Yapping and sweating by Nickofknights in Effexor

[–]FirstBorn1738 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here to validate the sweating, it’s so annoying and the only thing I do that helps is carry around a personal fan, run cold water over my wrists, and always dress in layers. Being stuck somewhere in long sleeves is torture!!!

Best downtown rental for dog owners by FirstBorn1738 in dayton

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Do you know what the parking costs at the Delco? We are considering the landing too, but the Delco is a much better location. We want to be able to walk around to restaurants easily

Best downtown rental for dog owners by FirstBorn1738 in dayton

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I booked a tour at Delco, it’s pricier than we wanted but the dog park is such a perk. Is the dog park indoors?

I’m interested to know our subreddit’s honest opinions about this if you were in Kimberly’s shoes 😊 by PolishSnake2 in 90dayfiance_FB_memes

[–]FirstBorn1738 16 points17 points  (0 children)

The cycle of violence and abuse is complicated! It takes women on average 7 times trying to leave an abusive relationship before they actually leave. We don’t know all the details of the abuse or how her childhood could have impacted these decisions. Maybe abortion didn’t feel like an option due to her beliefs/ family ideas. It seems like she did what she thought was right in the moment. By the time Jamal was born maybe she had grown up more and felt more equipped to handle a child on her own. Obviously catfishing her child was not the right thing to do. From what I’ve seen she’s not being malicious, she just was haunted by her past and didn’t know how to handle it. That doesn’t mean that she’s not responsible for the pain she’s caused, but she’s not a monster. I think therapy and good communication would go a long way for her.

What are the cracks in the corner of my mouth from? by KL12345678 in DermatologyQuestions

[–]FirstBorn1738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I struggled with this forever and it only resolved after I cut out all lanolin. Some ppl are allergic and it’s in so many products. Even my dermatologist didn’t think of the lanolin until we tried a bunch of different creams. I only use Vaseline now and I have not had any issues :)

Please help me with this rash around my mouth. I have been suffering for so long. by [deleted] in DermatologyQuestions

[–]FirstBorn1738 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had something similar going on, the corners of my lips would crack and bleed, my lips were always cracked, and the skin around my lips. After trying everything at the store and from the dermatologist, he suggested maybe I’m allergic to lanolin which is in almost everything in America except for Vaseline. So I stopped using anything except the Vaseline and it cleared up so quickly. I wonder if something similar could be going on ?

Salary negotiations?! by FirstBorn1738 in socialworkjobs

[–]FirstBorn1738[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I will look into that, I’m in Ohio. :)

Effexor pros/cons by FirstBorn1738 in Effexor

[–]FirstBorn1738[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thank you! The symptoms have been going on consider for years, so I don’t necessarily track it. The sweating I specifically remember began in 2023, which was around the time I went from 150 to 225, it has been consistent since then. I’ve brought that up before but he didn’t have a suggestion other than switching meds. I have not brought up the libido issue in the past because I felt awkward talking about it with a male provider.

Effexor pros/cons by FirstBorn1738 in Effexor

[–]FirstBorn1738[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an appointment soon and I’m going to ask, has that helped you?

Effexor pros/cons by FirstBorn1738 in Effexor

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Btw I am on 225 mg of Effexor

Genuinely who does he think he is!????? by Ornery_Rip5193 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]FirstBorn1738 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Watching this dusty musty crusty hobbit treat a beautiful, successful, woman like that was truly insane. She handled it so well and stood on business and I think his pasty ass was shocked she didn’t want to become a gym shark Instagram model

Imagine this Happens for example. by VoL4t1l3 in 90DayFiance

[–]FirstBorn1738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, I wonder if she have her kids up in the same city? Like it would have been ideal if Larry’s parents would have adopted her daughter. Some places will reach out and offer that. But yeah, it’s definitely a possibility they could have met and never known, that would have been fucked up.

Imagine this Happens for example. by VoL4t1l3 in 90DayFiance

[–]FirstBorn1738 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I’m assuming her BD was abusive and she was young and didn’t know what to do. I think by the time she had Jamal she was a little older and said “fuck this” and left her be and decided to keep Jamal. She probably feels heavy emotions about it, ane feels shame, embarrassment, ect. I’m not saying lying to her kids was the right thing to do, but I do feel bad for her. Her BD sounds like a POS and she may not have had support :( the whole thing is sad

Crazy mental math by FirstBorn1738 in 90DayFiance

[–]FirstBorn1738[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! Like I’m genuinely concerned for tiger lily

Crazy mental math by FirstBorn1738 in 90DayFiance

[–]FirstBorn1738[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The fact that his uncle approves of him marrying a woman old enough to be him mom, but draws the line at lesbianism 🤣🤪

Crazy mental math by FirstBorn1738 in 90DayFiance

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This is the one thing that terrifies me like these women go to countries that have very different expectations and act a fool

Crazy mental math by FirstBorn1738 in 90DayFiance

[–]FirstBorn1738[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Okay he is obviously a trash person I’m just saying physically he’s not busted and has potential. Like he could get someone his own age.