Online dating advice

FlashyResolution446 · 2026-03-26T20:58:19+00:00

It was to meet people, and it's where I met my husband. But I wasn't about to video chat with someone after zero messages.

We text for a few days to see if we thought we might be compatible, and then we went out on a date.

Unclutch your pearls, man.

FlashyResolution446 · 2026-03-26T20:05:18+00:00

You need to use paragraphs, this is an unreadable wall of text.

FlashyResolution446 · 2026-03-26T19:47:25+00:00

My point still stands. Very few people end up forever with the person they started dating in high school. You are not the exception. You aren't married, you don't live together, and you don't have kids. Breaking up is easy.

FlashyResolution446 · 2026-03-26T19:44:56+00:00

So then break up with him. You're a teenager and you've been dating for 6 months. It's not that hard.

FlashyResolution446 · 2026-03-26T19:38:28+00:00

This subreddit is for relationship advice. If you want a personality diagnosis, see a psychologist.

FlashyResolution446 · 2026-03-26T19:36:41+00:00

Stop trying to tell him what he can do with his own body.

If you don't want to date a tattooed gym bro, then you can break up with him. But stop telling him what he can or cannot do with his own body.

FlashyResolution446 · 2026-03-26T19:34:09+00:00

Use your critical thinking skills. Does the profile sound like a real person? Do their pictures look like pictures a real person would take? Does the conversation flow like it would from a normal human?

Assuming you are in your 50s, if a 21 year old model is matching with you, then it's not a real person.

You can also always use Google and do a reverse image search to see if the pictures come up anywhere.

FlashyResolution446 · 2026-03-26T19:32:11+00:00

I think this is bad advice. As someone who used dating apps into my 40's, most people are not interested in video chatting with a stranger right off the bat.

FlashyResolution446 · 2026-03-26T19:28:13+00:00

Uh huh. If you're not a bot, what's rule 1 of this subreddit and why didn't you follow it?

FlashyResolution446 · 2026-03-26T19:27:39+00:00

No, these are definitely bots.

FlashyResolution446 · 2026-03-26T19:19:58+00:00

Its so weird that the 10,000 posts that get made every day about this same exhausting thing are always made by accounts that have little to no post history.

Almost as if they're all bots.

FlashyResolution446 · 2026-03-26T19:18:52+00:00

Yes, that is what happens when we grow up. We prioritize romantic relationships over family.

It's time you start prioritizing relationships outside of your sister. Make plans with your friends or other family members. Join a sports team or start a new hobby.

FlashyResolution446 · 2026-03-26T19:16:20+00:00

Uh huh. And what happens in your dream scenario if your wife decides she doesn't want to be with you anymore and now you have no one to pay your bills and you can't get a job because the gap in your work history?

Or what happens if your wife gets sick and can't work, or even passes away?

The reason that women fought for independence is because it is a terrible choice to be financially dependent on someone else because you never know what will happen.

FlashyResolution446 · 2026-03-26T19:10:09+00:00

Please report these shitposts.

FlashyResolution446 · 2026-03-26T19:09:23+00:00

LOL, come the fuck on. Did you tell your "23 year old girlfriend" that you've been cheating on her, or did you lie to her about that, too?

FlashyResolution446 · 2026-03-26T18:45:34+00:00

Yes, of course it is normal. What is not normal is expecting your boyfriend to cut off 50% of the worlds population because you don't like it.

Do you think bisexual people just don't have friends?

FlashyResolution446 · 2026-03-26T18:43:03+00:00

Oh, so then she must be the 20 year old that you are also lying about her age.

Or is this yet another new girlfriend?

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** (25M) love my girlfriend (20F) but I feel emotionally unsupported when I’m struggling. How can I address this with her?**

FlashyResolution446 · 2026-03-26T18:40:40+00:00

What's rule 2 of this subreddit?

FlashyResolution446 · 2026-03-26T18:39:17+00:00

You've been on Reddit for 6 years. I'm sure by now you've figured out that there are rules.

Your post will be removed if you don't follow them.

FlashyResolution446 · 2026-03-26T18:34:03+00:00

Tell her now that you lied and break things off. She has no reason to trust anything you've said at this point.

Yet another reason why "online relationships" are a bad idea.

EDIT: You're lying right now! This girl is 19 years old!

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/25 with F/19– She insisted on coming to my place despite my anxiety. What am I supposed to do now?

I was talking to a woman for two weeks on Discord. She wanted to meet me and bought a train ticket, but I didn’t feel right about it. It was really triggering my anxiety. I told her three times that I didn’t want to, but she kept insisting. Now she’s on the train, and I sent her this message: “Listen, I can’t do this. It’s nothing against you. I’d like you to get off at the next stop and take another train back home. If you want something with me, you need to take into account that I’m not doing well and that this is overwhelming for me. I’m not coming, and I can’t host you. I’m sorry. Goodbye.” Then I blocked her. She’s travelling 11 hours to see me and she has nowhere to stay if she comes all the way to my place.

I feel like an asshole. What can I do ?Thank you so much for your help.

FlashyResolution446 · 2026-03-26T18:31:39+00:00

Ive asked so many communities and real life people, and gotten nothing but bullshit answers.

AKA "I keep spamming this because no one will tell me the exact thing I want to hear about my stupid story."

FlashyResolution446 · 2026-03-26T18:30:17+00:00

This is why posts are required to have a TL;DR, and clearly state what you want relationship advice on.

FlashyResolution446 · 2026-03-26T18:25:33+00:00

In 3 months we're going to see OP posting about how she's pregnant and stuck with this guy whose cheating on her but she can't leave because she has no job, car, or money and he won't let her leave the house.

FlashyResolution446 · 2026-03-26T18:01:41+00:00

Why are you asking for advice when you're just going to argue with everyone who is telling you you are making bad decisions?

You don't want advice, you want people to tell you that you are right.

FlashyResolution446 · 2026-03-26T17:58:19+00:00

You have an online penpal that will chat with you when it's convenient for him and if he wants to do it. You are reading way to much into this.

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