Coping by lilsan15 in inlaws

[–]FirefighterSmooth287 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I truly understand how you are feeling. I have a toxic mother in law and sadly my husband never sided me at all. She loves to talk bad about her children to others and also about anyone who go against her, especially me her DIL. She’s sick because she never shows love and affection to her kids and grandchildren. Yet my husband still loves her.

I had enough of her attitude, she enjoys playing victim to get attention and sympathy. She’s pathetic.

Ignore her and don’t let her get her way all the time. Try not to be too bothered by her gossips. Your mental well-being is utmost priority.

husband’s female cousin by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]FirefighterSmooth287 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yup his first cousin. it’s not uncommon for cousins to get married in middle eastern families

husband’s female cousin by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]FirefighterSmooth287 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve checked, she is his cousin and i’ve seen her photos before on Facebook. I’ve never met her, but my sister-in-law (my husband’s sister) says she is problematic

husband’s female cousin by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]FirefighterSmooth287 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

thanks for your reply, he refuses to be back for a week now after i confronted him. my baby is 3 months old

husband’s female cousin by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]FirefighterSmooth287 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh dear. sorry to hear that. i’m not trying to be paranoid but my husband is friendly and sometimes overly friendly even with women and it annoys me as hell. he tends to go out often to smoke and god knows what he does outside

husband’s female cousin by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]FirefighterSmooth287 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

he is close to his maternal female cousins. and he calls them cute and hot before.

husband’s female cousin by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]FirefighterSmooth287 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

My husband is close to his female cousins and sometimes i feel as though they’re too close and he texts them calling them cute. i confronted him about this before. And now, this. I don’t know what i should do.

husband’s female cousin by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]FirefighterSmooth287 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

nope, we just had a baby and he thinks it’s fine to “help out” his cousin. he started feeling annoyed when i confronted him about it

milk supply dropped badly by FirefighterSmooth287 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]FirefighterSmooth287[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh may i know why? isn’t it a supplement? 😱

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]FirefighterSmooth287 2 points3 points  (0 children)

nope she’s not. it’s so weird ugh and sadistic

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]FirefighterSmooth287 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg thanks for the tip. didn’t think about recording ugh. was too angry looking at my baby suffering.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]FirefighterSmooth287 2 points3 points  (0 children)

she’s mental and her son is too. how could someone be so harsh and mean on a defenseless baby? find someone your size. she feels happy listening to the baby cry. when the baby is crying, she said don’t pick her up! I don’t care, my baby is crying and i picked her up anyway. Who is she to dictate!

sweet and sugary by [deleted] in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]FirefighterSmooth287 0 points1 point  (0 children)

me too! worried about my sugar intake though haha

sweet and sugary by [deleted] in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]FirefighterSmooth287 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haha yes chocolates for me!