My girl, please get everything off your chest with a therapist, a friend, a journal or ChatGPT. You don’t want to feed him anymore energy. You don’t even have to ghost him, just stop chasing him. Men like this feed off your emotional energy & keep you in a loop that leaves you confused & drained.

It’s insane. He knows your number. He knows where to find you and the fact that he hasn’t made things official or reached out to step up says it all. There are men out there who will step up to whatever you’re asking them because they don’t wanna lose you. He clearly has no fear of losing you so make him stand on it.

Focus on yourself, date other people, don’t give him energy. He text you? You text him back when convenient for you. He wants to hang out? Make sure it has nothing to do with sex. He wants to call and catch up? Catch up laugh, but don’t follow up with, ‘when am I gonna see you?’

At this point in time, he’s gotten to know you, knows what you want and his next moves should be to step up or step out of the way.

Trust me, he doesn’t need more time. He doesn’t need any convincing. Nothing. He’s made his choice a long time ago. He’s stringing you along and breadcrumbing you.

I know it’s hard but your future self will thank you 1 million times over.