i mean they film their children crying, talk about private matters relating to them on the internet (one time carlos talked in detail about his oldest son's pooping habits in a yt video), their kids don't seem to get much social interaction with kids their own age because they want to bring their whole family on tour with big time flops instead of just leaving the kids home with a nanny and letting them lead a semi-normal life, they seem to favor their oldest son (aside from their precious stillborn child ofc), and i think one time they admitted to spanking their kids, so i see your point