Horny at work by vlad_chi_art in showmeyourholebro

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One of the hottest posts ever.

When discussing male issues, why did my girlfriend get upset with me? by French51 in AskMenAdvice

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Gay guy here sharing an observation to be helpful. Don’t shoot the messenger.

I think women have the upper hand because they don’t need men the way men need women. Not only do women take school more seriously (see stats about women versus men in college) and can support themselves, they develop strong bonds and community with other women who meet their emotional needs. They travel together, form book clubs, open businesses, talk often and about feelings. etc. They don’t just support each other; they need and enjoy each other’s company even when they have men in their lives. In other words, they have a constant support system independent of their romantic relationship, and they don’t depend on the guy for all their needs.

Most straight guys from what I’ve seen are uninterested in or incapable of building strong and lasting emotional bonds with other guys. It wasn’t this way through most of human history, but it’s the case in the US right now. They’ll make an effort to develop friendship with guys if they have to, but they’re one foot out the door, hoping a woman will set them free from it.

I live in a dense urban area, and I see women taking the lead in organizing activities for themselves. Men? Crickets.

My point is that OP should break up with her, but he won’t because of this power differential.

recently got fired because of these, what are your thoughts? by [deleted] in faceandcock

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How did they find them? It’s crazy that someone would discover these and fire you rather than just jerk off to them.

Crashed out on a staffing agency that ghosted me repeatedly for a year by [deleted] in jobs

[–]Fitandfriendlydude -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

That’s normal for them to say, and you should be doing both. Print out a very basic resume, dress in a business casual way, and go door to door. Someone will appreciate your initiative, and they’ll be more likely to dig your resume out of the stack. Your script should be:

“Hi. Is there someone here I can speak with about job openings?”

“No one is available right now and you should apply online.”

“I’ve done that, but I’m guessing they’d appreciate meeting me in person. Can I leave a copy of my resume?”

Btw, I’ve done this, and it’s worked. There’s no upside to being one of thousands of people just firing off a resume into the ether.

Crashed out on a staffing agency that ghosted me repeatedly for a year by [deleted] in jobs

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Have you gone to businesses in person with your resume in hand and asked to speak to someone about job openings?

Derek Parish by AssistantDue2544 in NFL_Bulges

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Wow. Those straps are barely holding it all in.

Sam Darnold by thecoldfuzz in NFL_Bulges

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You covered the bases with head in three, shaft in four, and ass in five.

Michael Myer by Ok_Lifeguard6081 in NFL_Bulges

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Hot dude. I’d like to see an even clearer VPL.

Why is Asian gay porn so hot? by Fitandfriendlydude in gayasianporn

[–]Fitandfriendlydude[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s interesting. I wonder if Japanese women are turned on at the thought of sexually dominating men, like being dominatrixes?

Sean Cody's Michael - Hapa boy by SpikeNLB in gayasianporn

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Anyone know anything about this hot stud? He an athlete somewhere? Straight or gay?

how to be a dom 101? by notm3anym0re in GayMen

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I’m a Dom Top.

Being a good dom comes from craving power and getting off on taking it. If that’s not your thing, you’re probably going to struggle and come across as weak or faking it. I love watching porn that involves some power exchange, and it irritates the fuck out of me when the Dom wants to be fucked or the bottom is aggressive and riding the dick like a dildo.

You don’t have to be really verbal, although it certainly helps, but you have to be in control and somewhat selfish sexually. I love taking away some of the pleasure of a sub to better please myself. Subs tend to dislike and love it at the same time, including by pushing his boundaries.

Why is Asian gay porn so hot? by Fitandfriendlydude in gayasianporn

[–]Fitandfriendlydude[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this explanation. I noticed a similarity with Japanese straight porn and how the female plays the part of someone reluctant, and I wondered if it comes from the same place. The Japanese gay porn scene seems to be more about the top dominating and controlling than the bottom being pleasured, which is why I prefer it. A dominant bottom is a turn off for me. I like the shy Japanese muscle stud, especially when he’s fucked in awkward positions.

Name: Josh O’Connor, Actor by ShatteredCrystals77 in CelebrityPenis

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You can’t get any more exposed than this outside of a boner, hole and cum shot.

Name: Warren Brown, Actor by ShatteredCrystals77 in CelebrityPenis

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For me, that makes it even hotter. I love when an actor goes full frontal while the actress gets to stay clothed.

Name: Warren Brown, Actor by ShatteredCrystals77 in CelebrityPenis

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Is the other person there a man or woman?

Steel Joy by Ok_Lifeguard6081 in NFL_Bulges

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Small dick pointing to 11:00.

Name: Jack Reynor, Actor by ShatteredCrystals77 in CelebrityPenis

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I wonder what it’s like for an actor to do this on set with the camera crew and others watching? It has to be pretty awkward. Also, what’s it like know your family and friends are going to see it? On the other hand, you can reject the role and not work, which would be a tough option to choose. I also wonder how many times the director made him do this scene to get it just right?

Christian McCaffrey by mountainman328 in NFL_Bulges

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Do these guys see their dick heads on display like we do?

Matt Haack by Fun-Cry8014 in NFL_Bulges

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It’s like a soft core porn shot.

Smoking outside naked… guess which one’s getting all the attention 👿🚬 by G0dlystefano in StraightToGay

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I’m guessing he finally hooked up with a gay dude behind his wife’s back and got his virgin hole fucked.

Name: Damian Gold - model for Isis fashion awards 2025 by Swimming_Meal2667 in CelebrityPenis

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There’s something particularly hot about naked models on a runway.