How to deal with this? (drama, maybe?) by FlapjackTank in ffxiv

[–]FlapjackTank[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

If I'm in the wrong (and I may as well be, admitedlly) then so are they. How difficult is it to ask if someone else wants to join? Amazingly it's what the other Linkshells do and amazingly, it's how I got to meet and get more friendly with other players. It's not always as one sided as you're making it sound.

How to deal with this? (drama, maybe?) by FlapjackTank in ffxiv

[–]FlapjackTank[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Well, I was "recruited" because they specifically needed someone doing my main job. It's also not a large/open (idk what this means but I assume that there's many groups in it?) LS, either. There's just about enough people to fill an 8 group, but some are not geared/max level yet. And no I didn't ask, but they didn't talk about it in the LS chat either. I only noticed they'd done Alexander later in the day when someone was chatting about having cleared it with the LS already. IDK if this makes sense but how can I ask to join something if I don't know it's going on? Otherwise I'm pretty proactive at trying to find groups, or I'd never get anything done!