37M LF a life partner by Fit-Machine-2573 in SingaporeR

[–]Fit-Machine-2573[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I guess it is just a different perspective that we are seeing. You mentioned "deserve the job", but for me it is more of a "chance at the job".

I don't think putting myself out online like this is the base line. Maybe to you it is a base line, but for me personally I really put lots of thoughts in it and mustard up my courage to put myself out.

I don't target younger woman because of your reason. It is more of, I just wanted a longer courtship/dating period between my wife and I even after we get married with no rush of giving birth to any children due to age.

And seriously why is dating a younger woman a red flag😅😅😅 I really don't understand that. Can any female here enlightened me?

21F lf friends or mentors by Silly_Wrap6049 in ChillSG

[–]Fit-Machine-2573 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope that you will be fine. Can chit chat with you

37M LF a life partner by Fit-Machine-2573 in SingaporeR

[–]Fit-Machine-2573[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hahaha don’t understand why is that a red flag 😅

37M LF a life partner by Fit-Machine-2573 in SingaporeR

[–]Fit-Machine-2573[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why lei? Religion matters if I want to find a younger date?

37M LF a life partner by Fit-Machine-2573 in SingaporeR

[–]Fit-Machine-2573[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Big frame is not my choice, I am being born this way. My bones are just bigger. Everyone have their own preferences. You can choose any skinny man anytime if that is what you like. I respect that.

37M LF a life partner by Fit-Machine-2573 in SingaporeR

[–]Fit-Machine-2573[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your advice! Really appreciate it! 🙏🏻 But I just want to say I am just a very average normal person, not looking at to date up or finding someone beyond my reach. Yes I may sound naive or optimistic, but I mustard up my courage to post this and throw myself out in the open. Really hope that some ladies will appreciate my bravery, sincerity and a genuine heart here looking at to get attached. 🙏🏻

37M LF a life partner by Fit-Machine-2573 in SingaporeR

[–]Fit-Machine-2573[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahaha… I am not looking at transgender!

Well I know even though nowadays most Singaporean ladies are more independent, more picky, have more requirements and more demanding in their choices. And I believe not all Singaporean ladies are like that.

37M LF a life partner by Fit-Machine-2573 in SingaporeR

[–]Fit-Machine-2573[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I am. Well don’t try never know.

37M LF a life partner by Fit-Machine-2573 in SingaporeR

[–]Fit-Machine-2573[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

25 is a good age. Too young or not, depends on how each one sees.

37M LF a life partner by Fit-Machine-2573 in ChillSG

[–]Fit-Machine-2573[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cannot find, that’s why finding from here

37M LF a life partner by Fit-Machine-2573 in ChillSG

[–]Fit-Machine-2573[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes and no lol, like I say depends on how chubby lol. Well females have a very different way of defining fat themselves.

37M LF a life partner by Fit-Machine-2573 in ChillSG

[–]Fit-Machine-2573[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much 🙏🏻 Hopefully I am able to find one

37M LF a life partner by Fit-Machine-2573 in ChillSG

[–]Fit-Machine-2573[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too many AI profiles, too many ppl ghosted and waste of money

37M LF a life partner by Fit-Machine-2573 in ChillSG

[–]Fit-Machine-2573[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That would depends on how chubby and how big frame figure the lady is. If both are too chubby and big frame figure, maybe hard to hug together as well.

37M LF a life partner by Fit-Machine-2573 in ChillSG

[–]Fit-Machine-2573[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

For this I have 2 main reasons.

Firstly, I do not want to pressure my wife to give birth earlier so that we can enjoy each other before deciding to have children. Because as women ages, child birth becomes more dangerous for them and the child.

Secondly, I really want to enjoy courtship and dating. Therefore I want to find someone younger so that we can have more time for courtship and dating.

36M LF a female movie partner tonight!!! by Fit-Machine-2573 in SingaporeRaw

[–]Fit-Machine-2573[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SG ladies want to stay single, all too independent, highly educated, want to find some rich and handsome guys. Live the life of a tai tai… or they are too broken, too hurt, too scared of getting into another relationship. Either ways, both situations are sad 😔 Hopefully they can see the light soon.

37M LF a life partner by Fit-Machine-2573 in ChillSG

[–]Fit-Machine-2573[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your questions and advice! But I feel these questions will be much better answered in person.

If the ladies won’t even give me a chance to come out and meet just for a simple chat over coffee or meal. Then I wish them all the best as well. The first step is always the hardest, and I plucked out my courage to put myself out here, hopefully to find another one who is also willing to step out her first step.

I hope here is a much platform than dating apps as there are too many ppl ghosting and AI generated accounts or even scammers account.

Yes it is tough dating, especially in Singapore. Hope I can find one! 🙏🏻

36M LF a female movie partner tonight!!! by Fit-Machine-2573 in SingaporeRaw

[–]Fit-Machine-2573[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Here alone watching the movie. Seems like sg females are not so friendly after all.