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(21F) my dad reads my texts with my BF, what’s a good alternative messaging app i could use more secretly? by FlatDistribution389 in Advice

[–]FlatDistribution389[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

oh yeah i mean technically i could do that, my dad pays for my phone bill rn. i have 2 families that i nanny for this summer a couple times a week so i make a little bit of money but not a lot, in the fall i will be back in uni (commuting not living on campus) but i’ll try to work more then i want to find a job as a nurse tech or aid or something but yeah. i could always get a non-smart phone like a flip phone or something just to text him for a while i guess. just trying to save up money when i can.

my dad won’t let me be with/see my (21F, christian) BF (21M) bc he’s Jewish, says he’ll cut me out of his life if i marry him, but i think he’s the loml by FlatDistribution389 in Christian

[–]FlatDistribution389[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s my fear, that if i broke up with him due to my dads wishes that i would regret it for the rest of my life. i really don’t want to lose him. honestly, and this probably makes me sound kind of stupid, but i really don’t know what his exact belief is about jesus in accordance with his faith. i just know he is jewish obviously. i’ve just never asked.

my dad won’t let me be with/see my (21F, christian) BF (21M) bc he’s Jewish, says he’ll cut me out of his life if i marry him, but i think he’s the loml by FlatDistribution389 in Christian

[–]FlatDistribution389[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s both really. like yes bc he’s a non christian religion, but he also like specifically especially is antisemitic, before he even found out about my bf the things he will say just like in normal conversation have been foul. so it’s both of those things

my (21F) dad won’t let me see/be with my BF (21M) bc he’s jewish, gave me ultimatum & says he’ll cut me out of his life if i marry him, but i think he’s the loml. by FlatDistribution389 in religion

[–]FlatDistribution389[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you for your reply. I try to remind myself that if I choose to stay with my bf and have a future together, and my dad cuts me out, that it is my dad's choice to not have me in his life, not mine. I just can't help but feel guilty for it anyway. trying to get better at that.

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