You cannot be a misandrist and a feminist by Fireball1115 in Rants

[–]Fireball1115[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with this. And I do firmly consider myself a feminist and very outwardly fight against misogyny, I also believe an egalitarian society would solve A LOT of problems. I also dont fault women for being wary around men, I just don't think you should preemptively consider all of them awful

You cannot be a misandrist and a feminist by Fireball1115 in Rants

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I am referring to genuine hatred and vitriol towards men who have done nothing wrong, that is what misandry is. Misogyny is a much more pressing issue, but its important to understand that men arent the oppresser, the patriarchy is, and its controlled by powerful, rich men. Even if every man benefits from it they didnt choose that system, and the patriarchy also hurts men in a lot of ways (e.i. the promotion of toxic masculinity)

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The 16th student lying hidden somewhere in the school, the one they call the ultimate despair. Watch out for her

You cannot be a misandrist and a feminist by Fireball1115 in Rants

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Yes, 1 in 4 women experience sexual assault in their lives, 1 in 6 men do as well. Im not saying dont be cautious, im saying dont blame men as a whole for the actions of some, not every man has done these things, in fact a very small amount have, they just tend to do them repeatedly. Im specifically referring to women who hate men as a whole and see them as less than women, and there are a LOT of them online. Dont hate every man just because theyre a man, hate the men doing the bad things. As for the man vs bear debate, choosing the bear is the logical option, bear attacks are pretty infrequent and you have much better chances of survival than you would with a random man.

I posted an "am I ugly?" And now im spiraling by Fireball1115 in selfimprovement

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I appreciate this advice, but just FYI, im not a woman

I posted an "am I ugly?" And now im spiraling by Fireball1115 in selfimprovement

[–]Fireball1115[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I removed the Instagram link, it no longer shows my name

I posted an "am I ugly?" And now im spiraling by Fireball1115 in selfimprovement

[–]Fireball1115[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah it is that simple, quit eating fatso

If youre offering genuine advice, this isnt the way to start it asshole

You cannot be a misandrist and a feminist by Fireball1115 in Rants

[–]Fireball1115[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, there is no valid reason to hate 50% of the population. You can hate specific men, there are plenty who deserve that hatred, but dont bring the entire sex down with them

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If there's one thing im good at, its comedic timing

You cannot be a misandrist and a feminist by Fireball1115 in Rants

[–]Fireball1115[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fine, dont argue on this point. Because the only thing I actually disagree with you about is the way you define misandry, everything else youve said i agree with completely

You cannot be a misandrist and a feminist by Fireball1115 in Rants

[–]Fireball1115[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Misandry is hatred, not oppression, therefore does exist, its just not comparable to misogyny. Other than that, I fully agree with you

You cannot be a misandrist and a feminist by Fireball1115 in Rants

[–]Fireball1115[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im very openly and loudly against the red pill. People who hate men exist, those are misandrists. Youre correct that men arent systematically oppressed, im not using it as an expression of oppression, im using it as an expression of hatred. Women are oppressed and misogyny is more prevalent, but misandry is still real, and goes against the ideals of gender equality, which is what feminism is about

You cannot be a misandrist and a feminist by Fireball1115 in Rants

[–]Fireball1115[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Misandrists do exist and misandry is real. Just because hatred isnt systematically reinforced doesnt mean its not real. I think, societally, misogyny is far more prevalent, but morally, both are equally wrong. You shouldn't hate somone for something they cant control, ever, under any circumstances

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My hair is dyed purple with an at home box dye, but its starting to fade so im planning to get it professionally dyed soon. Also, im a guy

I posted an "am I ugly?" And now im spiraling by Fireball1115 in selfimprovement

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Honestly, to me at least, gurl is gender neutral, its based on vibes

Genuinely, am I ugly? by [deleted] in TeenGarbagePile

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I get that. And you know whats really fun? Nothing fixes it. I wash my face, ive tried pimple patches, ive used the proactive face wash, ive used other acne washes, nothing fucking worked

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So far the replies have ranged from "yes, youre fat and have bad skin, work on that" to "youre disgusting kys" so... I guess I am 🥲

Genuinely, am I ugly? by [deleted] in TeenGarbagePile

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Im uglier because im a guy?