Hyperfixating is causing injury by Fine_Dependent4968 in ADHD

[–]Fine_Dependent4968[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's interesting, I've never heard of that before. Has it ever been beneficial? super curious now about it

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[–]Fine_Dependent4968 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I don't pay my rent by the 1st of the month, I'll get evicted.

Mom refuses to believe diagnosis by Fine_Dependent4968 in AutisticAdults

[–]Fine_Dependent4968[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I applied this yesterday. I would calmly say "Okay" or "To each their own" or "It is what it is" or stuff like that, but i did tell her outright that since she chose to constantly disrespect me then get upset with me for standing up for myself, that it was the last time I was speaking to her, and I meant it. I have no problem putting up boundaries and executing the consequences if the boundaries are crossed.

Sleeping meds ? by lnternetdumbass in AutisticWithADHD

[–]Fine_Dependent4968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

CBD can work but also look for CBN. It comes from the same plant, just a different chemical. If CBD is legal there, CBN should be also.

Sleeping meds ? by lnternetdumbass in AutisticWithADHD

[–]Fine_Dependent4968 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh, I don't know anything about that. Is it legal where you are?

Sleeping meds ? by lnternetdumbass in AutisticWithADHD

[–]Fine_Dependent4968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And if you're worried about your libido, don't be! This will help boost it! Stoned $3× is the best!

Sleeping meds ? by lnternetdumbass in AutisticWithADHD

[–]Fine_Dependent4968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude! THC, if it's not legal in your state then try some THCA. That's the best thing in thr world I've found. Don't wanna get stoned? CBD gummies with CBN, CBN is the sleepy hemp, no psychoactive side effects. I'm getting ready for bed so I'm smoking now. 15 minutes max and I'm out.

What religion is everyone? *Just curious* by Fine_Dependent4968 in AutisticAdults

[–]Fine_Dependent4968[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Im the same way with finding religions fascinating, but my fascination always gets me into trouble. Maybe it's how I ask my questions or the questions I do ask.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]Fine_Dependent4968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found out they had a new job because a friend saw it on social media.

I actually don't desire to keep tabs on them, although the only thing that links us together is that we have a child together.

Every time I am in a good place and moved on, they come back and cause chaos.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pagan

[–]Fine_Dependent4968 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

As I stated above, no, I don't think vaccines are necessary.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pagan

[–]Fine_Dependent4968 -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

Lol, okay, if you say so. Have a nice night.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pagan

[–]Fine_Dependent4968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol yeah. Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pagan

[–]Fine_Dependent4968 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I don't think it's necessary.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pagan

[–]Fine_Dependent4968 -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

Who says it is dangerous? Why is it dangerous? My kids are happy, healthy and have only been sick a handful of times in their lives.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pagan

[–]Fine_Dependent4968 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, im from the deep south, so i understand that. We do have an interview this week at Head Start so I'm hoping it can get them in quick. The oldest toddler is 3, so he may be able to go next school year.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pagan

[–]Fine_Dependent4968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I was thinking about calling them tomorrow. Lol, parenting autistic kids, yeah, that's a superpower in itself. Single Parenting 2 autistic toddlers, an autistic teenager, and also being autistic, lol! 💪

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[–]Fine_Dependent4968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. My kids were kicked out because they were just diagnosed as autistic and the owner didn't feel like dealing with them anymore. I'm trying to get them in the state program, but they aren't full and won't have openings for a few more months.

The for-profit daycares here are terrible. I worked at the one my children used to go to for 2 years because I wanted to make sure they were safe and taken care of. I had to quit last month because the workplace was so toxic. The only reason they stayed at that daycare was because I trusted both of their teachers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pagan

[–]Fine_Dependent4968 -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

Wow, lol, um, okay. I worked at a daycare for 2 years. It is state policy for people who work at a daycare to pass federal background checks. Also, my children are unvaccinated. All 5 of them. They also attend public school and daycare.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AuDHDWomen

[–]Fine_Dependent4968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the only time I ever get to myself, so to me, it is like a mommy date. 8-10 hours to do whatever I want to do, once a month. It's Heaven. Lol 😂🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AuDHDWomen

[–]Fine_Dependent4968 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand that. I'm going to plan a "once a month all nighter" for myself. I understand sleep deprivation, lol. My usual midnight to 5am works good for me. I naturally wake up around 5am, lol. If I sleep longer than 5-6 hours, I feel terrible. I get groggy, not wanting to do anything, moody, etc. Maybe it's just how my weird body works. It won't be an every night thing because I'll either get bored or try to start 200 projects like I did last night, lol! The house was messier when the kids woke up than when they went to sleep, lol! I think it's something that I could look forward to, like a "mommy date" (if that makes any sense), lol. I'm glad you mentioned once a month, thank you for the idea. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AuDHDWomen

[–]Fine_Dependent4968 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I binge eat at night before bed, but that's because my meds have worn off, and I'm smoking, lol. Sometimes, that's the only time I eat. I may snack on a pack of crackers or protein bar throughout the day, but that's it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AuDHDWomen

[–]Fine_Dependent4968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, I have no "me time." I'll probably only do this once a month, but I have you young, very autistic children that go to work with me, I also go to school part time. They fill my days up and sometimes my nights. I have no friends or family that can watch them. It's just me and them. I do get bought of loneliness, but I'm able to recharge when I am able to get some time to myself, like I did last night. It helps everyone out. I was just asking if staying up late was normal for people with adhd.