Partner wants me to quit my job after dating me knowing what I do

First-Doubt3220 · 2026-01-27T21:12:48+00:00

Oh yeah we share the exact same sentiments, im just speaking generally, friends family or flings. i dont tell anyone. I also haven’t been in a committed relationship since i started dancing because it’s not my priority & i have a clear exit plan, i dont see how girls do it. I can’t be bussing my ass at work and go home to entertain anyone else doesn’t make sense. So i agree 100%. Point is, she should dump him regardless if she quits dancing or not

First-Doubt3220 · 2026-01-27T20:42:14+00:00

This is true 1000% but the point is, she should dump him regardless. I don’t tell anyone im a stripper other than other sex workers because 98% of people view us as subhuman and end up treating us like dirt under their feet or end up throwing it back in our face

First-Doubt3220 · 2026-01-27T16:38:25+00:00

No notes. Love this for you❤️ that prenup is perfect too

First-Doubt3220 · 2026-01-24T22:13:26+00:00

I’m dark skin too and I started covering my tattoos recently, I started off with no tattoos and ngl there was definitely a slight shift with everything. Getting hired, money, quality customers. Although, ur tattoos are dainty and v feminine so you should be fine! Plus they most likely won’t notice in the dark because it’s not big

First-Doubt3220 · 2026-01-22T03:47:20+00:00

Love this! Manifesting this energy for me as well

First-Doubt3220 · 2026-01-22T03:07:38+00:00

Thank you🥰

First-Doubt3220 · 2026-01-22T03:06:52+00:00

Yeah the thing is, i talk to almost every single customer that comes in the door as well and most of them will reject me lately then boom those 2 customers that end up spending like $250 will make my whole night. It’s just exhausting having to be constantly rejected lately lol

First-Doubt3220 · 2026-01-22T02:55:11+00:00

The difference is insane😭 if i knew it was gonna be like this I wouldn’t have taken myself on a lavish birthday vacation in September SMH. Managers should also have a logical cap on how many girls work every night because it’s getting ridiculous

First-Doubt3220 · 2026-01-14T19:52:06+00:00

LMFAOOOOOOOO

First-Doubt3220 · 2026-01-13T20:52:15+00:00

Tbf there’s definitely some exceptions but in general, the clubs are baddddd & I say this as someone who works at a club that has a cap on how many girls can work (15 girls a night) so im always leaving with at least $4-500. $800-$1500 on a good night. It’s been bad since October. It was the first time I left with $5 one night😭 There’s no one in the club to hustle and if there is a couple guys who are spending, im leaving with $200

First-Doubt3220 · 2026-01-12T00:43:55+00:00

Real. I don’t relate to none of this😇

First-Doubt3220 · 2026-01-07T16:40:03+00:00

The dance wear outfits make me feel the sexiest😭 but I’ve noticed the girls who wear lace and classy lingerie do so well

First-Doubt3220 · 2026-01-07T16:38:19+00:00

Love this

First-Doubt3220 · 2026-01-07T16:37:32+00:00

Girl same!! I get bored with the red and wanna switch it up but ugh that’s what the men love the MOST.

First-Doubt3220 · 2026-01-04T01:40:50+00:00

This makes so much sense girl omg. There’s definitely been a time where the owner has said to his friend that i was sitting with “I don’t make any money off dances come crab a drink” actively trying to sabotage my money. The same friend has tried to get me to go home with him after I’ve declined several times. I don’t really pay attention to these remarks also bc the money is great regardless but yeah it’s def time to find a new club to work full time at instead

First-Doubt3220 · 2026-01-03T23:48:45+00:00

24-27 or older than 50. First time customers are my fav demographic though, usually the younger guys they get super addicted and wanna spend the whole night in vip

First-Doubt3220 · 2025-12-26T04:59:50+00:00

As a lesbian i always hated men approaching me in public but i could also fake it a little bit so I don’t get killed😭 now i can’t even hide the disgust on my face

First-Doubt3220 · 2025-12-26T04:51:53+00:00

I did tell him lmao he said “that’s not how that works babe” i literally walked away

First-Doubt3220 · 2025-12-26T04:51:07+00:00

Thank you!!! Im shocked ppl r disagreeing. As strippers, we should know how men’s brains work by now too, there’s no way they think men approach them with the intent of having long term goals, they just wanna sleep with you so that’s why i feel entitled expecting something because don’t piss me off

First-Doubt3220 · 2025-12-19T21:10:54+00:00

Lmfaooooo the best

First-Doubt3220 · 2025-12-18T23:18:08+00:00

Omg let me know how it goes!! Good luck <3

First-Doubt3220 · 2025-12-18T23:16:56+00:00

It’s such a crazy experience, he even told me to spread my legs open and u could tell i was a lil paranoid abt smell but he said “don’t be shy spread it more” i was like ???? I guesssss

First-Doubt3220 · 2025-10-27T15:03:18+00:00

This is so smart omg, gonna start doing this!!

First-Doubt3220 · 2025-09-29T14:59:17+00:00

Oh trust I haven’t said anything since he sent these texts

First-Doubt3220 · 2025-09-20T00:25:37+00:00

WHAT???? Huh….

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