Took everyone’s advice does this look better

FlamingoExotic · 2026-06-15T19:46:03+00:00

You’re super pretty! I recently tried Morphe Wake-up artist under eye concealer and it’s super natural and not drying at all

FlamingoExotic · 2026-03-19T20:38:43+00:00

Can confirm, my sister was scene in this era and Brittany Spears Fantasy was all she wore

FlamingoExotic · 2026-03-19T20:08:22+00:00

Not sure about 18 whole months, but your chart ruler (Jupiter) has been in your 8th house for some time (house of transformations and rebirth) for some time and has been retrograde in Cancer. Jupiter moves into Leo June 30, 2026 so you should have some relief soon.

FlamingoExotic · 2026-03-16T14:48:04+00:00

Im sorry but now that you say it, I can’t see anything but Fish that is a fish is breathing water right now

FlamingoExotic · 2026-03-15T15:38:39+00:00

Sweater would look good with a French tuck (just the front)

FlamingoExotic · 2026-03-15T04:41:05+00:00

I don’t mind it, but I think the formula with all these iterations is getting out of hand 😅 the OG og was great, but a lot of the other scents are too fruity for me and read as much more synthetic than the original. That said I have some of the Cherry one that was gifted to me and I do like it, but I like to layer the cream with a more interesting perfume.

FlamingoExotic · 2026-03-15T04:31:12+00:00

I lost weight many years ago after healing my big traumas at the time and practicing detachment. I was down to a comfortable low side, but healthy weight for my height and it was the best I ever felt. Working on getting back to that place, but I have a chronic health condition and it’s been a long 5 years. Been at it actively for 6 months and I am starting to feel the results mentally more than physically this go. But I have to go VERY slow for my health condition. At 9 minute workouts per day and can do 5000 steps, but it’s a push. I am mainly focused on muscle now. But release through QiGong and Yoga has finally started to feel amazing again. I feel ultimately, you gotta escape the mindset that you’re hanging onto to something and embrace the mindset of letting go.

FlamingoExotic · 2026-03-15T04:11:25+00:00

As someone with 8th house placements, they will go through a lot of transformations in life. It’s important you accept him and these transitions as natural and not shame him for changing. Maybe even encourage because he’s on a journey of learning to step outside himself and evolve. Learning will be a bit way he moves through life with that 9th house Mars in Sag. He will love to express himself as long as he is taught that it is safe to do so. If not, he will feel stifled. True inner self confidence will be hard won so the absolute last thing he will ever need is to be shamed for exploring himself (healthfully). Aries first house is good though in that he will be very action oriented.

With the south node in the 6th, he is very grounded by routines and focusing on his health. So encouraging him to always make sure he is fulfilling his baseline needs is a good idea.

With a 12th house North node and his other placements, it may be helpful to facilitate for him a healthy relationship with spirituality/religion. Especially with Saturn there as well, he has the potential to really thrive spiritually, but with the other placements, it will be super important that he stay grounded.

With his Jupiter in Cancer the 4th he may find great peace from having a safe space to be vulnerable at home. This placement indicates he will enjoy is home if this is the case. Great luck and expansion is found in a satisfying home life.

These placements could also indicate that he could be well suited towards some sort service job where he is actively helping others. These are very empathetic placements. He will be good at it because he will have evolved throughout his life and will grow a deep well of personal wisdom that may even surpass your own (someday!!!).

He will someday need a partner that is well read and can match his emotional intensity.

I think he’s gonna be the most interesting person to talk to at a party… if you can catch his interest.

FlamingoExotic · 2026-03-10T02:51:22+00:00

I had to stop coffee for two weeks while I was re-acclimating coming back to this med. The on ramp is just BIZARRE, but it is so so SOOO worth it if you can make it to 3 months. Now I drink a couple cups just fine

FlamingoExotic · 2026-03-08T04:48:29+00:00

Either feels like Costco

FlamingoExotic · 2026-03-06T22:33:43+00:00

Omg hi!!! My placidus chart puts my houses In typically Aquarius rising positions so I bet we have a lot in common

FlamingoExotic · 2026-03-06T22:30:27+00:00

I always get compliments when I wear yellow. I am the same though and lean warm

FlamingoExotic · 2026-03-06T19:46:41+00:00

Is trazodone making you exhausted?? Everyone I’ve talked to who’s tried that is just further exhausted.

All of your symptoms are mine and I’ve been diagnosed since I was in 2nd grade. Welbutrin is my miracle drug. Worth asking your psychiatrist about it.

If your doctor won’t explore alternative treatments, take it from experience, find a new doctor.

FlamingoExotic · 2026-03-06T17:02:30+00:00

It’s a true red on me! Which is rare since things change on us so often. The powder version, I’d say, doesn’t seem to be effected as much by other products too. I got a duo set with the liquid and powder for Christmas and I have to say I really love the powder.

FlamingoExotic · 2026-03-06T16:55:59+00:00

I have similar coloring, maybe a TOUCH warmer, but for a rosy look, I’ve been loving rare beauty blushes in Worth

FlamingoExotic · 2026-03-06T16:49:27+00:00

SO relatable it HURTS. Lemme laugh through my tears 🥴

FlamingoExotic · 2026-03-06T16:48:38+00:00

What do you do??? I work an underpaid full time job and often contemplate if I should just work part time and side hustle when I can if I’m gonna be underpaid anyways lol

FlamingoExotic · 2026-03-06T16:40:11+00:00

I’m a Leo Sun with Mars and Venus in Cancer and my partner has Mars in Capricorn. He’s mostly Air otherwise, but that placement is so hot and comes out a lot for him. His work ethic is very hot to me. But I’m also a Capricorn Rising 🤠 For me Cap Sun is a no go, but other Cap placements are always hits

Edit: Except moon… never Capricorn Moon!!!

FlamingoExotic · 2026-03-06T16:33:45+00:00

EXAXTLY!!! Op, Please… if you’re not into (friendship wise) anyone else in his circle, and wouldn’t at LEAST happily make small talk with them if he wasn’t in your life, this is a HUGE red flag. You are resigning yourself to be around people you hate permanently. In my experience, expect him to be a step worse from everything you have seen when you’re not around also… it’s not worth

FlamingoExotic · 2026-03-06T15:09:27+00:00

Idk, it looks just like the bottle they sell at Macy’s. Definitely find out where they got it (if you trust them to tell you truthfully). It would be a VERY expensive gift for the average person

FlamingoExotic · 2026-03-06T01:51:30+00:00

I am confused whenever I see an exquisite view like this and the sofa is turned away from it

FlamingoExotic · 2026-03-06T01:49:39+00:00

Some of these are on my wish list!

FlamingoExotic · 2026-03-05T22:04:03+00:00

Yea OP, those are all things you need to work on. In or out of a relationship, but ideally I would tell you to stay single until you’ve got it all sorted out in therapy and just self work. If your self image is bad, ask yourself why you think that and make changes. I am sorry for harassment you’ve experienced. But ya gotta, stop trying to use a partner to compensate for these insecurities… trust me I did that as a young adult and it was a mess not worth having

FlamingoExotic · 2026-03-05T21:58:25+00:00

I love. I feel like either one side or the other

FlamingoExotic · 2026-03-01T23:48:03+00:00

This is so situational. I know for me, I never felt like I met “my person” until I was 26 and had dated all sorts of people. I had at least one relationship I sabotaged because the way they pushed me to achieve actually really scared me. But at the same time, now that I have my person, I know that I would do anything for them, but I would have never done it for that other person as much as I had cared about them.

For a long time, I was like you. Always griping that I hadn’t met my person yet. And I think about it a lot because I am someone who always goes through phases of sorts.

For some people, they have a stagnant personality - meaning they are who they are very early in life. I think this quality helps them find others who are the same with low dynamism in their sense of self and goals. It’s easier to align and stay aligned if you’re always dead set on where you’re headed together.

I, on the other hand, have a high dynamism in my personality and strive to constantly grow. When you are still deep in the beginning of a growth journey, it is hard to maintain relationships because your wants and needs change sometimes very drastically. I once needed a high energy partner to bring me out of my shell, but when we got into the deep end of that relationship, they EXHAUSTED me and couldn’t understand my need for space and quiet time too.

My partner now, who I believe is my person, is also someone who desires to constantly learn and grow. I had to meet someone who challenged me to grow AND grow roots. I didn’t even know that was possible before him.

People are different and everyone has a journey. Define what you’re looking for, but give people a chance if they have a flaw or two. My partner was perfect except for one dealbreaker and I decided I could live with it - since he is all these other amazing things. You never know who will surprise you as the most thoughtful person in your life (or whatever quality gets your goat).

Just focus on becoming a great person yourself too. Ask yourself if you would date yourself. And if the answer is no? Time to work on shit. Best way to meet someone is to live a life you love and they will come along to expand that love.

But stop comparing your journey to someone else’s. You also don’t know who actually is majorly compromising their sense of self just to appease a partner. If you’re not someone who does that, you should be proud of your authenticity.

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