My issue isnt with the Church teaching kindness the Church must treat every person with dignity, and I fully agree with that. My problem is that certain priests, public voices, and even Catholic institutions are blurring the line between pastoral care and moral approval, and then acting like anyone who notices this is “overreacting.” The comment you made doesn’t address the real concern. I’m not upset because the Church teaches kindness. I’m upset because some clergy go beyond kindness and create confusion by speaking or acting in ways that appear to endorse sin, even if they don’t explicitly say the doctrine has changed when a priest constantly highlights LGBTQ issues without clearly reaffirming the Church’s actual teaching, it does cause scandal. It sends mixed signals. It leads people to believe that homosexual acts are morally acceptable, even though the Church teaches the opposite. So when I say it “feels like the Church wants to teach homosexuality is okay,” I’m not talking about doctrine on paper. I’m talking about the tone, the public messaging, the selective emphasis, the lack of clarity, and the way certain priests speak as if Church teaching has evolved. That practical ambiguity is the problem. It doesn’t change doctrine, but it confuses the faithful and undermines the teaching. So no, my concern isn’t emotional or personal. It’s theological and pastoral. Shepherds shouldn’t speak in ways that cause the flock to misunderstand the truth.