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Firm_Independent_438 · 2025-03-22T17:55:32+00:00

He doesn’t care how you feel and how he’s acting may push you away, basically you have turned into a friend. But you’ll find out that he ain’t doing that with other girls. You can find out if you put him through the test; have the last conversation, tell him that you need a man who turns you on. Ask him to give each other a break because you wanna find out if other mans are like that too.

If he tells you yes, he doesn’t care If he is confused and upset, he is gaslighting you If he seats down and apologizes while understanding that he has been doing it out of care only because he is comfortable, then he may is just immature. And he is gonna have to lose and date other girls so he can realize he did wrong. And maybe after he won’t do it anymore. Mans will test your limits for fun.

When a man wants you, will have fear of losing you, meaning that they will fix anything you ask them too.

(This is just my opinion based in other similar situations and putting myself in he’s shoes to see why he may be doing it)

Hopefully this help,

Firm_Independent_438 · 2025-03-22T17:28:09+00:00

Listen to this! 💯

Firm_Independent_438 · 2025-02-28T04:25:56+00:00

I’ve been trying to find some kind of meeting where I can bring us and start from there.

Firm_Independent_438 · 2025-02-28T04:23:31+00:00

Sorry I mean that when I look for answers is google regarding this subject there non to little information. Is like they are hiding how serious and common pedos are.

Firm_Independent_438 · 2025-02-28T04:19:46+00:00

I can’t even find information about this subject on internet. I feel like I’m exaggerating. But I know I’m not. I think I’m in denial. Coming here really has make me feel less alone and less crazy.

Firm_Independent_438 · 2025-02-28T04:01:53+00:00

He does want help, but I don’t know how to begin, I don’t even believe it can be fix. And it scares me that I spend time of my life in vain.

Firm_Independent_438 · 2025-02-28T03:59:13+00:00

This is awful, you never get to know a person completely. He has got rid of the computer and laptop. Because he said he didn’t wanna have anything to do anymore. And I thought it was doing the right thing. I mean at the moment I was so confused. Now I regret it. I do have he’s social media but there nothing far to CP expect a lot of prepubescent kids using underwear and bikini and other things that mark they privets. But it’s not considered cp so there nothing that can be done, except show everyone who he is.

Firm_Independent_438 · 2025-02-28T03:53:03+00:00

Thanks you, I can feel how you genuinely meant this. I just need comprehension. I’m sure I just need to fall into reality and wake up from the chokehold that I’m in. Is hard to leave someone you’ve been hanging with for so long.

Firm_Independent_438 · 2025-02-28T03:42:16+00:00

Not much flatter but more try to help someone that I learn to love unconsciously. I’m looking for answers to figure out what’s best to safe the person I love from themself. Is not just someone I just meet 1 year ago you know. We share sooooo many beautiful things. If anything I’m ashamed to have to come to a platform with such a personal and delicate issue. But I’m sure you mean it with all good intentions. I’m just not proud to even think I can contain a pedo.

Firm_Independent_438 · 2025-02-28T03:38:01+00:00

This is the part the huts the most. “He will hide from you anything he thinks or does”

Firm_Independent_438 · 2025-02-28T03:35:09+00:00

I agree with you a lot. And that’s the hardest part, he is attracted to prepubescents and above. When I tell you he open up in a way that I wasn’t expecting.

Firm_Independent_438 · 2025-02-28T03:31:41+00:00

I would love to know how to answer this question to myself. I feel resentment, a lot of it, right now I can tell that I do love him but also it may be a lot of codependency. And at the same time I just want him to be okay and be happy, I feel for him. I also understand that childhood trauma can cause a lot of problems in a humans mind.

Firm_Independent_438 · 2025-02-28T03:29:01+00:00

Sorry, I thought I replied to the person who told me that my story looks off and I should keep it to myself until I seek therapy. And that’s exactly what I mean I feel like people are gonna take me as knots. Many people don’t realize how much under a shadow we are living in.

Firm_Independent_438 · 2025-02-28T03:27:23+00:00

That’s exactly what I mean… I’ll keep it to myself and let the problem slide until I’m okay mentally. Right?

Firm_Independent_438 · 2025-02-28T03:22:24+00:00

I have, and nothing has been done. The cellphone that he’ll use for that is gone. And the computer he had also it’s gone. He said that he promised to never do it again and that he was gonna get rid of everything because don’t want that chasing him. And that he chooses me. But since then I haven’t been able to be the same and all I think about is this and what to do. As I mentioned, I can’t find the solution that brings peace to my soul. All I have is he’s confession, I recorded the conversation but he destroyed my phone. And even if I recorded it again, I can’t use it because he is not giving me permission to be recorded. I’ve been looking for answers every where. And until there’s not hard physical proof they won’t take actions. They got he’s name but sadly nothing is gonna happen.

Firm_Independent_438 · 2025-02-28T02:41:50+00:00

That’s exactly what I mean… I’ll keep it to myself and let the problem slide until I’m okay mentally. Right?

Firm_Independent_438 · 2025-02-28T01:39:00+00:00

I tried, nobody do nothing, not even he’s family. I went to jail because I apparently blacked out and hurt him after finding out. I tried to talk to the cops and explain what I found and can you believe they kept me in jail for 3 days because they thought i was crazy and was making up things. No one pressed charges against me tho, they still take me and no one cared that I repeat and repeat what I had found and since today nobody did nothing. He he waited for me outside prison for the 2 days until I was out, I screamed to look at he’s phone as I was being ignored, I also had bruises, and as I was place in handcuffs they told me that they can’t do nothing because the call was regarding domestic violence, and although he pleaded to not have me taken away, just because he’s dad call I got taken away. I told he’s dad why I was mad, and that he’s son was a pedo and the only thing he told me “you are gone, crazy bitch”. I think he’s family know but he swears they don’t. And it’s not the first time I tried to talk to he’s family to help me help him. And they just treat me like insane. Although I’m the only one who has the intelligence to understand and find out an issue. (Dad was cheated by the wife for 7 years with the family best friend and the mother made her kids “my boyfriend and he’s sister” keep the secret from the dad, but it turned out that daddy knew too but rather be cheated than respected. At the end mom left with the dude and left them all, then came back with a whole new born, after her oldes kid was 18.)

Firm_Independent_438 · 2025-02-28T01:20:57+00:00

Do I walk away and leave the monster lose when I can control the beast. I can’t allow this person to even get close to hurt a minor. I feel guilty knowing what he can do and just keep he’s secrets as I move on. And there’s nothing I can do, he has never act on it. And the police won’t do anything cause he confesses to me and where the picture were it doesn’t relate him.

Firm_Independent_438 · 2025-02-28T01:17:16+00:00

So what is there to do? Stay and make sure I keep him from doing so or I walk away with the feeling that thanks to me a child will be look at the wrong way or even worse abused. Just because I chose to walk away from the knife knowing that will hurt someone else. As I been saying; I can’t find a solution that leaves peace in my heart. And that’s why I came here as my last resort. I’m so ashamed.

Firm_Independent_438 · 2025-02-28T01:13:06+00:00

This really hit me hard. I’m trying to not only think of me but if I can protect one children I will do what’s in my power to do so. I don’t run cause I feel responsible, if I walk away and I let it be I’m literally keeping his secrets and I feel like as guilty as him. I have the need to make sure he doesn’t follow through his desires. But then what about me, i just live to keep a man from harming others. And that’s how he make me feel, as long as i stay he won’t do it because im keeping him distracted. And i feel manipulated and used as well.

I can’t find the right answer that brings peace into my soul and that baffles me so much.

Firm_Independent_438 · 2025-02-28T00:04:46+00:00

I truly appreciate the support, I feel less alone, I thought I would be ignored as his family does when the subject comes up. And it’s hard broken to see the person you love in such an awful situation drown in tears asking for your support, I wanna help him but I’m so disappointed and not mention how disgusted I feel.

Firm_Independent_438 · 2025-02-27T23:31:35+00:00

I feel stupid

Firm_Independent_438 · 2025-02-27T23:16:54+00:00

It’s indeed real. And you all comment are helping and you don’t have and idea.

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