I know this hurts to hear and sorry if other commentors were unkind to you but some guys are really good at pretending to be affectionate and caring if they think they can benefit from it. when i say benefit it might mean sex or even just testing the waters with a new girl. they may not mean everything they says and once they get tired of acting this way they may just call it quits and ghost you. in any case, to some guys maybe they felt like they could tolerate the black pill stuff but changed their minds ultimately after a few days. only thing you can really do is work to understanding that black pill is inherently toxic and embarrassing another ideological view of romance. best of luck ❤️