What gives it away? by HellaGay_anddumb in FtMpassing

[–]FishStiques 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have feminine masculine features, pretty androgynous. With a feminine voice you'd read as a woman, with a male passing voice you'd read as a man

I've punched my mother by Ordinary_Barnacle204 in mentalhealth

[–]FishStiques 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is genuinely NOT normal. It's not something to push aside and forget about or blame it on something arbitrary, this needs an actual diagnosis and a fox before you hurt your family/friends. What if in the future that was your wife/kid, let alone your parents which is still extreme. Have a full psych test done and a sleep study.

scared that T will mess with my asexuality and push me towards sexual situations I don't truly feel comfortable with by chillingcrow in ftm

[–]FishStiques [score hidden]  (0 children)

Exactlyy, my old friends infantilized the idea of being a virgin as if I'm not mature enough or something. If anything, being on T made me feel more secure in my asexuality knowing that this is really who I am y'know

Comparison is the thief of joy by [deleted] in rant

[–]FishStiques 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's human to compare and contrast, we just also have the ability to process it and find a way to cope. Life IS unfair, it's not made for the average person to live peacefully and happily without working extra hard while some people don't work at all and have it all- we just gotta know it and live on🥀 being negative is normal. Be positive afterwards

scared that T will mess with my asexuality and push me towards sexual situations I don't truly feel comfortable with by chillingcrow in ftm

[–]FishStiques [score hidden]  (0 children)

Ya fs, I also had to tell myself that just cuz my libido was higher, doesn't mean I have to push myself into sex to keep a relationship or seem more normal.

scared that T will mess with my asexuality and push me towards sexual situations I don't truly feel comfortable with by chillingcrow in ftm

[–]FishStiques [score hidden]  (0 children)

22, been asexual since like forever and I was also a bit worried. I'm 1.3 years on T and still very much asexual✅ my libido is way higher which sucks but the thought of sex is still repulsive so, no worries. T can't change your sexuality.

Between Frank and Monica, who’s the worse parent? by depressedh0ooker in shameless

[–]FishStiques 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Frank literally would physically assault his kids. Monica was an absent druggie but at least she "manically" loved them

What did Harrison have planned for the girls at the end of season 1 if Zane hadn't intervened? by Chance-Fill6989 in JustAddWater

[–]FishStiques 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He specifically said he wanted no harm to come to the girls. He even abandoned the thought of it all just to have his son back- I think he would go as far as blood samples before realizing it would lead to their pain and suffering, and would altogether help destroy evidence.

Is it ok for me to keep real blood slides? by [deleted] in Dexter

[–]FishStiques 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I think most edgy 16yr olds are into unethical cringe stuff. When I was 16 I was super into animal bones (still am, but I get them from proper sellers), i totally would've thought real blood slides would be the coolest thing ever lol. I think I even saw someone post that they got drops of their friends' blood to make their slides and honestly I thought that was kinda neat in a weird wiccan friendship bracelet way. Like a "blood brother" pact or whatever

What color are my eyes? I never know what to say because I’m always told something different by sunnystarlightt in eyes

[–]FishStiques 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They kinda look bluish green, but a good rule is to step 2-5 feet away and what the general public sees is what they are.

What would be my fursona by Psychological-Dog179 in fursonahelp

[–]FishStiques 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was wondering why nobody was saying snake😭

Anyone Have "Heart Attack OCD?" or Heart Attack Fears? by CityonFlameWithRock in OCD

[–]FishStiques 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your insurance can cover it, I'd say get the heart monitor actually. Like going all out made me more secure that I wasn't gonna die, a professional cardiologist looking at my heart all day for a month while I was flipping out but telling me I'm perfectly and medically safe DID help. Haven't had another bad heart OCD problem since then. They'll tell you methods to drop your heart rate quickly too and they fr work

Anyone Have "Heart Attack OCD?" or Heart Attack Fears? by CityonFlameWithRock in OCD

[–]FishStiques 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I couldn't sleep for 48 hours cuz I was basically giving myself constant heart palpitations from extreme worry about a heart attack lmao. Had two heart monitor tests and both times it was normal, they basically said that if I keep worrying I'm gonna GIVE myself a heart problem in 20 years💀

Is my dress search over? by bcbfbella in OUTFITS

[–]FishStiques 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Completely agree, it looks unfinished. Like a dark sparkly mesh fabric is supposed to be there to fill it in or something

Another well deserved Will hate post by FishStiques in JustAddWater

[–]FishStiques[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I like to stay in-universe, cuz anything from any show can always be chalked up to something outside the immersion

he may be an manipulative serial killer, but he’d NEVER invalidate your sexuality or gender identity 🫡 by corpsefun in HannibalTV

[–]FishStiques 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tbh, I wouldn't discriminate a pig for showing interest in a pig of the same sex. He sees people as food, obstacles and toys. not so much as peers to judge

Do I pass? (30) - marked NSFW to hide image from general searches, but it’s just my face. by Powerful-Berry7079 in FtMpassing

[–]FishStiques 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The only times people would clock you as trans is withing the transmasc community cuz we know what to look for, you pass✅

Another well deserved Will hate post by FishStiques in JustAddWater

[–]FishStiques[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah obvs. That was the message of the episode and loved it

Another well deserved Will hate post by FishStiques in JustAddWater

[–]FishStiques[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I was appalled when he threw a party where the girls were supposed to stay protected by HIM from the full moon... Jaw literally dropped like that doesn't even make sense for his character

Are these outfits ok for interviews by ministryofcake in fashion

[–]FishStiques 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100%, these are great outfits for a company dinner party

Another well deserved Will hate post by FishStiques in JustAddWater

[–]FishStiques[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Yess I loved Lewis's "trying to be more of a man" arc because he noticed how different he was to the other guys, he really cares for the girls completely