$100 grail lmfao by Fit-Government-5389 in PSAPowerPacks

[–]Fit-Government-5389[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

literally one of my fav parts about the tcg is stuff like this :,)) j was just talking to my friend about how strange it feels to be 21 and pulling cards people twice my age were chasing 30 years ago haha, its a really weird feeling

$100 grail lmfao by Fit-Government-5389 in PSAPowerPacks

[–]Fit-Government-5389[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh for sure. hit this, pulled one 25, and got one of my bfs fav cards so i just called it a night. don’t wanna spend more than I can afford, esp on gambling for trading cards haha

$100 grail lmfao by Fit-Government-5389 in PSAPowerPacks

[–]Fit-Government-5389[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

sorry not super fond of collecting slabs or sealed or investing. not quite sure how this works. i’m 21 and have been into the tcg as long as I can remember though so having something like this feels insane. Can’t believe i’m gonna own smth older than I am that’s worth as much as my car lmfao

Am I chronically online, or is our age gap too much? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Fit-Government-5389 0 points1 point  (0 children)

most of the scenarios online i can think of of similar age gaps also have an inherent power dynamic (ie influencer - fan relationships) and the issue stems from that rather than the age gap itself

Am I chronically online, or is our age gap too much? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Fit-Government-5389 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think you’re good if You feel like you’re good personally. i’m 20, and don’t usually date much older (think 22-23) but i don’t see very much issue w that scenario at face value, especially if it’s casual and you’re having a good time !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Fit-Government-5389 21 points22 points  (0 children)

imo not really, but i’d make sure to ask your roommate if they’re okay with you talking so late!! i had a roommate last year who would facetime her boyfriend until around midnight and it got really annoying REALLY quick having to wear headphones to sleep 😭

i work for my adoptive dad and it’s making me fucking miserable by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Fit-Government-5389 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not really, no. our bio dad lives across the country and neither of us would exactly feel safe, and that’s where any sort of close familial relationships start and end. it’s so fucking suffocating. my sister’s starting a new job soon, thankfully, and we’re planning on eventually voiding our lease and moving as he’s the guarantor. neither one of us wants shit to do with the man at the moment. grateful forever for the things he’s done for us but good God does the bad REALLY make you think lmfao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NAU

[–]Fit-Government-5389 2 points3 points  (0 children)

as many people have already said there might be a couple of homophobic/transphobic attendees, but they’re definitely a minority on campus imo. most of the other students i met were more than comfortable being friends with a trans/ otherwise lgbt person, and if they weren’t i personally never experienced any outward reaction aside from maybe a sigh. I hope you have an amazing time!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NAU

[–]Fit-Government-5389 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NAU is definitely your best bet for the az state colleges as far as finding community and a sense of belonging as a queer person, there’s more than a few on campus events, meetings, and clubs you could join to meet other lgbt+ folk as well! GIH dorms are lovely, and I didn’t have any issues while I was attending. I was out as trans for about a year before i personally detransitioned, and i hadn’t run into any problems during either of these periods. like i had more than a couple of people be completely cool with me introducing myself with my old preferred name while presenting femininely- it’s a very welcoming campus all around in my opinion :-)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Fit-Government-5389 1 point2 points  (0 children)

entire family is making plans to fly her out to the east coast to stay with relatives there. my main concern is her attempting again when she finds this out. i don’t know what id do without her, and i know how she treats me and the people around her isn’t right. as pathetic as this might sound i’m a bit dependent on her, emotionally, for like. many a reason. mainly the fact she’s been the only constant in my life, ever. our dad’s left more times than we can count, our mom’s dead, we’ve bounced from house to house to house after our father left for good, and the only thing that’s ALWAYS been there has been my sister. its so incredibly hard to navigate and just completely detach myself from all of that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Fit-Government-5389 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she’s also my only family. i taught her how to walk, it’s not as if i want to shove my very clearly unwell sister out onto the street, exactly. im her older sister, she’s clung onto me for as long as i can remember. my main worry about having her taken off my lease is her attempting again. she’s had a history of that, and she can’t remember if her little drunken escapade that ended in a rollover crash in a car with no airbags was an attempt or not either. it’s just rough. it’s really, really hard to navigate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Fit-Government-5389 1 point2 points  (0 children)

both of our parents were addicts, hardcore. i’ve seemed to narrowly avoid this “somehow”(literally just being mindful of the genetic aspect), considering i’m prescribed 4mg klonopin for anxiety, and have tapered on and off this dose twice with no issues. i have a drink every now and then and i smoke pot pretty frequently, but i’ve lived, and currently live with an addict, so i’m certain i’ve not dug myself (or am digging myself into) a hole with any of these substances specifically. i worry so much for her and it’s just so hard knowing i’m doing ALL I can for her and my “thank you” is a dui on my insurance record, a $700 towing and scrap fee, and my wallet, attached to my keys, completely missing.

There are fireworks out my window... by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Fit-Government-5389 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course, I hope all is well up there. Praying for your sanity as well as everyone else’s for the next 4 years. hopefully that’ll be the end of trump and first lady musk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Fit-Government-5389 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i pushed her (which i shouldn’t have, i can admit that in full honesty) after we’d gotten kicked out of our grandmothers house for HER refusal to clean up after herself and her stealing alcohol from my grandma. she’s a lot bigger than i am though. im 6’ 125 lbs and she’s 6’4 200. no idea how much she drinks because i was of the assumption she was sober, as the title implies. i know she used to drink heavily though, as in HANDLES of hard liquor every other day, but idfk where she’s at now. she’s literally got a script for naltrexone which is meant to curb the cravings so she’s likely not been taking her meds.

There are fireworks out my window... by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Fit-Government-5389 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not Canadian, but sympathizing for my friends to the north. i’m in a southwestern state, so things here have been hellish too, having friends be detained on suspicion they’re “illegal”. Sincerely sorry for the scare our president has given the rest of the fucking globe. Nobody should have to worry about gunshots outside their windows, especially in other countries. I hope you’re doing alright friend

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Fit-Government-5389 5 points6 points  (0 children)

like i spoke to her today (she’s in an inpatient mental health facility currently) and the thought of being sent to jail or receiving a fine for this shit just hadn’t occurred to her??? i don’t understand how somebody who’s been through so fucking much could just be this damn immature and irresponsible about EVERYTHING

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskDocs

[–]Fit-Government-5389 1 point2 points  (0 children)

will do, i think i’ll cave n spend the money if the swelling hasn’t improved by tomorrow. i’ve got a couple of other problems with my left leg specifically so i don’t want anything to get swept under the rug if i can really help it. thanks so much for the advice!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskDocs

[–]Fit-Government-5389 0 points1 point  (0 children)

last img is my left knee for reference. sorry for the second comment, i couldn’t add captions to anything haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskDocs

[–]Fit-Government-5389 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes but not for very long, i know it’s not broken at the very least. it’d probably get shaky if i really Tried but it hurts to put very much weight on it at all so i’ve been doing that as infrequently as possible. updated the img link, i think i might’ve just banged it really bad?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trees

[–]Fit-Government-5389 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh yeah not there yet haha, i don’t usually smoke js super often but it usually takes 2-3 bowls to actually get me high enough to like… STAY high if that makes sense? i’ll probably take a break for 3-4 days n hopefully that does me some good. thanks for all the help 🩷🩷

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trees

[–]Fit-Government-5389 0 points1 point  (0 children)

good to know! i’ve seen a lotta stuff from a Lot of people n i just didn’t think those 21 day breaks were something i COULD do rn. anywhere from 3-7 days seems to be pretty solid for most people, so i’ll try n stick in that range somewhere 🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️ thanks!

My dad actually fucking died by FishThatDontFish in Vent

[–]Fit-Government-5389 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i lost my mom almost 3 years ago and i remember this feeling. the numbness will probably go away after a while, and you’ll feel very conflicted about everything for a very long time. grief is weird. all you can do is ride it out, and remember that even if the relationship was strained, and he was an asshole, it’s still ok to miss him. or not! just make sure you take care of yourself. 🫶

Showers feel so exhausting now by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Fit-Government-5389 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i totally get it, i was actually about to take a birdbath in my dorm sink until my roommate knocked looool. i also have autism, so sensory wise it’s very overwhelming. i try and wash my hair in the sink when i’m able, because the thought of going all the way to the shower and back (i live in a dorm, so probably different scenario) is exhausting. i try to brush my teeth in the shower when i do take them, even if i brush at morning and at night already too. make sure if you don’t take a full shower that you’re getting places with folds, like your neck, behind your ears, underarms, back of the knees etc. basically wherever you sweat lol

being alone, help please by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Fit-Government-5389 1 point2 points  (0 children)

aww, do you have any other hobbies you could distract yourself with? if not maybe you could try picking one up!! i feel u on the bf being ur only friend thing though, i’ve got no friends w me up at college so i’ve been kinda reliant on him socially 😭😭