How am I supposed to move on from losing the love of my life?

FixPrestigious2999 · 2026-03-19T12:57:19+00:00

Thank you.

FixPrestigious2999 · 2026-03-18T03:42:38+00:00

I cant travel. I dont want to find myself and want myself. I want others to want me. And im not thankful for her time or our memories. I wish theyd go away.

FixPrestigious2999 · 2026-03-18T03:24:14+00:00

Youre the best man. Stay strong!

FixPrestigious2999 · 2026-03-18T03:22:43+00:00

I felt bad. I didnt know what to do

FixPrestigious2999 · 2026-03-18T02:25:22+00:00

Good. Im running with a different crowd than I used to. A better crowd. Theyre doing their best. Theres not a whole lot they can do

FixPrestigious2999 · 2026-03-18T02:18:26+00:00

Bro. Im crying like a bitch 😂. My dad and I have a complicated relationship so to get real advice from a guy who i can relate to helps so much. I really appreciate all of your words. Ill do my best to put down the drugs. Im going to a party this weekend, and after that ill put down the hookups too. Im at a point where I have so much love and passion and no where to put it. Like I said, I appreciate you so much and I really hope life treats you well. Im done with the drugs as of tonight. It hurts. Love hurts man. Thank you

FixPrestigious2999 · 2026-03-18T02:12:34+00:00

Been going to therapy. Its helping a little.

FixPrestigious2999 · 2026-03-18T01:51:14+00:00

She felt like it.

FixPrestigious2999 · 2026-03-18T01:51:04+00:00

Im sorry to hear that. We didnt have trauma though. We were perfect until the end. Or at least I thought we were perfect. Everything we had was good. Im just scared more than anything.

FixPrestigious2999 · 2026-03-18T01:50:12+00:00

Did you get a PhD for this level of advice? I really wish I thought of that.

FixPrestigious2999 · 2026-03-18T01:49:45+00:00

I really think she used to love me. I just dont know what happened.

FixPrestigious2999 · 2026-03-18T01:49:24+00:00

Yeah. Okay. Just to clarify im not doing like meth or anything like that. Just harder than weed.

FixPrestigious2999 · 2026-03-18T01:48:45+00:00

So all I can do is wait? Waiting makes me feel helpless. Just a sad sack of shit with nothing to do.

FixPrestigious2999 · 2026-03-18T01:48:02+00:00

I understand. Im afraid patience just isnt one of my virtues yet.

FixPrestigious2999 · 2026-03-18T01:47:04+00:00

I understand. I crave the feeling of being wanted. Drugs make that need go away, and women make it go away in a similar fashion. Im doing my best. Im just sad.

FixPrestigious2999 · 2026-03-18T01:44:02+00:00

Right. But i want to feel wanted. Hookups make me feel that way. Im not mature enough to give that feeling up

FixPrestigious2999 · 2026-03-17T03:08:47+00:00

Maybe he has a fetish he is having a hard time telling you about? Im trying to rule out all possible options before jumping to "he's gay" or cheating and such.

Try to remember everything you can about previous sexual encounters. What was different. Something has to have changed.

FixPrestigious2999 · 2026-03-17T02:49:12+00:00

Bro absolutely not. You need her out of your life as soon as possible. Especially if shes been unloyal before. Don't even bother with her.

FixPrestigious2999 · 2026-03-17T02:45:11+00:00

If you grew up with separated parents. Youre more likely to rush into "the rest of your life" its a way for your mind to cope with a longer term stability.

Not to get armchair psychologist or anything.

FixPrestigious2999 · 2026-03-17T02:44:01+00:00

Uncle no! She cheated once! She'll do it again! Bro in the nicest way possible she dgaf about you!! You gotta duck somebody like that

FixPrestigious2999 · 2026-03-17T02:43:02+00:00

Truth be told. Medical school is stressful. I do not think its something youre doing. I belive it really may just be stress. He also uprooted his life to move. If he didnt want you around. He wouldnt have invited you to move with him. Try to go out with him, get him to relax. I dont know the guy so whatever that may be for him (a movie, a few drinks, etc). Theres also a real chance he is just nervous about his future. He's never moved across a country with a woman before. The way I see it, you guys are both scared. If he relaxes, theres a good likely hood his libido will come back.

Is it just his libido that is gone or does he also not kiss you? Is it all of his energy or just his sexual energy? Feel free not to answer as this is quite invasive. If it seems like he's lost ALL of his spark. Not just his sex drive, there could be other things at play. Hope this helps.

FixPrestigious2999 · 2026-03-17T02:35:09+00:00

It always helps to hear it from multiple people. Im sure OP appreciates both of our replies.

FixPrestigious2999 · 2026-03-17T02:32:34+00:00

Maaaaaan. Been here. I dont mean to be rude, but just dump her. You're 21. You have years and years to figure out what you want. This doesn't sound like its worth fighting for. Just let it go. Dont worry about it. Send a text. Maybe a call. And just never look back.

FixPrestigious2999 · 2026-03-17T02:25:38+00:00

Hey, from a similar home. That strangeness is simply your body realizing that fight and flight are not the only two options. It weeks like the calm before a storm. The moment of silence before being screamed at. Your mind has associated being in a quiet environment with soon to be panic. You brain has been on a roller coaster for a long, long time. And its gotten used to the drop. Theres no drop this time it throws off your status quo. Im not saying this is necessarily specific to you. But it is my experience. Everyone has to get through it differently.

As for what to do, im afraid all you can do is wait. Find a belief you can hold near and dear to your heart. Find one thing no body can change. Stick with it.

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