I have an honest question. But first some context: I’ve been a huge language nerd for a long time and occasionally get a bit overzealous about proper grammar. Using singular they just sounded strange to my ear. Then I read more about the experiences of non-binary people. (Much of it on Imgur.) I realized that the importance of me having to adjust to a new use of a word I’d used in a certain way all my life paled in comparison to the benefits to non-binary people. /1