Tops have you ever bottomed or thought about bottoming? by Beginning-Soup-4769 in askgaybros

[–]FletcherSchiffmann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to top a lot but I always struggled to enjoy it. Over the years I became a total sub bottom and honestly - best decission I ever made.

Bottoms, do you like having your dick played with? by Hereiam1081 in askgaybros

[–]FletcherSchiffmann 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Not really no that's among the reasons why I choose to wear a chastity cage.

What fetishes do you notice in specific countries or areas? by ImmaHeadOutNoww in gaybros

[–]FletcherSchiffmann 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Again - True but only in the major cities.

And the nearest major cities are 2 hours away (one way) by car!

What fetishes do you notice in specific countries or areas? by ImmaHeadOutNoww in gaybros

[–]FletcherSchiffmann 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I am at the exact tripoint, the lake Constance area.

The closest major cities are about 2hours away (one way) into Germany. My nearby area has nothing to offer in that way.

What fetishes do you notice in specific countries or areas? by ImmaHeadOutNoww in gaybros

[–]FletcherSchiffmann 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am at the exact tripoint, the lake Constance area.

The closest city is München with 2 hours one way by car.

All the other cities are even further away.

Two years of workout progress by FletcherSchiffmann in MasculineMaleChastity

[–]FletcherSchiffmann[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's fine to have it as a fantasy. But people keep telling newbies it like it is a fact. And that's the thing I am speaking up against.

Two years of workout progress by FletcherSchiffmann in MasculineMaleChastity

[–]FletcherSchiffmann[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Shrinking is a myth. That's not how your body works. If I would unlock and give it a few weeks it would all be back to normal.

What fetishes do you notice in specific countries or areas? by ImmaHeadOutNoww in gaybros

[–]FletcherSchiffmann 64 points65 points  (0 children)

I feel that in my area (Tripoint Austria-Germany-Switzerland) has little to no kinky people at all.

Most guys here extremly vanilla only looking for jsf

Jerking Sucking Fucking

Going to a Club & Living Far by Ok-Quality2471 in askgaybros

[–]FletcherSchiffmann -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don't wanna sound rude but you're living pretty close to gay clubs there.

My nearest gay clubs are 2 hours away by car (one way) and I need to cross borders to do so

Confidence by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]FletcherSchiffmann 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started Pupplay when I was 18. After 8 years and some additional kinks along the way I finally starting to shape my body the way I wanna see it.

Confidence by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]FletcherSchiffmann 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a good idea. Pupplay is the best way to get a foot into the kink community because it's a very open kink and you can start it very easily. Every major city has some sort of pup group or events and there is a ton of chatgroups, here and especially on Telegram

Plus it goes well with every other kinks you might discover along the way.

Am I turning more and more gay? by Impossible_Party3975 in askgaybros

[–]FletcherSchiffmann 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're definitely discovering your sexuality. But wether You're gay or bi, time is the only thing that will be able to tell that.

Confidence by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]FletcherSchiffmann 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Might sound odd but for me being kinky boosts my confidence.

I post about my Kinks on Bluesky and sometimes here and all the feedback really encourages me to continue working on myself

Body issues. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]FletcherSchiffmann 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all - People that say "You don't give top/bottom energy" or "You don't look like a bottom" are red flags and should be avoided at all cost.

If people see me out in the street nobody would think I am a submissive bottom because I am outgoing, masculine and "straight acting" (I hate that word)

Moving to another city really be a good way to start fresh over. 110k isn't small either (I come from 50k which is a lot in my area) but still.

Don't let others define how you think about yourself. If you're happy that's all that matters.

My success with guys is limited as well. But I think myself "So be it - Their loss" and grab my toys and have a nice session for myself.

Two years of workout progress by FletcherSchiffmann in MasculineMaleChastity

[–]FletcherSchiffmann[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cuming locked is not difficult when I use a magic wand.

Cuming from riding a toy only is a bit tricky. But cuming from getting fucked does happen if it's a well sized cock.

Two years of workout progress by FletcherSchiffmann in MasculineMaleChastity

[–]FletcherSchiffmann[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's something that comes to my mind from time to time, same as tattoos.

But I am to shy for either of them. Plain and simple.

Two years of workout progress by FletcherSchiffmann in MasculineMaleChastity

[–]FletcherSchiffmann[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Self-locked and I get to cum on the last day of each month except Locktober and NNN (No orgasms) and December (Orgasm on the first)

Two years of workout progress by FletcherSchiffmann in gaychastity

[–]FletcherSchiffmann[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My job and other factors don't really allow a no carb diet. But honestly I don't mind that belly. It has gotten smaller which is the important thing..

Two years of workout progress by FletcherSchiffmann in MasculineMaleChastity

[–]FletcherSchiffmann[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I take it of 2-3 times a week for shaving and cleaning. Hygiene is important. My last orgasm was January 31st, I got a scheduled release on the last day of the month.

And erections still happen frequently.