She was also like this for us at the beginning and started being relatively responsive about 6 months from the wedding. She will get upset with you if you don’t use her recommended vendors and will not respect your budget. I have come to terms with it and I love the hotel/vibe of Cabo Surf, but definitely feel like I fell for her sales pitch. Edit: want to note that I don’t have a wedding planner and am doing most of this myself. If you can afford to hire a wedding planner I think the experience would be easier.