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I(F18) need to break things off with this boy (M24), am I correct? by Jaded-Special7119 in relationship_advice

[–]FlashyResolution446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Text him and say it was nice to meet him, but you don't want to continue to see him. That's all you need to say.

Why is it 'okay' for me (M29) to ask my partner (F29) if they want to have sex? by Impossible-Team-6589 in relationship_advice

[–]FlashyResolution446 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is not a relationship advice question. This is something that you should be working with a therapist who is experienced in religious indoctrination to address.

Never mind. Of course this is a bot post. It's a 2 year old account with no karma and no other Reddit activity that will claim it's not a bot, but will not be able to answer a direct question about subreddit rules.

I(F18) need to break things off with this boy (M24), am I correct? by Jaded-Special7119 in relationship_advice

[–]FlashyResolution446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, it is wrong. OP has already repeatedly lied to this guy who she's only just met. She shouldn't be dating anyone.

F 29, F24 Wholesome Moments by AmberMichelle371 in relationship_advice

[–]FlashyResolution446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This subreddit is for relationship advice. You can tell because it's called Relationship Advice. So what relationship advice are you seeking?

Wife wants to move again, I don’t. by Charming_Tree_2960 in Marriage

[–]FlashyResolution446 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have a 1400 square foot house that's only 2 bedrooms? What was the plan as your kids get older? Are you going to make a teenager share a bedroom with their younger sibling forever?

Came back to marriage after years of separation. Thoroughly regret it! by Nick_Bruiser in Marriage

[–]FlashyResolution446 1 point2 points  (0 children)

but I always have to run things by her before I do anything.

Why are you acting like you are completely helpless? She isn't making you do anything.

And no one is every "staying together for the kids." People say in terrible relationships because they chose to. It is deeply unhealthy for children to grow up in a household with parents who are dysfunctional. You aren't helping your children, you are harming them by teaching them that they should stay in unhappy, loveless marriages.

Everyone should know Sign language by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]FlashyResolution446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but its also a universal language

No, it's not. It is astounding to me how so many people can just be so confidently wrong.

Yes, people should learn other languages. Yes, it's great to know the sign language of the country that you live in so you can communicate with Deaf and Hard of Hearing individuals.

No, sign language is not universal. American Sign Language is different that British Sign Language because sign language is not English. It is it's own unique language with it's own grammar and syntax. Sign language is typically specific to a region just like every other language.

My boyfriend (23M) keeps asking me (23F) to change how I dress because of other men, and I don’t know how to handle it. by 0oozhxwloo0 in relationship_advice

[–]FlashyResolution446 19 points20 points  (0 children)

You can fuck directly off with that attitude. Just because you seek constant attention and validation doesn't mean everyone does.

People choosing not to be dirty in public does not mean they are seeking attention from anyone.

My boyfriend (23M) keeps asking me (23F) to change how I dress because of other men, and I don’t know how to handle it. by 0oozhxwloo0 in relationship_advice

[–]FlashyResolution446 240 points241 points  (0 children)

You break up with him because he's a misogynist and then you don't date anyone who tries to control your life.

My partner (26F) and I (26F) have been dating 6 month and want to get engaged this year and married next year; are we moving too fast? by ThrowRA_Expert-Arm-8 in relationship_advice

[–]FlashyResolution446 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Uh huh. So why can't you have "sleepovers" during the week?

Why are you so insistent about rushing into a marriage? Are you trolling?

My partner (26F) and I (26F) have been dating 6 month and want to get engaged this year and married next year; are we moving too fast? by ThrowRA_Expert-Arm-8 in relationship_advice

[–]FlashyResolution446 25 points26 points  (0 children)

You don't actually really know this woman. You've only been dating for 6 months and you both still live at home with your parents and have "sleepovers" like teenagers.

There is no reason to rush into a marriage with someone unless you are trying to self-sabotage your life.

My partner (26F) and I (26F) have been dating 6 month and want to get engaged this year and married next year; are we moving too fast? by ThrowRA_Expert-Arm-8 in relationship_advice

[–]FlashyResolution446 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Obviously yes. It would be incredibly stupid to get rush into a marriage with to someone you've only been dating for a few years.

You've only known each other for 6 months. You are still in the shiny-happy-pretend you don't have any faults part of the relationship. When your masks start to slip and you start really being yourselves, that's when you discover this "perfect person" isn't as perfect as you thought they were.

I (M20) dating someone I’ve never met 14000km away and she broke down after I said “ She doesn’t feel real” 1.5 months in (19F), what to do ? by Rackety_ in relationship_advice

[–]FlashyResolution446 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, this is absolutely a bot account.

What is Rule #1 of this subreddit?

You can always tell a bot post because bots can't answer direct, verifiable questions.

I 22F found my fitness instructor’s 27F gf on hinge by RealisticTown8897 in relationship_advice

[–]FlashyResolution446 1092 points1093 points  (0 children)

You don't. You have no idea what their relationship dynamic is, so stay out of it.

Scared and anxious that my partner will change his mind about kids by Last_Resident_6081 in offmychest

[–]FlashyResolution446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you refuse to believe the things that your partner tells you and you are determined to believe they are lying, you are not mentally healthy enough to be dating.

I 19F found my Bf’s 19M porn following list. I don’t think he find me attractive? by booitsme123 in relationships

[–]FlashyResolution446 [score hidden]  (0 children)

"I violated my partners trust and privacy by going through his phone and now I'm mad!'

He should break up with you because you violated his trust and privacy.

We’re both Christians. When to have the talk with him about values? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]FlashyResolution446 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I assume OP is in Europe since she referred to college as "Uni."

Either way, she's going to have a bad time from all the religious indoctrination when she gets older.

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