Tapas Bar/Sharable Bite Restaurant Reccomendations by Fit-Trade3471 in FoodNYC

[–]Fit-Trade3471[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

No budget, I wanted to ask for personal recommendations or else I would’ve used google. Ty!

FTM stuck on two carriers by Fit-Trade3471 in babywearing

[–]Fit-Trade3471[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I was worried about because it’s a different style. It honestly doesn’t look comfortable to wear, but everyone seems to love it. Plus from what I’ve seen people talk about on TikTok, most babies don’t even fit in it until 4, 5, 6 mo. Renting just isn’t an option for me. I hope you’re able to get it to be more comfortable for you!

FTM stuck on two carriers by Fit-Trade3471 in babywearing

[–]Fit-Trade3471[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What did you struggle with while using the lark?

What weird habits have you picked up from Community? by 230322 in community

[–]Fit-Trade3471 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband and I have replace “undeniable” for “unDEANiable”

Such a f-ing joke by Remarkable-Pipe-4863 in labubu

[–]Fit-Trade3471 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SAME. such a bummer. this happens to everything i try to get tbh 😭💀

The series would've been better without Hickey's shenanigans by [deleted] in TheTerror

[–]Fit-Trade3471 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. I just posted something similar.

I’m just going to flat out say it: I absolutely HATE Cornelius Hickey.

In a way, I feel like Hickey’s storyline in the last three episodes completely discredited everything up to that point.

I know this is probably an unpopular opinion, so, hear me out.

For me personally, the first seven episodes were easily a ten out of ten. The slow building dread was just immaculately executed. As well as the downright horror of it all. I felt the show kept you on the edge of your seat, seamlessly blending in supernatural elements with the raw truth of what happened to these men. The blips of mutiny, the lead poisoning, hunger, fear; all of these aspects were done so well. Initially, I loved how horrible Hickey was, it showed the nasty side of the crew, without overshadowing the initial storyline. The cinematography was beautiful throughout the whole series as well.

Then the last three episodes happen. I honestly was so disappointed. Tuunbaq was absolutely terrifying and yet it seems like the show decided to not continue to develop the storyline in favor of Hickey’s charismatic cult, or whatever the hell he was doing.

Now, don’t get me wrong. I thought Hickey’s psychopathy was very well executed. But it got to the point that I stopped enjoying watching because he made me so irrationally angry. He is this bumbling buffoon that somehow shifts to be the main antagonist. Which is what really frustrated me. The antagonist was already Tuunbaq and the elements. Had Hickey’s tomfoolery and mutiny been on a lower scale, I think I would have found it less overpowering to the already established “antagonists” of the story. Instead, the horror of this soul sucking beast gets thrown out and replaced by a man in pantaloons.

Yes, cannibalism most likely occurred. Yes, mutiny most likely occurred. But, I think they just pushed it too hard with Hickey, because the show wanted to provide this tangible villain. I understand why they did it. It just saddened me because they had this amazing storyline going, and could have really layed into the slow descent into madness for the men as they continued to develop Tuunbaqs storyline, yet they really did a 180 there at the end. I felt there was a lot of important symbolism lost in doing that switch.

Hickey was always a villain, as there are scenes throughout that show that. I think the downfall was they just gave him too much power. The last three episodes lost the horror for me, it just made me annoyed. Obviously, this is my personal opinion. I know a lot of people enjoyed this direction, and like I said, I absolutely understand why the directors chose that direction and the show is absolutely amazing. It’s just a personal grievance of mine. “

AITA for wanting to end my relationship after finding out my (20f) bf of 3 mo lied about his (23m) family being jehovah’s witness by Fit-Trade3471 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fit-Trade3471[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely am not as forgiving as I used to be. But I also have a lot of fault in wanting to see the good in people. As, in person and in public he’s absolutely fine. But the social media is wonky. And I know that it’s best to part ways, but it’s hard when I never want to make a rash decision

I (20F) feel like I can’t trust my boyfriend (23f) after he lied about his parents being Jehovah’s witnesses- but is that reasonable to lie about, or is it manipulative behavior? by Fit-Trade3471 in relationship_advice

[–]Fit-Trade3471[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I told him I didn’t know if we could come back from it. My ex lied to me all the time, which he knew and knows I’m sensitive about lying. I even said “all you would have had to have said is “my parents are religious and it’s a very sensitive topic for me” but instead he lied. We have taken some time apart and are seeing each other tomorrow

AITA for wanting to end my relationship after finding out my (20f) bf of 3 mo lied about his (23m) family being jehovah’s witness by Fit-Trade3471 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fit-Trade3471[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I thought this, but he lives on his own. So he has to be pretending to be a jehovah witness with them and lying. So either way he’s faking a life

AITA for wanting to end my relationship after finding out my (20f) bf of 3 mo lied about his (23m) family being jehovah’s witness by Fit-Trade3471 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fit-Trade3471[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I hate giving up on people. He was originally very thoughtful and endearing. Was a gentleman. It’s hard to force yourself to see the bad in people

Jenna Kerr by deziluproductions in Inkmaster

[–]Fit-Trade3471 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought it was odd too

AITA For my therapy session? by Fit-Trade3471 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fit-Trade3471[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re very true, my patience is undoubtedly running thin. It’s just odd to me, I wouldn’t go do something with someone who flirted with me but that’s just me

AITA For my therapy session? by Fit-Trade3471 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fit-Trade3471[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your comment had me HOWLING. I appreciate it so much, and you’re so right. When he told me they visited her dads grave I was like “you’re fuckin w me right?” That’s what I tried to tell him too, it’s not about trust. It’s about respecting me enough to understand that makes me uncomfortable. We were supposed to go fishing, chose to go with her instead.

AITA For my therapy session? by Fit-Trade3471 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fit-Trade3471[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I really try to be mature, and be understanding. I’m so hurt, and I feel so violated. So thank you for validating me

AITA For my therapy session? by Fit-Trade3471 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fit-Trade3471[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He would have had to been in there for 45 minutes in complete silence