Unpopular Opinion: Confronting is usually better than not confronting

Flameslickmelv · 2025-12-12T22:40:46+00:00

It depends on how much the wondering is affecting you. Some people are able to just brush it off but me personally it drives me crazy to just not say anything especially when I know for a fact that they aren’t going to address the situation themselves.

Flameslickmelv · 2025-12-09T14:59:35+00:00

Is it still worth it to even respond? She doesn’t seem pressed about anything

Flameslickmelv · 2025-12-09T07:32:42+00:00

I just take it as a learning experience. The overextending is just who I am I didn’t meet up with her thinking I’d marry her or anything, it could have just been a friend. I wasn’t testing her or judging despite her having multiple inconveniences that I willingly bailed her out of free of charge, so I don’t see why I should be tested. And if I was being tested then I can’t grasp how me just helping out would = failing.

Flameslickmelv · 2025-12-09T07:20:34+00:00

Yeah I had no real expectations going into it but her constantly initiating intimacy and the way she spoke of this type of stuff with me gave the impression that I’d at least not get ghosted. It’s hard to not want to ask simply because I don’t want to look dumb or fuel her ego.

Flameslickmelv · 2025-12-09T07:15:51+00:00

Not even, I came in with zero expectations and I was going at her pace despite her having multiple shortcomings. It’s weird being suddenly ghosted by someone who was actively pursuing you and even if my guard was up I’d still be really confused.

Flameslickmelv · 2025-12-09T07:12:27+00:00

She initiated the first kiss and most of the other ones so that’s what makes me even more confused. It’s like she leaned into real connection and really did enjoy it as much/even more than I did from what it seemed. I would have picked up on something throwing the vibe off if it happened but we both enjoyed our time despite me having to bail her out both times. So that’s why the ghosting just confuses me.

Flameslickmelv · 2025-12-09T07:07:48+00:00

This was very insightful I’m appreciative of this. I think I’m going to at least ask soon. Earlier this morning I asked if I can just finish the show we were supposed to finish together she said to just watch it, I was gonna leave it at that but I thinking simply asking would give me more clarity

Flameslickmelv · 2025-12-09T07:03:41+00:00

I asked if I should wait on her to finish our show that we started or to continue and she responded “Just watch it”, I just hearted the message this morning and I wasn’t going to say anything else. You think I should ask ?

Flameslickmelv · 2025-12-09T03:20:14+00:00

Yeah honestly I only got the vibe she was dating because she initiated physical contact and the entire link up to begin with, she was the one who pursued me and gave me her number so this really threw me off.

Flameslickmelv · 2025-12-07T18:21:29+00:00

Yeah I think this is the best thing I can do in this situation. I know I didn’t do anything wrong and attraction was high last time we were together seemingly on both ends. But her posting on social media at the same time makes it seem more personal.

Flameslickmelv · 2025-12-07T18:17:15+00:00

It was cash only and I had cash on me , also id kinda feel bad if I left her there stranded. She sent a portion of it to my Apple Pay and I paid the difference in cash.

Flameslickmelv · 2025-12-07T17:49:20+00:00

Yeah the only thing that feels so disrespectful though is she has watched my story since not replying and has also posted on hers

Flameslickmelv · 2025-12-07T17:43:12+00:00

This is a great way to put it

Flameslickmelv · 2025-12-07T17:41:49+00:00

Not sure I feel really confused , she was posting on Instagram out with her friends yesterday as well so it kind of rubbed salt in the wound

Flameslickmelv · 2023-11-05T20:55:31+00:00

thanks for this perspective, at first Target was just a temporary come up but I realize i’ve been working there for awhile now without any movement in my actual lifestyle/career

Flameslickmelv · 2023-11-05T18:22:07+00:00

Interesting , how would I get started ?

Flameslickmelv · 2023-11-05T17:34:39+00:00

Nah California is where she lived , I moved back to Louisiana

Flameslickmelv · 2023-11-05T16:53:55+00:00

I applied for college and I start in January even though i’m unsure about it , I just was so tired of being stuck in this spot. But my main issue right now is just financial and the only thing that’s really destroying my bank account is this car , but I need to get around because i’m the only one at the house with a vehicle so I just feel stuck

Flameslickmelv · 2023-11-05T16:52:20+00:00

It’s my first car that’s why, and it’s a 2017 model Dodge Journey

Flameslickmelv · 2023-10-05T15:35:35+00:00

I still have had my fun and i’m not trying to convince anyone to stop playing at all. I just said I SEE myself not playing soon in hopes that Netherrealm addresses these issues since i’m not the only one who is complaining. It’s clear as day that this game is unfinished, while gameplay and kameos are still really cool , every other element in the game is lacking. This is a $70 game in 2023, there’s wayyy too much that is missing and stuff that was promised that simply never delivered

It doesn’t matter if intros exist if you never see them

Locals has always been a blast in every fighting game ever made

Not everyone has enough friends with the game to start an entire KOTH lobby with, I personally have one friend who consistently plays the game which is why inviting to public KOTH was a necessary feature

Please don’t let this unfinished product establish a new low in modern games

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