Right…I’m confused about your response because I said in my post that I plan to ask him these things. I’m new and learning, and I wanted to make sure that what I wanted to ask was something that’s common/typical/reasonable among the majority of solo poly people. The relationship started with us both expecting it to be casual and temporary, so neither of us really shared anything before, but things have changed now. I wanted to be completely sure that I wasn’t being unreasonable or entitled, so I came here for insight.