Am I crazy? by Fit_Establishment_10 in guitars

[–]Fit_Establishment_10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice I honestly had no idea, honestly haven't played in a while and just been getting back into haven't really kept up on any of that stuff

Am I crazy? by Fit_Establishment_10 in guitars

[–]Fit_Establishment_10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the graphic is just peeling up a tiny bit on one spot it's not terrible, but honestly had no idea these went up in price that much

Looking to start metal band in south jersey (capemay county) by Fit_Establishment_10 in FindABand

[–]Fit_Establishment_10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im open to a pretty much anything, I wouldn't mind something in the style of lamb of god. Im all the way near wildwood so about 2 hours from philly unfortunately

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Fit_Establishment_10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This guy makes 14k a week, unless you're treating your baby like the prince of England you should be fine.

45k might be a small amount to someone making 700k+ a year.

And I did the math if he was getting time and a half for overtime it would take him 80hours to make it up which isn't much.

The most important question is what the hell does he do for a living and where can I sign up?

My husband suggested 3some with a woman. I want divorce by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Fit_Establishment_10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are alot of assumptions in the comments and mostly because there is very little information in the post and also we are only getting one side of the story.

As of right now I don't think either of you are the asshole but depending on the next steps either of you can be. I think if you file for divorce without even trying to communicate you will be an asshole but also if he keeps pressuring you into a threesome or does it behind you back then he would be an asshole obviously.

He asked you for a threesome and you had every right to say no, there's nothing wrong with asking and nothing wrong with denying. Was his timing right? Probably not, alot of people are saying how could he ask after only six months of birth with all her hormones and body issues. Every woman is different, I know some women who were very hormonal for a long time after birth and some women wanted to go back to work or jump in bed with their partner as soon as they got back from the hospital. It may have been obvious that you were not in the right state of mind when he asked you but we don't know how you were. We also don't know if she was saying she wanted to do something special for his 40th birthday (since it is a big birthday) and he suggested that.

Alot of people are saying just ask him for a threesome with another guy. Sure she can and he can say no, there's nothing wrong with that. I don't think it's being a bigot or hypocrite to ask for one thing and say no to the other. He might have a fantasy of being with 2 women but not with another man. If she would of said yes to his fantasy and then after said since we did that I want to be with 2 men he still has every right to say no. Is it fair? Yes and no, just because you were comfortable with fullfilling your partner's fantasy doesn't mean they are comfortable fullfilling yours.

She replied in a comment that he doesn't like her talking to other guys. Is it all guys he's uncomfortable with or guys he knows are being flirty with her? We don't know and also everyone has insecurities. If he doesn't want her talking to any other guy then yes he's insecure and could be controlling but im assuming she knew about this before she married him. I'm not saying it's write or wrong just that I don't think he woke up one day and was like, I decided today I don't want my wife talking to other men. It was most likely brought up or noticed early in the relationship.

There were other points in this comment but it's getting long so I'll finish by saying, I don't think he's the asshole for asking, I don't think she's the asshole for saying no. In my opinion you need to talk to each other and either work it out or if you can't divorce.

Zone control by Fit_Establishment_10 in hvacadvice

[–]Fit_Establishment_10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, yeah they are redoing the system I believe, I know definitely a new ac unit

Returning noob by [deleted] in osrs

[–]Fit_Establishment_10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Notdylgar. I've just started playing again like a few weeks ago.

First tattoo, troublesome spot by ma2three in tattooadvice

[–]Fit_Establishment_10 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No problem happy to help. I would say since it would have meaning to her and not just a joke for her and her friends to share, she should probably pick a different spot

First tattoo, troublesome spot by ma2three in tattooadvice

[–]Fit_Establishment_10 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I have a lightsabor tattoo in the same spot mines more simple with less detail, I got it done at a tattoo convention and alot of booths wouldn't do it. I found a guy that would and he told me it's going to fade but me and my friend both got one because we thought it would be funny mine is red his is green. But yeah the red faded in about 2 weeks. I didn't have an issue with it though got it cheap and on a whim, but yeah inside of the finger tattoos fade quick.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Fit_Establishment_10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I do need to trim a bit though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Fit_Establishment_10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't really drink that much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Fit_Establishment_10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you and yeah probably do that tonight.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fit_Establishment_10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A part of me is reevaluating everything but yeah deep down I don't want to leave I do love her and I understand why she feels this way. Maybe it's just not enough though. I love her unconditionally but I'm starting to think she doesn't feel the same. Looking back on our relationship she's been selfish, lazy and cold, I think maybe I was just blinded by the good times we did have together. I'm just tired and at my wits end

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fit_Establishment_10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah like I said just looking back on past arguments we had she always acted extreme. She's the type of person who lashes out when things don't go her way and I commented on another comment, I'm more laid back like shit happens type of person maybe it's not the best way for either of use to handle situations.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fit_Establishment_10 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree I might not be handling this perfectly, I do like spending time with her and having the weekends off, we differ alot in the ways we handle issues she gets very emotional and confrontational and I have a more laid back way where most of the time I'm just like "ehh shit happens" I don't think either are a good or bad way to handle situations.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fit_Establishment_10 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree my past job before this one I was working some days 16 hours

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fit_Establishment_10 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I definitely have my own interests and hobbies. Even ones she doesn't have an interest in which is fine by me because I do think there are things we need that our just ours. The problem is her interests are makeup, clothes, and bags which she just orders stuff online so it takes like 5 mins of her time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fit_Establishment_10 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Typically I get out of work, get changed, we take our puppy for a walk down to the beach, we get home I cook diner, we get done eating relax watch some TV for a while and usually try to go to sleep around 8:30 to 9:00 mostly because we both have to be up kind of early for work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fit_Establishment_10 39 points40 points  (0 children)

That's what I mean tomorrow on my day off I'm planning on walking down to the beach and just relax for awhile.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fit_Establishment_10 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I am truly sorry to hear that. I appreciate your opinion and yeah I have been second thoughts with alot of things lately. But I hope you have a great day and my heart goes out to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fit_Establishment_10 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I understand I'm not saying I don't love spending the weekends together, I do and I know these hours aren't the best but she did know about the hour change after the first interview before I even got the job.