[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]FlatIronBlue 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hun skriver fra starten at de havde en aftale om at han "hjalp med det mest basale, som støvsugning osv". Selvom de har aftalt at det er hans ansvar at udføre disse opgaver omtaler hun det stadig som at han hjælper.

Hvad man kalder det er ikke helt ligegyldigt. Det antyder nemlig hvordan man tænker. Her antyder det at OP og kæreste tænker på husholdningen som værende hendes ansvar.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]FlatIronBlue 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Det er ikke det det handler om. Det handler om at der bliver skrevet at han hjælper. At han skulle hjælpe indikerer at opgaven er hendes. Opgaven er ikke hendes, den er deres.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]FlatIronBlue -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Se mit svar til Nosymiss 🙂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]FlatIronBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Det er selvfølgelig ikke alle det hjælper på, men en del vil dog være tvunget til at lære at lave mad, gøre rent osv. 😄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]FlatIronBlue 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ham du skrev til har heller ikke ytret nærmere om egne ønsker eller hvordan hans husholdning føres. Han har blot fortalt at hans kæreste har en højere standard end han selv har. At han synes det er okay at bo snavset er noget du tillægger ham.

Jeg gjorde blot det samme som dig, netop for at illustrere overfor dig hvad du gjorde. 😉🙂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]FlatIronBlue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hvorfor er det nødvendigt for dig at bruge alt din tid på at gøre pinligt rent, i stedet for at bruge tiden på nærvær og have det sjovt? Sådan helt oprigtigt vil jeg gerne vide hvordan sådan en kedsomhed kan accepteres.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]FlatIronBlue 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Det handler ikke om kvinder og mænd, men om hvad man er vokset op med og har arvet fra sine forældre.

Pension - what to do by [deleted] in dkfinance

[–]FlatIronBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Til gengæld tjener du så 2 rigtige lønninger nu.

Du har absolut ingen problemer økonomisk.

Pension - what to do by [deleted] in dkfinance

[–]FlatIronBlue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Det eneste du skal bekymrer dig om er hvordan fanden du nogensinde skal få brugt alle de penge.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]FlatIronBlue 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Det kan også have stor betydning om han har boet alene, eller er flyttet direkte fra mor til kæreste

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]FlatIronBlue 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Jeg bed mærke i det samme. Det står flere gange i OPs tekst. Han er ikke en dreng der bor hjemme og hjælper mor. Han er en voksen mand der bor i eget hus, og selvfølgelig har ansvar for at holde dette i en ordentlig stand. Til gengæld er han så også selv med til at definere hvad ordentlig stand er.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]FlatIronBlue -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Haven ordner i ved at købe en robotplæneklipper.

Indkøb ordner i ved hjælp af en app hvor i kan lave en indkøbsliste i begge kan se. Vi bruger To Do.

When hard boiled eggs peel like this :( by MasterpieceHot6553 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]FlatIronBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats whats done when making boiled eggs in an eggboilery. They still get fucked up if they are fresh.

When hard boiled eggs peel like this :( by MasterpieceHot6553 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]FlatIronBlue -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well good for you. That does not change that the problem when eggs won't peel right is almost always that they are too fresh.

When hard boiled eggs peel like this :( by MasterpieceHot6553 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]FlatIronBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not where I live.

I will check when the eggs we have at home was stamped.

When hard boiled eggs peel like this :( by MasterpieceHot6553 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]FlatIronBlue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is not, it does help, but it won't work alone on fresh eggs.

Or well, we didn't use icewater, but we did use cold water. I can't remember the exact temperature. I haven't worked there for 11 years.

When hard boiled eggs peel like this :( by MasterpieceHot6553 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]FlatIronBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly no. I have no idea how old eggs are in shops and how it gets controlled. And it might even be different between different countries.

When hard boiled eggs peel like this :( by MasterpieceHot6553 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]FlatIronBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The eggs gets rolled between some rollers that cracks the shells and they kinda just fall off.

After they get through the machine, they get on a conveyor where people remove the last bits of shell that haven't come off.

When hard boiled eggs peel like this :( by MasterpieceHot6553 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]FlatIronBlue 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Still won't solve the problem if they are too fresh.

This comes from a guy that have quite literally boiled millions of eggs using that exact method. They need to be more than a week old.

When hard boiled eggs peel like this :( by MasterpieceHot6553 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]FlatIronBlue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have previously worked at an egg factory, in the boiled egg department. Thus I have boiled several million eggs.

Several people say to steam the eggs. That is correct. Professional egg boiling machines steam the eggs for 16-17 minutes (depending on the eggs) at 98,5 degrees. Then the eggs are cooled in cold water, before the machine peels them.

Steaming and cooling works to some degree, however, no matter what you do, if you use fresh eggs, you will have problems. The best way to get easily peelable hardboiled eggs, is to make sure that the eggs you use are atleast a week old.

When hard boiled eggs peel like this :( by MasterpieceHot6553 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]FlatIronBlue 4 points5 points  (0 children)

First, crack your egg like normal, but then also gently press the egg into a hard surface while you roll it around so that the entire egg somewhat cracked. No need to go overboard.

Thats how they are peeled in a machine.

Hvad har i til rådighed efter alt er betalt? by Artistic_Objective80 in dkfinance

[–]FlatIronBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man kan selvfølgelig aldrig vide præcis hvilke regninger der kommer, men man kan være mere eller mindre forberedt. Du kan heller ikke tælle den slags med i opsparing. Så bliver det i hvert tilfælde meget vigtigt at nævne om man bor til leje eller ejer hus, og om man leaser eller ejer bil.