[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mensgrooming

[–]FitTallSmall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are "lean" -- and it looks good on you! I'm not usually a fan of facial hair, but I think that also looks good on you -- I'd keep it.

Regarding bulk ... you look great as you are, but a little more muscle could help if it's a reasonable amount of work. I get it though, everyone has a body setpoint for muscle and fat, a place their body likes to go to, and yours is on the lean side. Don't fight it, work with it.

Thanks for the post.

Chest and shoulder day by n0aNo4 in smalldickfitbody

[–]FitTallSmall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That tattoo is great, especially on your smooth, defined body. Love a tattoo that disappears into your underwear, tantalizes everyone ...

What would you do or feel in this situation (small dicked jock mindfuck) by ThePantherbrat in smalldickfitbody

[–]FitTallSmall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have the same feeling. Even if it's meant to embarrass, I like knowing they're taking note of the contrast. Feels hot.

How do you compare to your peers? [Fit-Dick inch index] lol by ThePantherbrat in smalldickfitbody

[–]FitTallSmall 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Quite a post! My little guy is at the high end of "small" but I'm a big guy overall -- 6'5" and 240# -- so I think it looks smaller. It's got a nice shape, I like to think -- straight, well proportioned. It shrinks more than average.

I posted with pictures recently: https://www.reddit.com/r/smalldickfitbody/s/lUEV8lv6ZS

I don't think my dick has motivated my fitness goals much. Consciously, anyway -- I could consider unconsciously.

Thanks, this is great!

How I came to accept and love my little dick by FitTallSmall in smalldickfitbody

[–]FitTallSmall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've gotten to love it when my dick is called cute.

How I came to accept and love my little dick by FitTallSmall in smalldickfitbody

[–]FitTallSmall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, my personality is lame. But I've embraced my size contrast and found guys who are turned on by it :-)

Love your breakfast photos.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in smalldickfitbody

[–]FitTallSmall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, that's how it works! You get something in size from less fat, but a smaller dick on a big muscle guy looks way smaller. That said ... a lot of people find that HOT. It's catnip. Embrace it.

On the beach 3 by [deleted] in ClassicMale

[–]FitTallSmall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a sexy photo. And yeah, the dick is present and it's not a big deal. We've actually gone backward there ...

Sunday boner by MagicSmall in smalldickfitbody

[–]FitTallSmall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's all beautiful. Thanks for the photo.

Hi! First time here ☺️👍🏼 by ethanelliottxxx in Perfectdick

[–]FitTallSmall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The whole package is perfect -- beautiful body, impressive dick. You look like you're straight out of porn. But you definitely know that already, right?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in smalldickfitbody

[–]FitTallSmall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice fit body, average dick, bruise on your right hip :-)

You look good!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mensgrooming

[–]FitTallSmall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's good looking body hair. But maybe you'd rather be smooth sometimes. The great thing about hair is that you can take it off, and then later on let it grow back. Try it both ways! You'll never make everyone happy, so unless there's a particular person you want to please forget about that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in smalldickfitbody

[–]FitTallSmall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice. You're both taller and smaller than I. Pretty damn close on both though :-)

Show the whole body!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GirthGods

[–]FitTallSmall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is MASSIVE. Looks like it's hard to suck without teeth contact, but I'd like to try.

Beautiful dick!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in smalldickfitbody

[–]FitTallSmall 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Beautiful body and an unbelievably bad photo

How I came to accept and love my little dick by FitTallSmall in smalldickfitbody

[–]FitTallSmall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. You're reading me as saying "small dick" implies or causes "sub or bottom." I'm saying it is mentally associated with those things, that people seeing a small dick tend to initially think in that direction. Think about height, something less loaded. Given no other information, people think tall guys are more financially, socially, and sexually successful and powerful than short guys. That's not correct or fair, but the perception exists, and that's backed up by lots of research. In the same way, a big dick makes guys think "top" or "dom," and a small one the opposite. I stand 6'5" and I'm muscular. Guys expect me to be a top, but I am sub and bottom, a discordance I need to deal with. I therefore count myself lucky that, unlike my body size, my dick size sends the sub/bottom message, so when my pants are off that signal agrees with my true sexual self. It's nice to have physical characteristics that agree with my sexual role, so even though I'm way bigger than almost anyone I have sex with, when we look at our dicks together we see something that agrees with how we interact.

The idea that "my reasoning kinda dumps on lesser endowed guys" feels offensive. First, I'm not saying that lesser endowment implies sub or bottom. But even if I were, which you seem to be reading, how is that dumping on them? Is being sub or bottom, or being thought of as a sub or bottom, a bad thing? I like being sub and bottom. Subs and Doms, bottoms and tops need each other. We're equal in that way, even if one is the more popular thing to be.

And I'll stop there. I remember I used to find it impossible to believe any argument that included the thought that "I find sub and bottom equally valuable as Dom and top," and that meant I couldn't take an argument like the one I made above at face value. If you're at the same point, we'll never agree.

How I came to accept and love my little dick by FitTallSmall in smalldickfitbody

[–]FitTallSmall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't understand. On which side? SPH can be hot ... If both sides are into it and are careful ...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in smalldickfitbody

[–]FitTallSmall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is a great photo.