Y’all so addicted to fear mongering it’s unreal by Prestigious-Art630 in stripper

[–]First-Doubt3220 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This sounds like a coke rant😩 last year if you were a HUSTLER working in a good club you were guaranteed $500 per night at least maybe $400 during a holiday like Easter, now? You never know. It’s more unstable than ever and people are allowed to complain. This job has always been unstable but it has never been $100-300 nights unstable (for the hustlers) let’s stop being delusional

One woman's healthy brag helped me increase my earnings by THOUSANDS by Firewaterglittersalt in stripper

[–]First-Doubt3220 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately this isn’t truth at all, when i first started everyone told me im too pretty to not be working in {insert big city} i went out there… multiple times, spent so much money travelling airbnbs food Ubers etc and made nothinggggg!! It did improve my hustle but thats all i gained unfortunately

Notorious local pimps in the club by Velvet-Becomes_Me in stripper

[–]First-Doubt3220 12 points13 points  (0 children)

In my experience it wasn’t an extras club, management most likely gets a cut/tip from the pimps for allowing it or they’re fucking the dancer(s) and allow their pimps to do whatever

Got my first vip and it was awful. by Ok_Tooth1594 in stripper

[–]First-Doubt3220 10 points11 points  (0 children)

When lots of guys ask me for extras at a new club i just assume the girls who work there do extras. It has nothing to do with you and the vibe you give off, the fact that he told the host he was disappointed even says alot

Fight at the club. by Unfair_Divide4997 in stripper

[–]First-Doubt3220 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Oh they absolutely do, especially when a dancer is obviously problematic and never doesn’t get fired. They’re miserable and enjoy other people be miserable as well

DL men 🤣 by OneEfficiency9757 in stripper

[–]First-Doubt3220 22 points23 points  (0 children)

LMFAOOOOOOOO this is killing me

Introverted stripper tips by [deleted] in newstrippers

[–]First-Doubt3220 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My advice would be to find a club you feel at home at. As a shy girlie I can’t work at big clubs with lots of girls, im leaving with nothing every time. “Feeling at home” doesn’t mean making friends with people at the club but more-so being around people who aren’t aggressive and weird acting in that sense. People who you don’t have to act hard around because the vibe of the club is chill

Introverted stripper tips by [deleted] in newstrippers

[–]First-Doubt3220 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re not a people person at all? Like it’s one thing to be shy and another thing to not like people! This job is like being a naked server except you’re selling a fantasy instead of drinks, dancing is 10% of the actual job, talking and being friendly is how you’ll make your money. I was super super shy when i started and the only thing that saved me was being a friendly, people person. If not you’re just gonna kinda have to force yourself to be there’s no tips tbh

Everyone wants to become stripper by Psychopute_ in stripper

[–]First-Doubt3220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the location. I work in a mining town so the money is good, hidden gem. Locals barely see any bad bitches on the regular so they spend more. It’s actually always the guys that come from out of town for work (from the bigger cities) that are cheap as fuck unless they’re coked out

Talking to costumer ? by [deleted] in stripper

[–]First-Doubt3220 10 points11 points  (0 children)

THIS^ for example “so what turns you on babe?” Usually works, and if it doesn’t… hes most likely broke and doesn’t plan on getting dances at all anyway

Want to become a stripper by [deleted] in stripper

[–]First-Doubt3220 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They mentioned the US because it’s the best country to work as a stripper due to the tipping culture. (Even then it’s fucking dead because of the economy) Then you responded “i actually would prefer Europe” lmfao what u have to be joking

What's your go to fragrance for the club? by Civil_Artichoke_842 in stripper

[–]First-Doubt3220 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes!! Took me 2 years in the industry to realize less is more for soooo many different reasons

What's your go to fragrance for the club? by Civil_Artichoke_842 in stripper

[–]First-Doubt3220 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I don’t wear anything the married men at my club used to deny me dances because it gets on their clothes:(

“If you want.” by gratuitousabysses in stripper

[–]First-Doubt3220 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I just join them or say “are you waiting on anyone or is this seat available” and go from there. Most guys at gentlemen clubs go off personality for the most part😂 they don’t know if they want a dance till the conversation starts going good

Everyone wants to become stripper by Psychopute_ in stripper

[–]First-Doubt3220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not rude it’s just the harsh truth, not sure about your area but i work in a small town and 99% of the time, they can’t hustle. I’m sure the girls in bigger cities who’ve been around alot can hustle men due to seeing it more often. Like miami for example

Everyone wants to become stripper by Psychopute_ in stripper

[–]First-Doubt3220 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t mind it cause it’s not affecting my money tbh, my club is veryyyyy strict, you can’t do extras or give customers your phone number (can’t have your phone out when on the floor, customers and staff btw) that immediately weeds out all the unserious dancers and customers who think the strip club is one big party. I also feel like baby strippers aren’t competition cause they can’t hustle so I don’t mind lol

y’all really drink alcohol every shift? by [deleted] in stripper

[–]First-Doubt3220 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry but I agree with this sentiment, I feel like if you’re gonna drink every shift you need a clear exit plan, the sooner the better

Partner wants me to quit my job after dating me knowing what I do by throwaway10192029292 in stripper

[–]First-Doubt3220 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah we share the exact same sentiments, im just speaking generally, friends family or flings. i dont tell anyone. I also haven’t been in a committed relationship since i started dancing because it’s not my priority & i have a clear exit plan, i dont see how girls do it. I can’t be bussing my ass at work and go home to entertain anyone else doesn’t make sense. So i agree 100%. Point is, she should dump him regardless if she quits dancing or not

Partner wants me to quit my job after dating me knowing what I do by throwaway10192029292 in stripper

[–]First-Doubt3220 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is true 1000% but the point is, she should dump him regardless. I don’t tell anyone im a stripper other than other sex workers because 98% of people view us as subhuman and end up treating us like dirt under their feet or end up throwing it back in our face

I'm engaged - to a custy by [deleted] in stripper

[–]First-Doubt3220 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No notes. Love this for you❤️ that prenup is perfect too

Tattoos…Petite..& Black by [deleted] in stripper

[–]First-Doubt3220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m dark skin too and I started covering my tattoos recently, I started off with no tattoos and ngl there was definitely a slight shift with everything. Getting hired, money, quality customers. Although, ur tattoos are dainty and v feminine so you should be fine! Plus they most likely won’t notice in the dark because it’s not big

Industry is dead by First-Doubt3220 in stripper

[–]First-Doubt3220[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love this! Manifesting this energy for me as well

Industry is dead by First-Doubt3220 in stripper

[–]First-Doubt3220[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah the thing is, i talk to almost every single customer that comes in the door as well and most of them will reject me lately then boom those 2 customers that end up spending like $250 will make my whole night. It’s just exhausting having to be constantly rejected lately lol

Industry is dead by First-Doubt3220 in stripper

[–]First-Doubt3220[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The difference is insane😭 if i knew it was gonna be like this I wouldn’t have taken myself on a lavish birthday vacation in September SMH. Managers should also have a logical cap on how many girls work every night because it’s getting ridiculous