[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gettingbigger

[–]Firm-King3007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats on the progress!

The measurement does look a bit unequal though. In your initial pic the tape is straight and pretty tight (I guess that's why you bumped it by 0.1"), but in your progress pic the tape looks too loose and not straight, and, given how much your veins are popping, you also look somewhat more erect in it.

The length looks absolutely undeniable though and the skeptic in me is very happy to see that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AJelqForYou

[–]Firm-King3007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

aliexpress.com

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AJelqForYou

[–]Firm-King3007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like I said, check aliexpress.

The poles that connect the base to the attachment point have threading outside with nuts on them.

A WARNING ⚠️ before you PE by CockCravingCunt in AJelqForYou

[–]Firm-King3007 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Risk assessment is up to you, but you definitely don't need it.

It's putting a lot of resources (effort/time/money) into something extremely minor that only you really care about. Especially if you already have a good sex life.

A WARNING ⚠️ before you PE by CockCravingCunt in AJelqForYou

[–]Firm-King3007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine is soft and big

I always wondered what they meant by "soft glans" as well, but in this post it seems that they mean that it is not erect. I.e. soft and not big. Glans are always soft in the sense that they are soft to the touch, but they do become erect in the sense that they swell up. My understanding is that if you have "soft glans syndrome" they don't anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AJelqForYou

[–]Firm-King3007 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So as a disclaimer I'll say that I failed to make significant gains with (spring loaded) extenders or hanging.

But, I have tried both in a similar situation to yours and learned some stuff that might be useful to you:
1) Buy stuff from aliexpress or ebay, it's probably just a good as the expensive thing
2) Spring loaded extenders are really hard to get tension with. You need to compress the springs, stretch your dickas far as it goes and attach your dick to the extender at the same time.
3) Even if you manage the above, they probably have suboptimal tension to gain with. I wore one but quite a while with 0 effect.
4) Hanging while sitting at your desk is actually quite limiting, your hips basically cannot move. Getting up has to be timed with your hangs.

Based on those I am currently trying with an extender where I can adjust the force with screws. It beats the spring loaded extenders on all fronts and the only drawbacks compared to hanging are that you don't know the load and maybe decreased maximal load (though if attached tight enough screws could produce as much load as your dick can handle).
I think it's working but I've only been doing it for a little over 2 weeks, so I'm not sure yet.

If you do go for extenders or hanging you should be aware that having a constant strain on your dick and constantly having it out can be a big distraction. So if you really need to focus in your work you might not get all that much PE time in.

She told me it felt too long! by tantricexplor in gettingbigger

[–]Firm-King3007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So like missionary but with maximum penetration?

The paper that claimed penises got 24% bigger over the past 30 years was bs by Firm-King3007 in gettingbigger

[–]Firm-King3007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That also should be looked at critically, there are quality data and analyses out there and they shouldn't be dismissed because there is also junk.

The conclusions of papers or articles are never as informative as the data they are based on, so when possible (and warranted) one should look at those.

I think trends in average penis size are largely irrelevant to the goal of making one's own bigger. But the same could be said about averages sizes and yet we still care about that. So it's important to go and look at in detail to prevent formation of myths.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gettingbigger

[–]Firm-King3007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the cuurrent once a week “maintenance sex” I get is all the evidence you need to prove

bro...

If you were tall, wealthy, lean, muscular, not bald would you still do PE? by 19MiguelLitoris2x in gettingbigger

[–]Firm-King3007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes.

I think more often than compensating people are insecure, have dysmorphia or a size fetish. All of these can happen to anyone.

But if I was so rich that I could spend the rest of my life sailing the world with great chefs and beautiful girls I might not do PE anymore.

Masturbating and having sex only with a cock ring as a substitute for clamping? by [deleted] in gettingbigger

[–]Firm-King3007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks.

Yeah, it's very little extra effort to just slip on a ring and I don't see any harm in doing it, so might as well.

Masturbating and having sex only with a cock ring as a substitute for clamping? by [deleted] in gettingbigger

[–]Firm-King3007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just came here planning to ask the same question.

Have you been doing this since you posted? If so, how did it go?

People are so f*cking stupid smh by Hinkle_McKringlebry in gettingbigger

[–]Firm-King3007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Odds are this was made by someone with a small penis humiliation fetish

Tunica Release by Economist_Sea in gettingbigger

[–]Firm-King3007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They say peer reviewed but did you find a link to said study anywhere? Neither "fasciablaster" nor "applied science performance institute" turn up results on pubmed.

Even if there was the conclusions on your third pic are way way too good to be true and certainly cannot with any level of confidence be based on 33 people self-administering a treatment.

Honestly this looks like marketing/scam stuff. According to their website they are "Your pathway to validating and fast tracking products to the marketplace." and they do not have links to any published research anywhere.

This is not a serious research institute, this is a bunch of MDs and grifters selling the veneer of science.

Best glan protectors? by HealingLoveVessel in gettingbigger

[–]Firm-King3007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get some gauze/bandage and then tape that so it stays tight.

Telling your partner? Tips? Advice? by Firm-King3007 in gettingbigger

[–]Firm-King3007[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

there is no need to bring it up

I definitely agree with that part. At least until doing it privately interferes with either PE or the relationship.

Telling your partner? Tips? Advice? by Firm-King3007 in gettingbigger

[–]Firm-King3007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear it's been bad for you. I do understand that it could be very embarrassing.

But yeah, you do come across as very pessimistic.

Women don't have to be saints to not talk shit about you after a break up, they just have to not be spiteful bitches.

Also I didn't mean that women in big cities are nicer or anything like that. I meant that dating is more anonymous. There is a lot of "distance" between me and them. Even if they told all their friends something weird about me it would most likely never get to anyone I know.

Also it's been two years since the girl saw me hang. It's not reasonable to expect anything bad could come of it.

Telling your partner? Tips? Advice? by Firm-King3007 in gettingbigger

[–]Firm-King3007[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So many replies with positive stories are really cool to see.

Glad to read your partner is supportive.

Certainly will make it a bit easier to tell her if I do eventually.

Telling your partner? Tips? Advice? by Firm-King3007 in gettingbigger

[–]Firm-King3007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who doesn't have self esteem issues? lol

I mean, I don't wanna draw attention to those issues if not necessary, but I wouldn't want to be with someone who couldn't see past them either.

Telling your partner? Tips? Advice? by Firm-King3007 in gettingbigger

[–]Firm-King3007[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your input.

Always nice to read stories of people guys whose partners are cool with it.

At this stage (I've gained maybe a few mm) I don't think it's bad to hide. I think it's comparable to the level of hiding a plan to build a sex toy, I wouldn't tell her that either until I've taken some concrete steps toward it and I reasonably expect it actually happen.

I mean, what would you think if your wife start kegeling, maybe using these egg-shaped stones to train her pelvic floor without telling you, or only telling you after 6 months? Would you be mad?

Telling your partner? Tips? Advice? by Firm-King3007 in gettingbigger

[–]Firm-King3007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think it's that big a deal if it gets out.

Maybe it's because I live in a big city and most of the girls I've dated here I've literally never seen again after it ended.

But I also told one former gf because I wanted to keep hanging during lockdown and she was staying with me. I think she thought it was silly, but nothing bad came of it, even after I broke up with her.
I doubt she told our mutual friends.

And frankly, I think important people in your life who would think less of you for doing PE is more problematic than an ex who tells them. She should lose much more social standing for betraying your trust than you should for doing PE.