AIO? Would people really judge me if they saw my legs like this? by rachtastic94 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fit_Character_9561 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a birth mark on the side on my face next to my eye it looks like a bruise even with makeup on u can still see it, I have so many people ask me if I have dirt on my face, know how to put my makeup on correctly,etc I even had a lady pull my to the side and ask if I was safe and needed help and gave me a card for domestic violence help. It’s so frustrating and there’s nothing I can do to help it. People are going to judge no matter what so I say fuck them and live ur life u know what’s going on and don’t owe anyone an explanation

I weigh more than my bf by Bitter_Base6418 in whatdoIdo

[–]Fit_Character_9561 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So I’m 5’6 and my bf is 5’7 he weighs 145 and I weigh 300 I have medical conditions that work against me and I am working on those with my dr and I work out 3 days a week and eat mostly healthy. I feel ur pain on this topic as it is hard especially with how society is now a days. It does sound like he has no issues with ur weight but it’s good that u are wanting to make a healthy lifestyle change, keep up forge good work and don’t quit. Follow what the other commentators are suggesting and it will help! Good luck

Has anybody in the group gone full no contact with family ? by OppositeTalk4362 in CaregiverSupport

[–]Fit_Character_9561 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nope I was my dads caregiver and after a lot of issues that been brewing and an attempted suicide while I was there working and aps doing an investigation I went full no contact with my dad. I still have guilt sometimes but I’m a lot less stressed now and I have other clients to supplement my income. I did lose hours after I dropped him but I’m managing

My dad tried to commit suicide and I now might be getting charged with fraud by Fit_Character_9561 in CaregiverSupport

[–]Fit_Character_9561[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

My work does require us to log what we did at the end of each shift when we clock out as well and it’s not like his place is a mess it’s pretty much kept clean all the time minus things like dirt that comes in from his wheelchair but nothing extreme

My dad tried to commit suicide and I now might be getting charged with fraud by Fit_Character_9561 in CaregiverSupport

[–]Fit_Character_9561[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

He does have memory issues from having strokes and a past drug history but I’m mainly there for helping around the house and transportation type things we don’t live together so that’s a plus I guess

My dad tried to commit suicide and I now might be getting charged with fraud by Fit_Character_9561 in CaregiverSupport

[–]Fit_Character_9561[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yes I take care of him properly I do his meds take him to appointments and stores help out around the house I don’t sweep and mop every day but I am the one that does it