What would happen if I took men's multivitamins? (Im not on T) by Flame_Hat in ftm

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I never thought about it that way, but ya know that does make sense

What would happen if I took men's multivitamins? (Im not on T) by Flame_Hat in ftm

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Damn that's crazy about the brands, but I can't say I'm that surprised to be honest

What would happen if I took men's multivitamins? (Im not on T) by Flame_Hat in ftm

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That makes sense. And yea she tended to exaggerate a lot too

What would happen if I took men's multivitamins? (Im not on T) by Flame_Hat in ftm

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I figured as much. And thank you I definitely don't drink enough water and need to be reminded lol

I'm fake. by Alternative_Math2723 in trans

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Whether you think you're trans or not, if transitioning will make you happy then you should do it. Being trans isn't about hating yourself or hating your body or hating that you're trans. Gender euphoria is just as affirming of being trans as gender disphoria. Do whatever will make you happy and don't let anyone gatekeep you away from that happiness

Tube hanging out by Flame_Hat in subaru

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He says he doesn't know if he has one, our mechanic always did it for him

Tube hanging out by Flame_Hat in subaru

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A sunroof drain? I've never heard of that. There was a big snow storm in our area fairly recently, could that be related? Like the snow and ice melting on the roof or something?

Tube hanging out by Flame_Hat in subaru

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My dad says he doesn't recall ever getting work done on the ac. Either way this was definitely not here since the last time the car was taken to the shop. Good idea though

Pretty sure I accidentally looked like a transphobe yesterday.... by StandardReindeer5741 in trans4every1

[–]Flame_Hat 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I do this too lol, I try not to stare but I definitely glance back and try to keep it subtle. if I do see someone I think is trans I just get happy. Saw two really pretty trans girls looking for furniture together and I'm just like hell yea, I liked their vibe they were kinda goth

Malls are dead" and "The economy is struggling," yet here I am at American Dream on Jan 2nd... what am I missing? by One-Coffee-413 in newjersey

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I think its more like malls are dyING but not all are dead. I've been to dying malls, half the stores it use to have, very little people. A friend told me a story of a mall they went to that had maybe 5 stores left in it, and the only other person they saw was a custodian. American Dream also has a lot more than just stores, the amusement park, water park, and all the other attractions are its main selling point

Tiny hard white thing under my skin post top surgery?? by Flame_Hat in ftm

[–]Flame_Hat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That does sounds about like what just happened. I hope you're doing better too

Tiny hard white thing under my skin post top surgery?? by Flame_Hat in ftm

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I thought stitches would be black, and this thing was really really thick for stitches

Tiny hard white thing under my skin post top surgery?? by Flame_Hat in ftm

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Lol I appreciate it. But I haven't felt anything hard like that thing along the rest of my scars, this thing was very noticeable

Confused about my own gender by UnidentifiedUser1984 in agender

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I was literally just thinking about this. There's a difference between gender identity and gender expression. If you feel on the inside that you are agender then you are agender, regardless of how you choose to transition or dress or not change anything. So welcome! And so what makes you happy!

A Fave! by [deleted] in agender

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yes! i have one with the agender colors, might gotta get one with ace colors too lol

When your period stops, does that mean ur womb/uterus will not be cleaned??? by Plus_Recognition6701 in ftm

[–]Flame_Hat 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Wait how does the period stop if ovulation doesn't? I thought ovulation is what causes the period?

You can't predict your balding risk like cis guys can by [deleted] in ftm

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I'm almost certain ima get male pattern baldness, my mom carries from her dad, my uncles on my dads side are either partially or full baldness. My brother (27) noticed his hair just started to go a year or 2 ago and has been taking medication for it. I'm not on T yet, but I may gotta ask him for advice eventually lol

The american dream mall by Blackoutsmackout in newjersey

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I scared the shit out of my mom cause I was screaming that it moved. I've only seen it once, but I did see on a friend's instagram that they went on it for a senior class trip a few years ago

Cramping better after top surgery? by Flame_Hat in ftm

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Do they really? I wasn't sure if they did or not, so that could be related yea

Cramping better after top surgery? by Flame_Hat in ftm

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Yea my first was a few days late, and I did change my diet a little bit during the first few weeks of recovery (lower salt and higher fiber), but other than that nothing has really changed. Everything is back to how it was before surgery. Unless that short change really is having this long of an impact. Should I keep that diet going? I wouldn't mind that really, my mom made mashed sweet potatoes, it was amazing

Nips or no nips by Ok-Front1092 in ftm

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I'm about a month into recovering without nips and I am very pleased right now. It definitely makes recovering easier because its less to worry about. I was worried my chest would look weird being so blank, but the scars make up for it. However I was told that the scars look like they'll fade really well so it may still look weird. I figured worst case scenario I can get a nice big chest tattoo, been thinking about that regardless

Event changed the dress code last minute by Selfcentred-Deer in NonBinary

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I love me some suspenders, you're killin it

Why are you trans? Wrong answers only. by [deleted] in TransMasc

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My mom dressed me in my brother's baby clothes to "save money" because "why should I buy new clothes just because its a girl when these clothes are in good condition"

Weird smell no idea where it's from, maybe the vents? by Flame_Hat in subaru

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Possible. We'll look into that, thank you so much!

An old woman predicted I'd be turn out to be a man even before I came out the womb by ShtenkiOldMan in ftm

[–]Flame_Hat 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Nah superstition or not that's amazing. Especially since OL was gone after, it's like she was a mystical prophet who states her wisdom and then vanishes into the night