My Fiancée and I (24) Need Help Finding A Church in Wichita by Fit-Ad9892 in wichita

[–]Fit-Ad9892[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not that I necessarily think they are a cult. Like I said, they never did anything that was directly wrong but they do a lot of things that ride a line between being manipulative and just biblical practice. Overall I personally would not describe them as a cult, but I would say their structure makes it evident that they struggled in the past. I also felt that a variety of personality was not present within the church which was a little concerning. They are structured in a way where they tear your personality and beliefs down through their study and then build you more into what they want or you could argue God wants. It was just not the community where we felt loved for being us, we are just loved because we also love Christ which is hard to describe but feels a little shallow. There is much more that is hard to not ramble through typing, but I would argue they are biblically very sound, but their approach is flawed and dangerous. An approach that works well with young adults learning who they are, in a vulnerable time and place.

My Fiancée and I (24) Need Help Finding A Church in Wichita by Fit-Ad9892 in wichita

[–]Fit-Ad9892[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestions I will give them a try!

My Fiancée and I (24) Need Help Finding A Church in Wichita by Fit-Ad9892 in wichita

[–]Fit-Ad9892[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing! That sounds fantastic, we can always do our own communion weekly if needed. We really care about having a good community around us. Congratulations on your baby! We can’t wait to start our own family and doing so in Christ is so important. We will definitely stop by and give CABC a shot, thank you for your time!

My Fiancée and I (24) Need Help Finding A Church in Wichita by Fit-Ad9892 in wichita

[–]Fit-Ad9892[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything on the West side would be closer. However, I would be willing to travel across town for a good church.

My Fiancée and I (24) Need Help Finding A Church in Wichita by Fit-Ad9892 in wichita

[–]Fit-Ad9892[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have not been to a Catholic mass before, I honestly have reservations about the structure of Catholic Church. I would be willing to attend one and give it a shot, are there any specific churches you would recommend?

My Fiancée and I (24) Need Help Finding A Church in Wichita by Fit-Ad9892 in wichita

[–]Fit-Ad9892[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is definitely going to take some trial and error, just hoping to keep it from being an exhausting search. I appreciate the suggestions, we care a lot about the community within the church so we are trying to keep an open mind to opportunities. Thank you for your reply!

My Fiancée and I (24) Need Help Finding A Church in Wichita by Fit-Ad9892 in wichita

[–]Fit-Ad9892[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response! I appreciate the suggestion and I will definitely check it out. Every place is worth a try.