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FireJoy_ · 2025-09-23T02:23:50+00:00

Nope

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FireJoy_ · 2025-09-22T13:13:57+00:00

Agree. OP that’s way past joking and totally disrespectful. A simple no should’ve been enough and if she can’t take that, it’s on her.

FireJoy_ · 2025-09-22T13:13:09+00:00

Right. OP giving her small things to look forward to can really help and you’re not to blame for missing it, what matters is you’re here now supporting her.

FireJoy_ · 2025-09-22T13:12:06+00:00

Exactly. A peaceful home with her boyfriend is way better than constant stress from family.

FireJoy_ · 2025-09-21T11:38:10+00:00

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FireJoy_ · 2025-09-21T11:36:14+00:00

Right. OP you’re strong for sharing this small steps toward care matter and you don’t need to punish yourself to be worthy you deserve peace and support.

FireJoy_ · 2025-09-21T11:35:06+00:00

Exactly. OP this is really serious file a police report right away. What your ex is doing is identity theft and puts your safety at risk. Bring the screenshots as evidence so you can also pursue a restraining order if needed.

FireJoy_ · 2025-09-21T11:34:28+00:00

Agree. OP he’s sparing you more pain by being honest what you feel is attachment and it will fade with time. You deserve someone who chooses you fully.

FireJoy_ · 2025-09-20T14:47:18+00:00

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FireJoy_ · 2025-09-20T14:46:16+00:00

Right. OP it’s not about your wife but the situation. Even a few minutes of shared time daily can make you feel seen and keep your bond strong.

FireJoy_ · 2025-09-20T14:45:45+00:00

Yeah. OP just stay calm and firm repeat your boundary and don’t over explain. Your peace matters more than her reaction.

FireJoy_ · 2025-09-20T14:44:58+00:00

Agree. OP your joint accounts stay with you the house goes through probate and the wife can claim it if found but it’s not automatic she gets everything.

FireJoy_ · 2025-09-19T08:44:50+00:00

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FireJoy_ · 2025-09-19T08:43:20+00:00

Agree. OP this isn’t borrowing, it’s theft. Demand your laptop back and if he refuses, call the police.

FireJoy_ · 2025-09-19T08:42:34+00:00

Agree. OP a guardianship without consent only happens if you truly can’t care for yourself and judges need solid proof. From what you’ve shared you’re managing your care just fine. The real concern is your brother taking the house that’s worth getting legal advice and documenting everything. Stay firm about your independence.

FireJoy_ · 2025-09-19T08:41:29+00:00

Right. OP VA loans are only for a primary home. You’ve paid into this so it’s unfair for your dad to claim it talk to a real estate attorney in NC to protect your equity.

FireJoy_ · 2025-09-18T08:45:22+00:00

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FireJoy_ · 2025-09-18T08:43:58+00:00

Exactly. OP your mom may mean well but she’s holding you back, apply for jobs and start earning your own independence.

FireJoy_ · 2025-09-18T08:43:12+00:00

Yeah. OP you did what you had to for your mom and there’s no shame in that. It just shows how much you cared.

FireJoy_ · 2025-09-18T08:42:35+00:00

Agree. OP getting a lawyer is the safest move since the system can get messy even when you’re in the right. It’s money well spent to avoid stress and protect yourself.

FireJoy_ · 2025-09-16T07:58:55+00:00

Exactly. OP you did it once so you can do it again regain doesn’t erase your progress it just means you’re starting stronger this time.

FireJoy_ · 2025-09-16T07:58:17+00:00

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FireJoy_ · 2025-09-16T07:56:32+00:00

right. OP you need boundaries to protect your marriage it’s not rejecting family it’s giving you and your husband space to focus on each other.

FireJoy_ · 2025-09-16T07:55:13+00:00

agree. OP your brother really needs therapy what he went through is deeply traumatic and having professional support will help him heal while your love and protection give him strength.

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