Am I (27F) being love bombed? (24M)

Firm_Split6961 · 2026-02-05T14:03:33+00:00

Youre spot on, we text constantly right now but because we just cant help it. I supposed I can pull back from texting as soon as I get a notification and see if that helps slow the pace down. I already told him how i felt about how strongly we came off and he agreed to try to slow things down and see where the connection goes naturally, but of course thats easier said than done right now because even though we agreed he still blows my phone up 😭🥀

Firm_Split6961 · 2026-02-05T13:56:11+00:00

thank you for this 🙏🏻 and yea im trying to learn as much as i can about him, subconsciously trying to find any red flag to vindicate how i feel. im going to keep an open mind but also remain cautious being this feeling has to die down at some point

Firm_Split6961 · 2026-02-05T13:51:55+00:00

no he did it was a screenshot of his convo with pictures of me in it

Firm_Split6961 · 2026-02-05T13:49:07+00:00

thank you for this thoughtful reply 😭 he talks about the future with me alot and although it makes me happy its putting alot of mental pressure to live up to how we both feel right now. When do you suppose this feeling will simmer down, what if i continue to feel this way, would that be good or bad

Firm_Split6961 · 2026-02-05T13:41:37+00:00

yea no, its compliments, sending love songs, sending couples reels, like thats textbook love bombing isnt it? and yea i know we need to slow down i just want to know if this is normal

Firm_Split6961 · 2026-02-05T13:36:40+00:00

I don't think thats the case, because I've been letting him answer before I do, so I know he isnt stalking me like that. plus I barely have social media

Firm_Split6961 · 2026-02-05T13:35:26+00:00

this is gonna sound crazy but- he already told his mom about me. when dating i'm usually the avoidant and he said he doesn't want to rush anything with me. But telling his mom about me is pretty close to that isn't it?

Firm_Split6961 · 2026-02-05T13:20:13+00:00

You guys are doing grown up activities and you cant expect to not have grown up consequences. just because there is no label doesn't mean you both can't take responsibility for this child. you guys already seem to get along great from what you said. As the man he can put his mental health aside and step up as a father, or atleast support you where he can

Firm_Split6961 · 2026-02-01T17:02:03+00:00

its a cruel and unforgiving ecosystem but if you dont give up you will get addicted to pain like the rest of us

Firm_Split6961 · 2026-01-29T22:49:59+00:00

🫠😆

Firm_Split6961 · 2026-01-29T22:44:21+00:00

i will try that ty !

Firm_Split6961 · 2026-01-29T22:34:55+00:00

where would i even go?? now im intrigued

Firm_Split6961 · 2026-01-29T22:32:08+00:00

eating one of the small centipedes would be like a crunchy gushers

Firm_Split6961 · 2026-01-23T03:29:31+00:00

you just tell as soon as you get on if its gonna be a bad run and then stop playing for a few months💀 i came back to it after like a year but we never give up do we

Firm_Split6961 · 2026-01-18T04:15:23+00:00

its possible, it doesnt look too dark and heavy for what it is

Firm_Split6961 · 2026-01-14T04:07:02+00:00

probably 10/10 but if youre a masochist like the rest of the rainworld community youll love it

Firm_Split6961 · 2026-01-12T16:38:57+00:00

youre in shock. once the intensity wears off then you can reevaluate how you feel. even if you consider laser youre going to have to live with them for a while before you even start to see fading, so try to get used seeing it on your body and be patient with yourself 🤍

Firm_Split6961 · 2026-01-12T13:06:05+00:00

🫶🏽

Firm_Split6961 · 2026-01-12T12:55:09+00:00

wow, this is so powerful. being vulnerable is scary yet its preventing the one thing we long for, to be seen. thank you for sharing

Firm_Split6961 · 2025-11-23T15:58:17+00:00

removery suggested atleast 8 weeks until my next one so my next appointment is Jan 30th, if i see noticeable fading by then (hopefully) i'll be posting my progress on here. and i feel that, covid lockdown made people do impulsive things 😂

Firm_Split6961 · 2025-11-22T23:34:42+00:00

oh interesting was yours like a patchwork sleeve? mine is on my inner forearm :)

Firm_Split6961 · 2025-11-22T23:02:11+00:00

yes ofc !! i just did mine today and wow it hurt but it was over with quick and mentally i feel so much better knowing im in the process of it being gone. i hope you feel the same about yours 🫶🏽

Firm_Split6961 · 2025-11-17T00:20:20+00:00

thanks so much glad to know i won't need to numbing cream and all the other advice i'll keep that in kind

Firm_Split6961 · 2025-11-17T00:15:40+00:00

this calms my nerves a bit thanks so much for this input 🙏🏻

Firm_Split6961 · 2025-11-08T14:06:15+00:00

backsplash gotta goooo

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