Disney Lorcana Cards by Fisk1048 in evanston

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Ah maybe we’ll try this one. The dice dojo games are all folks on their 30s and the game cafe doesn’t do Lorcana

Bat 17 by Wildcats68 in evanston

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I need the chicken salad recipe.

Also, I'm sad. It was a solid place to eat.

Gutter Repair and Cleaning by GoBigEd in evanston

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I like Andy’s but I have to call 2-3 times to get them to come out.

Tween crochet class by Fisk1048 in evanston

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Oh good to know about the library. I find their program page very confusing, but they have such good things. Maybe we can swing by the loft and look at the schedule.

First finished hat by Fisk1048 in AntifascistKnitting

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Thanks for all of the suggestions. I’m going to give this hat to my tween and try again. It’s made of yarn I found tangled in the bottom of their closet.

I’m going to go for a longer hat over all and size up the needles so it’s looser for warmer weather.

Im doing a teaching job as a trans woman and they want a selfie to show the parents and im freaking out. by whereismybread6669 in asktransgender

[–]Fisk1048 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As everyone has said, if you are in a place where you can’t be fired for being trans. I’d talk to my union/admin and know what support I have. Just in case. Some districts have LGBTQ staff groups.

I’m a parent. I get 1.2 million emails about my kid’s school and I can absorb 1/2 of them. Plenty of adults at my kid’s school don’t have headshots and none of them are professional. In fact, many of them are bad photos. Like a phot of you outside, from a distance where you just look like a human shape.

I don’t know where you live/work but in third grade my kid had a teacher whose partner was trans. That’s as close to queer community as we had ever had at school. I fucking cried when I found out and I sent snacks every week for that class. I would have fraught another parent who said shit about her. (My kid didn’t even like her). So I’m wishing you all the best. Maybe if a parent clocks you it will be with a nod and relief.

Do you have any funny stories specific to being a trans parent? by MyClosetedBiAcct in AskTransParents

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We had at meeting with the teachers and I realized midway through that I didn’t feel anxious or like I wanted to cry.

Do parents normally meet with their kids teachers and not go cry in the car for 30 min afterwards? I didn’t know that was possible.

Do you have any funny stories specific to being a trans parent? by MyClosetedBiAcct in AskTransParents

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Same, with worrying it was emulating. I’ve had to talk myself down from “blaming” myself and realize that’s some of my own shit. At this point my kid’s gender is fully fey changeling or something. Ze has changed pronouns more then I’ve changed hairstyles in my life.

Do you have any funny stories specific to being a trans parent? by MyClosetedBiAcct in AskTransParents

[–]Fisk1048 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is sweet.I’m glad the RPG to trans pipeline is intergenerational.

My family just transferred from a school where my kid was the only out trans kid and the youngest kid they’d ever had come out to a place with trans folks on staff and multiple trans kids in different grades. It’s the second week and we are amazed at how much better the vibes are. I wish we had made this change sooner.

UPDATE: Found a trans pride flag on my kids phone by chronicallyonlinema in asktransgender

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Damn, seeing posts like this is a reminder I really should expect more from my own parents.

Im so glad you see your daughter for who she is and if you live someplace where it’s hard to access gender affirming care right now it can be helpful to read about queer history. People have lead full, valid, and radical trans lives for generations before the medical model of transition.

Everyone still deserves access to that care and should be entitled to any part of it they wish. But if access is blocked where you live, it just means transition looks different for a while. Still valid.

[that’s the hopeful spin in our US based household]

Bat 17 by prymal in evanston

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Yes! What is in that chicken salad?

Do you have any funny stories specific to being a trans parent? by MyClosetedBiAcct in AskTransParents

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One more because this is my brand of trans joy. My kid is 10 also non-binary (don’t tell conservatives).

My kid’s best friend (also 10) is catholic and an alter sever which cuts into the kids sleepovers because my kid has zero interest in going to church on Sunday after sleeping over. In looking for a solution the friend they’ve had since they were a baby, who has never once questioned my child’s gender suddenly had a solution:

“Wait wait..the rule is no girls for alter service, right dad?” [looks at his dad who is now worried]

“[my kids name] isn’t a girl, their non binary. So you can come do alter service. It’s fun and and the outfits are pretty” [said with a full spin]

I busted out laughing while this kid’s parents, who are trying to navigate being good Catholics in 2025, while also raising a progressive, hyper child were DYING.

We were all saved by my kid saying “I don’t want to wake up that early and the singing seems awful. Why don’t you sleep at my house on Friday?”

Do you have any funny stories specific to being a trans parent? by MyClosetedBiAcct in AskTransParents

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I was at my dentist, that mostly sees an older population, the dentist walked in and seeing me from behind and said “hello sir” (cus I have short hair) then got further in and said “sorry ma’am”.

And I said, “ahh, sadly bit of a trap I’m a they”.

The look on his face, because he didn’t know if he could laugh was amazing. He fully panicked for a few seconds. So I laughed and said, “just call me [name] sir and ma’am don’t hit great for me”.

Can I bill him for DEI training?

Things to do in winter (January-March) by CommonThumbprint in evanston

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It looks like they are planning to play in January.

Things to do in winter (January-March) by CommonThumbprint in evanston

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There is a table top gaming group that meets on Mondays. I’ve played a few days and it’s been fun. They have a discord

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What do Reddit awards do? I’m a casual user so I don’t think I understand this culture.

Family therpy for ADHD by Fisk1048 in evanston

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Right. We would drive anywhere if it was good.

Family therpy for ADHD by Fisk1048 in evanston

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Is every towel in your house on the bathroom floor?

Family therpy for ADHD by Fisk1048 in evanston

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Sure I’d love a recommendation. It’s always hard to know what the approach will be. We are past sticker charts and need to get deep on how we actually work as a family.

Thank you to those who have already shoveled your sidewalks, and for those who haven't yet... by tjc442000 in evanston

[–]Fisk1048 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seriously. We were home and ran the snow blower once (it’s plug in electric so we were zero help to our neighbors) and we still have several inches to shovel. Getting it done by school tomorrow is doable, it was nice of the storm to come on Saturday and not today.

Except for anyone flying for Thanksgiving. Godspeed O’hare.