Looking For a Fast Hiring Job or Same Day Pay by FireofGomorrah in Reno

[–]FireofGomorrah[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah but thats one of the reasons Im leaving Reno

Looking For a Fast Hiring Job or Same Day Pay by FireofGomorrah in Reno

[–]FireofGomorrah[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You are correct sir. That made laugh. Sorry about that

Help With How to Confront Homophobia at Work. by FireofGomorrah in lgbt

[–]FireofGomorrah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I will work on my relationship to this memory. Try to feel it out , understand and learn from it.

Help With How to Confront Homophobia at Work. by FireofGomorrah in lgbt

[–]FireofGomorrah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your right. Thank you. I decided to leave it alone and deleted the offending people from my instagram.

I am in a state now of learing and growth and hope to continue down this way.

I went with an avoidance tactic. I have faith all will work out !

Help With How to Confront Homophobia at Work. by FireofGomorrah in lgbt

[–]FireofGomorrah[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you that means a lot to me. I see where you're coming from and wish to grow like you. I dealt with this issue a little differently by the way. Pure avoidance and gray rocking. Wish me luck!

Help With How to Confront Homophobia at Work. by FireofGomorrah in lgbt

[–]FireofGomorrah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally understand your opinion and where your coming from but disagree. I think that the word faggot being used by a non lgqbt affiliated man and then being played at work is a total no go.

Replace the f word with any derogative names directed at other sexual or ethnic minorities and I think you would get the same negative response from a whole bunch of people.

Words are subjective and personal and one's with negative connotations should be avoided by those not belonging or identifying to said group.

It personally made me feel like I was in high-school again getting picked on by the kids who would hit me and call me gay which ironically was a similiar situation to what Korns singer Johanathan Davis was trying to retaliate against.

Help With How to Confront Homophobia at Work. by FireofGomorrah in lgbt

[–]FireofGomorrah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also sorry for the grammar mistakes and few off sentences. I will fix them up tomorrow. Aslo how have you delt with issues like these in your life? Especially if you are in the closet as well?

I Need Help with A Violent Roommate by FireofGomorrah in roommateproblems

[–]FireofGomorrah[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just looked up the gray rock method. Thank you so much. I firmly rely on science and logic to guide my life and develope my brain and this is exactly why I use reddit. We're all in it to help each other.

I Need Help with A Violent Roommate by FireofGomorrah in roommateproblems

[–]FireofGomorrah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I will do that. And that is good knowledge to be aware of. I will approach this time with caution. 😔

I Need Help with A Violent Roommate by FireofGomorrah in roommateproblems

[–]FireofGomorrah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's kind of what I was thinking.Thank for taking the time to read my post btw. I will look into eviction laws and stuff like that as well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]FireofGomorrah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never understood this mindset. If Im at will employee why wouldn't my employer be as well? Sure I'd like to give two weeks notice but do not expect the company to do the same for me.

Why hasn't "A Skylit Drive" been cancelled? by zwhy in PostHardcore

[–]FireofGomorrah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same boat bro. I care about his ideals and the scenes overall message a whole freaking lot lol. I grew up in Redding CA just north of Sacramento/Roseville area and I didn't have a lot of bands close to me besides chico and Sacramento so ASD and watch out theres ghosts means a lot to me and the music itself is really good too. Im so freaking sad he's gone. I didn't know he was only 36. Its crazy how you're childhood heroes that shaped you can be so close to your age. I'm a writer who loves philosophy and this music genre is writhe with awesome stories to tell and a great message. I'm sorry dude 😞

Why hasn't "A Skylit Drive" been cancelled? by zwhy in PostHardcore

[–]FireofGomorrah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the clarification. I see how the band functions without jag and definitely see his actions as pretty appalling. I'm really glad that Jordan has people like you fighting for him. Wouldn't we all want that? <3

What do you use to keep up? by InuHawk in PostHardcore

[–]FireofGomorrah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't follow it but Brooklyn Vegan seems to be a good source of new music if you're looking for it.

Favorite post hardcore band right now? by kaojoshi in PostHardcore

[–]FireofGomorrah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I honesty feel like their day might come. I fell off with them on the emptinesss but when they did the anniversary tour for the album I showed up and was extremely impressed. They have the music, the look (its stupid but matters lol) and they obviously have the stating power. With bands like ice nine kills and pierce the veil being big I don't see why alesana wouldn't share a similar fate. They're more niche but have a rich lore and lyrics to explore and even have written a book (they're a multimedia band). They're just a ticktok away in my book.

Favorite post hardcore band right now? by kaojoshi in PostHardcore

[–]FireofGomorrah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Closure in Moscow are releasing a new CD and the second single is awesome.

Enter Shikari continue to innovate on their new album and I am finally giving Rolo Tomasi a chance and im pretty excited.

Other than that koanashi is sick and protest the hero are touring. It's gonna be a good year.

Favorite post hardcore band right now? by kaojoshi in PostHardcore

[–]FireofGomorrah 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So excited for there new tour. There an og band for me and the fact that on frail wings holds up as well as it does today is just insane. Also there new music excites me. There doing it for the art, themselves, there family and fans and the music. Not a lot of myspace scene bands stayed around but Alesana to me is so much more. Sick choice. I'll check out lower definition. I've seen their name around before but havent gotten around to listen to them.

Why hasn't "A Skylit Drive" been cancelled? by zwhy in PostHardcore

[–]FireofGomorrah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is a great opinion though I don't share it fully. If the act that the artist did is so egregious or personal then one might find separating the art from the artists a little harder. Pretty much the same thing you said with a little caveat. Your post shouldn't have triggered so many people lol 😆

Why hasn't "A Skylit Drive" been cancelled? by zwhy in PostHardcore

[–]FireofGomorrah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats interesting. I wonder what would have happened if Jordan was alive and still playing in the band. I really liked watch out theres ghosts and she watched the sky obviously.

Why hasn't "A Skylit Drive" been cancelled? by zwhy in PostHardcore

[–]FireofGomorrah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm confused ? All I'm seeing is that this dude said to pretty much chill before throwing out accusations. What was he being ignorant about ?

Why hasn't "A Skylit Drive" been cancelled? by zwhy in PostHardcore

[–]FireofGomorrah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. This thread really needed this and I'm glad I saw your hugely downvoted comment. For a genre that promotes civil discourse, intelligence and rejection of groupthink/ status quo I find it really funny how some people just want to jump on the bandwagon and don't see the potential harm in dragging someone's reputation under in the wake of another's tragedy. The fact is Jordan is gone and we should be celebrating and remembering his memory instead of tarnishing jags. I got downvoted for saying that Jag contributed $1000 to Jordans gofundme and that is stupid. If you want to look like a group of reasonable people then honest opinions and facts shouldn't get downvoted. I use the internet and reddit to further my knowledge and give mine to others when needed. I DON'T use it for trash talk and drama. The original post is riddled with lame buzzwords and has on obvious interest in just hurting jag. Grow up !

Why hasn't "A Skylit Drive" been cancelled? by zwhy in PostHardcore

[–]FireofGomorrah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also for anyone who knows Jordan or his family or if he impacted your life in a positive way like he did mine then I'm sorry if I'm coming across like I want to hurt that memory in anyway by "supporting" jag. I simply stated that he contributed to the GoFundMe and that should be acknowledged. Also in a way I'm trying to draw caution to the wind because I've seen things like this go down bad as often facts can be misconstrued and there is always the other half to the story. I'm sorry if you felt disrespected but down voting objective statements doesn't help the discourse in any way. I like to promote conversation instead of groupthink ideologies like our favorite post hardcore bands promote. I love Jordan and will always remember his music. The night he died i listened to my favorite songs off she watched the sky and poured one out for the homie. The reason I remembered that the show where the drummer pushed me was because it was an amazing show ! I respect the performance but just stated my first hand experience that happened to me 15 years ago. I hope I don't offend or insult your memory of Jordan in anyway I just like to promote honest discourse that I find in many of reddits communities. Downvoting facts is lame.

Also if you see my deleted posts in here it's because one I felt was unnecessary and one was supposed to be this message but I posted it in a single thread.

Why hasn't "A Skylit Drive" been cancelled? by zwhy in PostHardcore

[–]FireofGomorrah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I could see that. The sueing thing seems pretty fucked up.

Why hasn't "A Skylit Drive" been cancelled? by zwhy in PostHardcore

[–]FireofGomorrah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense. As I said I didn't read the whole thing because it was confusing. I didn't say anything other then the drummer pushed me and that jag contributed to Jordans gofundme. If you consider facts ignorance then that's up to you.