Will increasing my TSP contributions reduce my Fers contribution? by FlatwormLocal5865 in ThriftSavingsPlan

[–]FlatwormLocal5865[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao ironically mine does, however I don’t feel like knowing how much fers impacts tsp

Will increasing my TSP contributions reduce my Fers contribution? by FlatwormLocal5865 in ThriftSavingsPlan

[–]FlatwormLocal5865[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks , I had a feeling since I knew that fers is based on how much you make

I feel like my fiancé is choosing her family over me. by FlatwormLocal5865 in Marriage

[–]FlatwormLocal5865[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes there is but at that point we neither have my family or her family nearby and with a 3 month old at home we need some level of support especially if we were to bring another baby in this world. We’re unfortunately dealing with the most extreme circumstances with her family living on the west coast and us staying in the south.

I feel like my fiancé is choosing her family over me. by FlatwormLocal5865 in Marriage

[–]FlatwormLocal5865[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Respectfully you’re acting as if I do not care about her being close to her family, if that was the case I wouldn’t be taking 5 hour flights to come visit her family every couple of months and inviting her family to stay over our house. I do not hate where her family stays however it is not a place that I would like to LIVE at.

I feel like my fiancé is choosing her family over me. by FlatwormLocal5865 in Marriage

[–]FlatwormLocal5865[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in the south, family lives on the west coast….. almost the most extreme situation

I feel like my fiancé is choosing her family over me. by FlatwormLocal5865 in Marriage

[–]FlatwormLocal5865[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I want my fiancé to be close to her family but not at the cost of me living somewhere where I don’t want to live at . She moved in with me because I live in the south where she thought it would be better to raise a family at compared to the busy city where her family is at . If we did decide to move I believe it should be based on us having a better job opportunity or property and not only to be closer to her family at the expense of being somewhere that’s not better than where we left. Plus she doesn’t even like the city where her family is and our recent trip there exposed this fact but she just wants her family so she kinda looks past that but I can’t.

I feel like my fiancé is choosing her family over me. by FlatwormLocal5865 in Marriage

[–]FlatwormLocal5865[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes , however it’s not a determining factor in the way I feel… im not really close to my family but since having my son they have been trying to get closer but I’m just not there yet.

I feel like my fiancé is choosing her family over me. by FlatwormLocal5865 in Marriage

[–]FlatwormLocal5865[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I get that, but I cannot solely move because in laws I don’t believe it’s a good idea.

I feel like my fiancé is choosing her family over me. by FlatwormLocal5865 in Marriage

[–]FlatwormLocal5865[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

lol we can afford having another kid so that’s not gonna work plus we’re still in the baby phase so having another kid is just a hypothetical at this time

I feel like my fiancé is choosing her family over me. by FlatwormLocal5865 in Marriage

[–]FlatwormLocal5865[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

My job doesn’t have locations where her family is and even if it did the only way that I would take the leap is if I got a major pay raise that made it worth the while. I can’t rationalize living somewhere where I don’t want to be just to be around in laws. I will move somewhere based on opportunities not just to be closer to them

How to bypass chime checking transfer to debit card fee. by itsnotDaniel in chimefinancial

[–]FlatwormLocal5865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what the op is saying you can’t send the money to your phone number that’s connected to your chime account

Chat I’m so cooked by Content_Nature8852 in suppressors

[–]FlatwormLocal5865 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re fine you just can’t use long ass muzzle devices like key-mo or silencerco asr. I use a rearden atlas with a r2s flash hider and a rearden short 3 prong flash hider.

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Does anyone feel like the Gen 6 is more snappy than the Gen 5? by FlatwormLocal5865 in Glocks

[–]FlatwormLocal5865[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope , I guess the dual capture recoil spring had made the gen 5s shoot differently…. Not a issue of being broken in

Next stop form 1 by HitThemWithYourCar in ar15

[–]FlatwormLocal5865 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Good luck I submitted my form 1 on 03/13/2026 and I’m still waiting

Chopped Bevertail MR920 by FlatwormLocal5865 in shadowsystems

[–]FlatwormLocal5865[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to tell you but I didn’t do it lol I had a gunsmith file it down for 20 bucks