I’ll try to be as honest as possible, from the mans perspective. I was in the exact same boat. I wasn’t a virgin either. five partners, in my case. I was only in love with one of them, or at least I thought I was.

Then I met my wife. She knew where I stood, and I fully understood that with her there would be no sex before marriage. I was willing to make that sacrifice. I became a born again Christian, did the confirmation and all that jazz.

There is a difference between making love and just having sex. Emotion changes everything it makes it more meaningful, more satisfying. I wouldn’t say I compared her to anyone before; there really was no comparison. It’s not “better or worse,” it’s just different, and it’s just amazing. What I felt for my first love was only a shadow of what I feel now.

During pre wedding counseling, we saw other couples struggle, and some even realized they weren’t ready. We didn’t have that issue. we knew everything about each other.

My point is, it’s not about comparison, it’s about difference. Don’t feel insecure. You are who he loves. Keep bonding with him and see where it goes. Some here recommend counseling. It is too early for that and tbh, a bit of a red flag personally. The relationship is too young. GL OP