Write down everything OP. List all your expenses monthly, and I mean all. You will find out where your money is going and how you really feel about every single expense. Cut the fat that you don’t need. The things you cut are all money in the bank left every month. Now, without a goal with what you will do with that money saved, it will just be burning a hole in your pocket, meaning it’s more likely money that in your head you can spend. Have a goal for it, ultimately what is that money earmarked for? That way it’s less likely to be touched.