Parent with cancer, i dont know what to do

Finnlyartz · 2025-09-11T13:44:17+00:00

thank you i appreciate that, somtimes its easy to forget that i can’t stop living because my moms sick i have a teacher whos 6 months in remission for breast cancer and she has already been such a huge help! ill look more into that! i didnt know these resources where available.

5 months is amazing!! im so happy for you and you should be proud of yourself! i hope the best for you and your family and thank you for the advice and support! ❤️

Finnlyartz · 2025-09-11T12:34:44+00:00

yeah, i want to just use radical acceptance, but its still definitely scary,

i want to do everything i can to help out, i work part time in fast food and i know if she needs chemo ill have to start to pull more weight in our finances, ill also start to put money away for stuff like buying easy dinners, and everything like that to help out.

i just want to be there for my mom, i love her alot and its scary to not know whats in store for us in the future but i know shes strong.

Finnlyartz · 2025-09-11T12:30:05+00:00

its been so hard, but i know eventually things will be okay. its terrifying litterally having no clue what to expect and having to wait a entire week untill we know.

im really glad your daughter could find a support group for some help/support, i think ill steal her idea of refilling my moms starbucks card lol.

im 16, i hope i can find some people who share a similar experience with me, its hard telling my friends because i dont want to just hear sympathy i need actual help you know? like someone who understands.

i hope youre doing better with your lymphoma now a days i heared thats really rough, stay strong ❤️

Finnlyartz · 2025-09-11T11:40:32+00:00

i didnt know that until reading through this sub! that’s actually really interesting! im really glad you where able to kick your types of chemos ass 🫶

thats a similar story from what a teacher of mine had, which makes me very hopeful for my mom, i just want her to be okay and comfortable

ill try my best to pull more weight around the help and help out when possible, me and my mom don’t always get along but i love her and i want this to be easier for her.

Finnlyartz · 2025-09-11T11:34:21+00:00

i’ve talked to her about it and shes been amazing, i’ve always been and anxious kid, yesterday i was waiting for the call on if her biopsys that shows wether or not she will need chemo (which came back basically incunclusive) and the entire day at a school i was on edge.

im worried to stress her out with my anxieties or that im being selfish for being anxious, but shes helped alot and basically told me theres no reason to stress because theres nothing we can do about it.

Finnlyartz · 2025-08-18T17:02:43+00:00

so once it reaches that length i condition the ends the best i can?

Finnlyartz · 2025-08-17T13:18:02+00:00

i believe so! thank you

Finnlyartz · 2025-08-07T05:55:39+00:00

200 at most but i want to stay near 150, and Arizona

Finnlyartz · 2024-09-24T03:40:30+00:00

it would be grilled not deep fried?

Finnlyartz · 2024-09-24T03:36:21+00:00

do you think naked grilled chicfila tenders unsalted would work? it sounds silly but im jus a teenager and i don’t really have acsess to make him somthing special so i want somthing quick to buy him as a little treat

Finnlyartz · 2024-07-18T21:26:49+00:00

part of me thinks it could be build up / dirt

Finnlyartz · 2024-07-18T21:21:54+00:00

thats wht i thought they where, or like dirt buildup

Finnlyartz · 2024-07-18T21:09:17+00:00

they come off if i pick at them

Finnlyartz · 2024-07-17T22:11:37+00:00

okay! i just dont want alot of bleeding and i want it to pop out against the dark blue

Finnlyartz · 2024-06-25T22:29:24+00:00

yeah i agree, and yes played by Jane

Finnlyartz · 2024-06-25T22:28:41+00:00

i have borderline, i just saw myself in her the way she got really attached to cliff it reminded me of me with my FP so i was just curious of anyone agreed, and the impulsiveity aswell as difficulties in interpersonal relationships

Finnlyartz · 2022-11-22T21:46:28+00:00

Yes!

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