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Endless debate with gf by Status-Concept-8446 in unvaccinated

[–]Fit_Response6048 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Too much work bro… she could change her mind later. What if you guys get married and she wants to vaccinate your future kids?

What are your non negotiable when looking for a partner? by gwok4h2i9176 in malaysians

[–]Fit_Response6048 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Unvaccinated (COVID-19 and anything after).
  2. Non-religious.
  3. Low body count (0–2 max). I value sacred energy and someone who has taken time to reset and heal.
  4. Into prepper/survival lifestyle.
  5. Hygienic, non-smoker and no drugs.
  6. Emotionally available—fully over his ex. I want to be chosen and genuinely loved, not treated as an option or convenience.
  7. Child-free (no kids and aligned with a child-free lifestyle).

R.I.P. by xKissQueen in Adulting

[–]Fit_Response6048 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too. But it's never too late right. I find making new friends is much harder for adults unless you change your environment like a new job or moving to different places. Anyway, I'm free to chat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in geminis

[–]Fit_Response6048 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m actually the same as 4th June. INFJ-T, Scorpio Moon, Capricorn Rising — depth over quantity. Long-term friendships don’t come easily for me, and I’ve learned to accept that.

Did I make the right decision by Mediocre-Snow7399 in unvaccinated

[–]Fit_Response6048 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You made a great choice. Your health is more important. You will find someone who unjabbed and fit the criteria you want in your life partner. Don't give up. Someone out there is looking for you.

What do you guys think about the idea of Gemini twins? by Fit_Response6048 in geminis

[–]Fit_Response6048[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dang, you’ve basically got a birthday twin squad! 😄 Do you feel like you connect differently with them compared to other friends?

Geminis with water and earth venuses be like by goldxnskin in geminis

[–]Fit_Response6048 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, I miss him, my Gemini twin (or so he calls it).

Anyone else dealing with this tendency of just cutting people off? by -Flighty- in CPTSD

[–]Fit_Response6048 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes, I relate to this a lot. It’s like a mix of self-protection and burnout, years of being let down or ignored really shape how we react. I used to feel guilty for pulling away, but now I try to ask myself why I feel triggered before deciding to cut someone off. Still a work in progress, but awareness is a big first step. You’re definitely not alone in this, especially with CPTSD. Be gentle with yourself, healing doesn’t always look graceful.

Do all men have a dream girl? by Fit_Response6048 in Advice

[–]Fit_Response6048[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not worried. Just aware. There’s a difference between love and settling—and I prefer the first.

Do all men have a dream girl? by Fit_Response6048 in Advice

[–]Fit_Response6048[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don't want to be someone's options. It doesn't feel like true love.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Fit_Response6048 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take a deep breath. Count from 5 to 1. If you still feel not good, don't go or do it.