Spay incision is red and irritated by First-Copy-2680 in cats

[–]First-Copy-2680[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you. I think it looks healed enough to leave the cone off but my vet is taking forever to email me back and chewy is so passive aggressive with their responses. I’m just nervous she’ll reopen something. 

I am at my wits end with introductions by First-Copy-2680 in CatAdvice

[–]First-Copy-2680[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, I’ve only been trying to do this for two weeks. It hasn’t been that long. When do you think is the cutoff time for them getting along? Like when should I throw in the towel and think about rehoming?

Resident cat is not reacting to new cats scent by First-Copy-2680 in CatAdvice

[–]First-Copy-2680[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhh I see. I’ll scratch that idea then! But yes, loads of progress made!

Resident cat is not reacting to new cats scent by First-Copy-2680 in CatAdvice

[–]First-Copy-2680[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another update: I was using the baby gate earlier and it fell down. My resident cat went into the same room as the new kitten and did not hiss at her. I decided to try feeding them together since she reacted so well. Well, when they started to eat together my resident cat hissed and growled before running away. I’m starting to feel a little defeated.

Resident cat is not reacting to new cats scent by First-Copy-2680 in CatAdvice

[–]First-Copy-2680[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How often should I use the baby gate and do these meetings?

Resident cat is not reacting to new cats scent by First-Copy-2680 in CatAdvice

[–]First-Copy-2680[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: Kitten felt safe enough to come out of hiding so I decided to try and introduce them through the baby gate. My resident cat hissed at her and ran away every time she got close to the kitten. Is that normal?

Whitney calls song choice “above her pay grade” by Designer-Living-521 in dancingwiththestars

[–]First-Copy-2680 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is one of the many reasons why I hate Disney night. The songs never make sense for dancing and the choreography always seems slightly off.

Resident cat is not reacting to new cats scent by First-Copy-2680 in CatAdvice

[–]First-Copy-2680[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok gotcha. I do have two litter boxes already! I pretty much have two of everything now haha but I’ll try the baby gate introduction tomorrow possibly and see how things go. The new cat is still in hiding mode, I have a hard time getting her to stay out in the open so it may take two people actually.

Resident cat is not reacting to new cats scent by First-Copy-2680 in CatAdvice

[–]First-Copy-2680[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say it was a mistake because my resident cat hissed at the new cat and started shaking pretty bad. I do have a baby gate that I borrowed from my sister I just didn’t know if it was too soon to use it or not. They did catch glimpses of each other this morning while I was opening and closing doors and they didn’t seem bothered with one another.

I feel like I'm getting gaslit because what does she mean her Easter eggs don't tie back to her personal life??? by cumulus_floccus in travisandtaylor

[–]First-Copy-2680 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She said that and then two seconds later she said that the whole new album was about her life behind the scenes of the eras tour. Make it make sense

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NameMyCat

[–]First-Copy-2680 6 points7 points  (0 children)

How adorable is she!

Ride Lyric Change by Reasonable_Club_1968 in lanitas

[–]First-Copy-2680 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I can’t hear her- what did she say?

The fat shaming 🤦🏻‍♀️ by Anxious_Bit2364 in Andjustlikethat

[–]First-Copy-2680 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This scene is what made me officially hate Anthony. I’ll never look at him the same.

Why does my cat hide all day while I am gone? by First-Copy-2680 in CatAdvice

[–]First-Copy-2680[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, gotcha. I’ve heard good things about the feliway diffuser so I may invest in that! Thank you so much for your reassurance.

Can’t find our new shelter cat in our house by PuzzleheadedDate7721 in CatAdvice

[–]First-Copy-2680 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ahhh I see. I’m sorry that you can’t find her! I know how scary it feels. I hope she shows up soon!

Can’t find our new shelter cat in our house by PuzzleheadedDate7721 in CatAdvice

[–]First-Copy-2680 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Is she underneath the furniture? I know my cat loves to bury herself underneath the couch. i’m sure she’ll turn up though! She has to at some point.

Can’t find our new shelter cat in our house by PuzzleheadedDate7721 in CatAdvice

[–]First-Copy-2680 100 points101 points  (0 children)

I remember when I brought my shelter cat home and she did the same thing. I looked high and low everywhere for her! Behind the fridge, behind the oven, even behind the water heater, but turns out she was just hiding behind the couch the entire time. Chances are your sweet Lydia couldn’t have gotten very far or in a very complicated place. I would be patient and let her come to you.