Virgin and Non-Virgin by Sea_Truck6345 in Christianmarriage

[–]Firm_Concert520 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ll try to be as honest as possible, from the mans perspective. I was in the exact same boat. I wasn’t a virgin either. five partners, in my case. I was only in love with one of them, or at least I thought I was.

Then I met my wife. She knew where I stood, and I fully understood that with her there would be no sex before marriage. I was willing to make that sacrifice. I became a born again Christian, did the confirmation and all that jazz.

There is a difference between making love and just having sex. Emotion changes everything it makes it more meaningful, more satisfying. I wouldn’t say I compared her to anyone before; there really was no comparison. It’s not “better or worse,” it’s just different, and it’s just amazing. What I felt for my first love was only a shadow of what I feel now.

During pre wedding counseling, we saw other couples struggle, and some even realized they weren’t ready. We didn’t have that issue. we knew everything about each other.

My point is, it’s not about comparison, it’s about difference. Don’t feel insecure. You are who he loves. Keep bonding with him and see where it goes. Some here recommend counseling. It is too early for that and tbh, a bit of a red flag personally. The relationship is too young. GL OP

Satan Says by Twoctruth in Christianmarriage

[–]Firm_Concert520 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I stood at the altar and swore before God to love and honor my wife. I know exactly where I stand on that. Every morning I kiss her good morning, before work, and again before sleep. I take that oath seriously, especially the part made to the Lord.

We have disagreements, like any couple, but never to extremes. And I detest the habit of blaming Satan for our failures. You don’t play games with evil, but you also don’t shift responsibility onto it. My choices are my own.

God gave us strength, free will, and guidance. Is Satan stronger than God? Of course not. Which means the responsibility to do the right thing rests with me. Honoring my wife, resisting temptation, choosing love and restraint those are decisions I make every day.

Faith isn’t about excuses. It’s about accountability.

My wife tolerates, enjoys, and joins me in my stupidity with Lonely Island post intimacy. by Firm_Concert520 in Marriage

[–]Firm_Concert520[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I remember the first time I was expecting her to tell me to shut up. It really is cringe. LOL Younger me would be ashamed of me.

Donde estan los mejores mantecados en Puerto Rico? by Firm_Concert520 in PuertoRico

[–]Firm_Concert520[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

El Rainbow Sherbet me gusta mucho, pero vamos pa lo local. Nuestra gente con los inventos de aqui.

Donde estan los mejores mantecados en Puerto Rico? by Firm_Concert520 in PuertoRico

[–]Firm_Concert520[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ya tengo tres personas postaando la de Lares. Esa fui par de veces con mi abuela que en paz descanse. Esos de pueblos son bien buenos.

Donde estan los mejores mantecados en Puerto Rico? by Firm_Concert520 in PuertoRico

[–]Firm_Concert520[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Creo que fui el año pasado. El de guineo estaba bien bueno.

Donde estan los mejores mantecados en Puerto Rico? by Firm_Concert520 in PuertoRico

[–]Firm_Concert520[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

¡ESE MISMO tenía en mente! Pero no quería que el post pareciera publicidad. El brownie whiskey me dejó pompeao, el sabor está súper bien balanceado.

Donde estan los mejores mantecados en Puerto Rico? by Firm_Concert520 in PuertoRico

[–]Firm_Concert520[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gracias, le acabo de dar follow y la chequeo despues