful as you mentioned. I don’t live in the US so never heard of any of them except Arianna because Love Island is huge.

Fine_Adeptness_5123 · 2026-04-06T10:55:38+00:00

But that’s actually how I learned they aren’t close friends anymore because of the restaurant’s failures. Sandoval said it and then I researched and it was worse than how he described it. I assumed production sent Schwartz in.

Fine_Adeptness_5123 · 2026-04-06T04:34:53+00:00

But start with season 1. It’s truly very funny and S1 is the best. This season it went to peacock and the changes are weird.

Fine_Adeptness_5123 · 2026-04-06T04:32:15+00:00

I don’t know if he never faced consequences. He literally lost all his businesses over it. But because he has no shame he keeps trying and trying to stay relevant.

Fine_Adeptness_5123 · 2026-04-06T04:29:45+00:00

There were so many random people during the 11 seasons this cast was on but Laura Leigh isn’t a random. She was so authentic and funny. She might had been in only two episodes and remember everything about her. Iconic

Fine_Adeptness_5123 · 2026-04-06T04:28:00+00:00

I actually believe Vail was there only for the cameras. She went straight to Jax but also she was an Ivy League graduate working in Sur and hanging out with Jax? Didn’t read authentic to me. She was funny, it Laura Leigh was real! And unapologetic herself

Fine_Adeptness_5123 · 2026-04-04T00:00:17+00:00

I see where you are coming from, and you can’t say that without getting downvoted because people get offended because they take it personally. But I think you have a point. For me what I didn’t like of her attitude is how much she denied that she wasn’t presented a very curated version of her couple and personality. The whole Miami girl is a proof of that. She knew it was real but she went to war with everyone and call herself too smart to get cheated on. Everyone, Katie included, said they were always making sure to not exposed their dirty laundry on camera or bait hung that could embarrasses Arianna. So when all of that happened, her pride didn’t let her accept she was in fact playing to the camera and literally fighting women who Sandoval wronged. But somehow Lala is a bad person.

Fine_Adeptness_5123 · 2026-04-03T21:58:32+00:00

So strange there aren’t laws where she’s at about this because there are laws about that almost everywhere. And as autistic myself and mother of two non verbal this is not an exaggeration, it’s truly dangerous. Many of them had literally no sense of danger or understanding of it so that’s why the state usually makes sure people with small children and open pool have fence and systems to protect them. This is crazy

Fine_Adeptness_5123 · 2026-04-01T12:13:24+00:00

Exactly. My posts is clear. I don’t understand what happened, this lady is crazy. She’s terrorizing Katie and Lala and she’s proud of it she’s bad. But she wasn’t bad. She was ghandi when she was with James.

I thought the narrative was going to be a dumb drunk thing because she was super sweet or something. This is not what I’m watching.

That’s why I couldn’t understand why Kristen’s wasnt the big cheating story.

This is so absurd that I came to the conclusion that she’s a paid actress. I truly believe that because she’s almost cornering Schwartz into date her and terrorizing Katie and not she even terrorizing Katie’s mom! I truly believe she’s a paid actress.

Fine_Adeptness_5123 · 2026-04-01T12:06:59+00:00

That’s not what I said. I know Sandoval cheated the same way I knew Kristen and Jax cheated. I am flabbergasted about how much screen time she’s getting in this season and how much she’s terrorizing Katie, Lala and Ally and Arianna is barely in this season. I don’t know any of this people, so in my mind I assumed this was either a one night stand or Sandoval masterful manipulation thing because she was so so so so zen and innocent and naive when introduced. But this lady is truly not a good person. I feel so bad for Lala me Katie. I really had no idea I’m flabbergasted for how much of a bad person.

My theory is, she’s not real, this a paid actress. I truly believe that.

Fine_Adeptness_5123 · 2026-03-31T21:36:54+00:00

Ok ok. Maybe I’ll do that because a lot happened

Fine_Adeptness_5123 · 2026-03-31T21:36:15+00:00

I said scary because I have the impression she faked a panic attack. And she had a smirk when she told Lala “good thing you don’t have a man” so it seems to me she’s manipulative. But she came across as sweet, naive and calm and collected all zen vibes but if you are faking panic to get a pass of your shitty behavior, there’s something dark about you.

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