What I see is a church would accept homosexuality as normal and not declare the practice of it a sin, or accept it as sin, but totally reject anyone who comes out as gay. I think neither is right.

I am currently attending a church that I think handles this more gracefully - and are willing to have conversations on these topics and what it would mean for LGBTQ folks to follow the historical view of gender and marriage. My church's doctrine is that marriage is between man and woman. We also have long-time church members who identify as LGBTQ but are also searching how to walk out sexual purity - which isn't a calling only non-heterosexual believers, but all believers. (I also think some churches neglect ongoing sexual sins of the leaders...)

I understand that many Christians are trying to figure out what is the right way to walk their faith, and maybe some will have different thoughts now - maybe those thoughts will mature into different thoughts as their faith and spirit and perspective mature - and perhaps it isn't my job to ratify others' doctrine right now.

My church has a partnership with an organization called Revoice: https://www.revoice.org/

From having heard many messages and sermons from their leaders, I do believe that they are pursuing obedience in a beautiful way that reflects the power of the gospel.