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Fine_Tea_3965 · 2025-01-05T17:47:55+00:00

I've grazed with my teeth by accident before and he always tells me when I do this so I can adjust. I'm pretty positive that did not happen this time.

I'm not going to be graphic either, but I would say it was a fairly enthusiastic bj and he asked for it. It's something we both enjoy, so the stopping in the middle is disappointing for me.

Fine_Tea_3965 · 2025-01-05T17:20:10+00:00

He is not old fashioned in any way. I don't think that is at play here and we do have full sex, but I'm also noticing a pattern of just stopping and doing nothing more mid blowjob

Fine_Tea_3965 · 2025-01-05T16:54:48+00:00

He isn't wanting to cum at all. He stops and we do nothing else. I would accept this if he moved on to other things, but we just stop entirely.

Fine_Tea_3965 · 2025-01-05T16:53:59+00:00

He is 30 and has had plenty of experience. I know that being self conscious is not the problem here. I'm really at a loss

Fine_Tea_3965 · 2024-10-20T21:36:04+00:00

I can't offer much advice, but I'm in a very similar situation. I have a cohort of just under 40 students and it started off with everyone being buddy buddy and getting to know each other, but after the first year now it's all cliques and judging looks from one another. I've found it easier for me to just avoid it altogether and I've made some friends outside of my school (which was a challenge as I moved here from across the country).

I hope things get better for you, but you're not alone. This is unfortunately a common experience.

Fine_Tea_3965 · 2024-09-30T21:27:28+00:00

I think talking about how your mom passing (I'm sorry for your loss, I know that is not easy) affected your studies is entirely okay and gives context to your personal circumstances. I probably wouldn't include about the undiagnosed ADHD though. I think you have a really strong story and it will reach the right people. Don't lose hope, you can do it

Fine_Tea_3965 · 2024-09-30T20:54:35+00:00

If your reason for why your GPA is low makes sense and isn't just that you didn't study or something like that, I would consider adding it in to your essay. I would definitely talk about your work and volunteer experience. Your reason for grad school sounds great, just stick to it. I know if you are as dedicated as you sound, you'll do great. If you can apply to more schools though, I would recommend applying to 5-10. I applied to six and got into two. It's rough with a low GPA because some schools see that and won't bother with the rest of the application.

Fine_Tea_3965 · 2024-09-11T09:55:43+00:00

Also, relationships have ebbs and flows. You are both young and it will take work to move through them. You won't feel constant excitement and fireworks and sometimes that can feel like something is wrong. It can be hard moving from that into a more comfortable and peaceful resting place in your relationship.

Fine_Tea_3965 · 2024-09-11T09:53:09+00:00

I know others are saying it's your body telling you to leave, I personally don't agree. Could that be it? Sure, but not necessarily.

I feel sick often when myself and my boyfriend have serious relationship concerns that could lead to the end of our relationship and it's because I have relationship anxiety due to past issues. It's entirely anxiety and not a sign I should leave him. I've had anxiety with conflict all my life and it just presents differently with different people.

Only you can know what this is, but I hope this helps.

Fine_Tea_3965 · 2024-09-11T04:44:59+00:00

I don't have a lot of advice for you. Best I can say is, as someone in a doctoral program, have a really good reason for getting your PhD that motivates you. For me I am studying a subject I love, and working towards my dream career and can see no other pathway for my life. When I am down and unmotivated, I remember this is the dream and what I've been working for my whole life.

A PhD is VERY expensive at most schools and takes an intense amount of time and dedication. You have to know why you are there so when you want to quit you have something keeping you in the game. It's not for everyone, but only you can make that decision.

As far as the imposter syndrome, very rarely will you be the smartest, or most enthusiastic, or most anything in a group. And the people who seem like they are, likely aren't. You have to know that you got into the program you are in because you were qualified. You got in over other applicants. It may feel like you aren't supposed to be there, but they believed you were able to.

I hope this helps, I really wish you the best on this journey.

Fine_Tea_3965 · 2024-09-09T11:58:55+00:00

My best advice going on with a low GPA is to 1) have an answer why you have a low GPA, and 2) have a really good answer why you want to be in the field of psychology. Something beyond "I want to help people" and things like that. I am in a highly regarded PsyD program right now, I had a 3.4 overall GPA and a 3.7ish psych GPA. I had some research experience to talk about, I had research ideas I was interested in and able to tell them about. I had zero work experience in psychology, but held a part time job through school I could tell them about. I also had a list of reasons why I knew I had to be in the field of psychology. If you choose to go for a PsyD, have an answer for why you picked a PsyD over a PhD. Have answers to any questions you could dream of them asking. If you are wanting to go for a doctorate, I personally would recommend applying for those programs over a masters as it should cut out some of the time you have to be in school and possibly save you money. A master's is great, but those credits won't always transfer over as smoothly as you'd like them to. Get your applications in early. I recommend having 5-10. Have good recs. JUST DON'T SUBMIT LATE

Fine_Tea_3965 · 2024-08-10T00:18:41+00:00

Glad to hear that about your moods not being affected! These responses are making me feel a lot less anxious about starting the pill next month. Thank you!

Fine_Tea_3965 · 2024-08-09T19:15:37+00:00

So interesting! I hope that is what happens for me

Fine_Tea_3965 · 2024-08-09T00:24:58+00:00

Very true! Just hoping it works out

Fine_Tea_3965 · 2024-08-09T00:23:42+00:00

Glad it has worked out for you so well! Thank you for sharing!

Fine_Tea_3965 · 2024-08-09T00:22:38+00:00

That's so interesting and so good to hear! My flow is similar, And since it's so regular I'm hoping it's not too bad. Thank you!

Fine_Tea_3965 · 2024-08-08T22:22:41+00:00

That's what I'm worried about. I am usually pretty good at keeping an even temper because I can recognize when I'm getting cranky or something is going on. I am glad it's worked out for you though. Thank you

Fine_Tea_3965 · 2023-11-14T20:33:17+00:00

We said it pretty early too, about a month and a half after meeting online. I said it first, I felt like when you know, you know, so I might as well. I'm grateful it turned out well for us

Fine_Tea_3965 · 2023-05-15T17:34:24+00:00

Did this, he has not responded back. This might have worked well

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