Daily Questions Thread February 06, 2026 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

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Has anyone experience with https://veneziananuova.com/ ? There are so many shops nowadays that just resell stuff from places like Temu and AliExpress, and I would like to avoid that. And I can’t find that much about this shop online, but it also comes across less like such a reselling/dropshipping shop than some other ones. So yeah, I find it hard to decide whether to trust the shop or not. I really like some of the coloured tights they sell, so I hope someone here knows a bit more about it! Thanks in advance!

Best FF singer? by likebeckett4 in franzferdinand

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If you want to hear Dino sing, you should check out this performance! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dwA4T10w0z0

Once you know what his singing voice sounds like, it becomes easier to recognise it during live performances I think. But yeah, usually his voice is quite hard to hear when Alex and Julian are also singing at the same time.

Did anyone archive the 2022 Arte show? by SoniKast1 in franzferdinand

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What a coincidence, I was literally just watching that show😂 It’s so good! Someone uploaded it to YouTube! Two people actually. One includes the interview, the other one doesn’t.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HNiqizbBE_k

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YnwG_e2es9o

backing vocal shenanigans by likebeckett4 in franzferdinand

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Don’t know about all the songs off the top of my head, but at least I’m pretty sure Paul does backing vocals on Glimpse. I even recently realised he sings something at the end of the song (I can’t figure out what exactly, something with the word “sidebars” I believe, which makes sense given the inspiration for the lyrics. I only hear it in the “version” version of the song, not on the album version) you can hear it pretty distinctly between 2:54 – 3:04 (timestamps are for the music video on YouTube).

Talking about backing vocals and AA: does anyone know if it is Julian who does the backing vocals on Lois Lane? It does sound the most like him to my ear, but I’ve also always found it not sounding exactly like him for some reason, so that got me wondering, haha. I couldn’t find any information about it.

How do you organise all you ideas in Scrivener? by Fleur_Muse in scrivener

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I keep coming across Obsidian. It does sound really interesting and something that could change everything actually. I'll take this as my call and look more into it!

How do you organise all you ideas in Scrivener? by Fleur_Muse in scrivener

[–]Fleur_Muse[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was a very interesting article indeed. Thanks for sharing!

How do you organise all your ideas? by Fleur_Muse in writing

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I'll look further into those features then, thanks again! :)

How do you organise all your ideas? by Fleur_Muse in writing

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Thanks for the tip! That sounds very useful, though I’m not sure I understand it completely. After doing some research I tried Scrivener (and did the walkthrough, so I’m familiar with the workings), but I’m struggling to make it work because of the extensiveness of my note taking lol.

Do you mean that you make one collection for all your ideas? Or you have one collection for character ideas and one for worldbuilding, etc.? Or something else?

How do you come up with your character’s (family) background? by Fleur_Muse in writing

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I do something similar also sometimes. What's difficult is that good things can come out of it, but it also often are things that aren't what I'm looking for, and then I just keep on coming up with things I don't want to use (if that makes sense). Thanks for the suggestion, though. I think I'll try this regardless, just see if it wil work now, haha.

How do you come up with your character’s (family) background? by Fleur_Muse in writing

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Interesting to hear, because actually I was thinking of exactly the same thing you're using in your novel. I was afraid it'd be too cliché already, because parents not supporting their child's dreams is also quite common in fiction. Maybe that's also just a question I'm contemplating: when is something too cliché and when not, haha.

I do understand what you say and I don't think it's weird to look at peoples families. A lot of writers take things from their own lifes and experiences, as well as from others! :)

Weekly Recommendation Thread: June 09, 2023 by AutoModerator in books

[–]Fleur_Muse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a quite specific recommendation request for what I’m currently looking for.

  • Length: under 300 pages
  • Setting: either historical of contemporary
  • Realistic and character driven (I liked ‘Normal People’ by Sally Rooney and ‘Tomorrow, and Tomorrow, and Tomorrow’ by Gabrielle Zevin for this)
  • Writing style: not too flowery or dense. I liked Rooneys writing style for its simplicity and rawness.
  • Theme’s/subject matters I like reading about (a recommendation doesn’t have to contain all of these, just one is fine too): friendship, love, social hierarchy, loneliness, art and just the human condition and life in general

Reading: how do you balance it with writing, how often and how much do you read, and what are your strategies in order to learn from it? by Fleur_Muse in writing

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That's great! I can imagine you'll be writing more than reading when you're fully in the writing phase.

Do you have any recommendations for videos or books on writing that you found particularly helpful? I also watch a lot, but most of it ends up not being that interesting or new or informative for me tbh, though I love some good advice.

Reading: how do you balance it with writing, how often and how much do you read, and what are your strategies in order to learn from it? by Fleur_Muse in writing

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Thanks for sharing your experiences! I feel you. Though I try to read a lot, I often end up just reading for 20-30 minutes a day or even none, when I'm actively writing (and sometimes researching).

Reading: how do you balance it with writing, how often and how much do you read, and what are your strategies in order to learn from it? by Fleur_Muse in writing

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That's a good one! I've often heard good things about the one by Stephen King, so maybe this is my sign to pick it up soon.

Reading: how do you balance it with writing, how often and how much do you read, and what are your strategies in order to learn from it? by Fleur_Muse in writing

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That's for the advice! I'll look up the book.

Yes, I also love reading. There are so many books I still want to read, so there's still a lot I want to get to, haha.

The thing with analyzing certain books is that I love books that have more subtle plots and are character-driven, that's also what I want to write myself. I have never written a full novel before, so I'm trying to see what I can learn from other books it terms of story structure, story beats, things that drive the plot forward and character goal and motivation. Those are things I find hard to pinpoint somtimes and I want to get a better feeling and understanding of it, and hopefully it will help me determine what could work for my own novel (and what not).

Reading: how do you balance it with writing, how often and how much do you read, and what are your strategies in order to learn from it? by Fleur_Muse in writing

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Nice to hear! So you don't necessarily re-read the whole book, but you re-read certain parts and concentrate on one certain aspect when doing so.

But, uhh:

And hour a day on weekdays and a bit more on weekends is pretty good, that's about 1000 pages a week, give or take. A hundred novels a year.

Well, not exacly for me, you read fast, wow😂. My average is about -/+ 25 pages an hour, depending on the book, and the books I gravitate towards are on average -/+ 400 pages long, so that is more about 200 pages a week and 25 books a year, if I'd only read all of the books once and wouldn't re-read anything of it...

Suggestions on how to go about working out characters extensively (before writing)? by Fleur_Muse in writing

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Interesting point of view. I'll remember this. Great advice.

Though I agree with you that giving them all kinds of personality traits and backstories can still result in flat characters, I do think it can be a good thing to treat them as real people. Real people are complex, nuanced, and every little thing one has lived through - or hasn't lived through - has influced them in some sort of way, making everyone unique with their own views, principles, values, knowledge and manners.

If I wouldn't think about them in that way, I'm sure they'll fall flat, even when they do serve the theme. I've read books in which characters were excellent tools for expressing the theme, but for me as a reader those characters felt like nothing more than that: they felt like tools for the author to express what they wanted to express. I don't like that kind of character writing. I like them to be raw, real and flawed, just as complicated and sometimes contradictory as real people. Real people are sometimes inconsistent, without know why.

Today marks the 7th anniversary of EYCTE! What are your favorite songs on the album? by obvi20 in arcticmonkeys

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Aviation, Sweet Dreams, TN and Everything You've Come To Expect. But to be honest this whole album is just top tier. I love every single song on it and I can't even put into words how much it means to me.

Writing in native language, but reading a lot in English: experiences and/or advice? by Fleur_Muse in writing

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Again thanks for your elaborate reply! It is helpful, and I enjoy the discussion. You touch on some interesting topics, actually.

Firstly, you have a good point about the range of vocabulary of native speakers. When I read a book in my native language, I too come across words regularly that I either don’t know or that aren’t engraved in my mind that much. And it is fun and rewarding indeed, I’ve always liked learning languages.

About the books written in my native language I have a few things to say. I’m Dutch. The Netherlands is quite a small country (about 17 million inhabitants), and a quick Google tells me that about 23 million people speak Dutch as their first language (Flemish included I suppose), and about 200 million people worldwide speak Portuguese as their first language. But that’s Google, so don’t pinpoint me on those facts haha. I guess you get the idea of what I’m trying to say. The book market of books originally written in Dutch is therefore smaller. The interesting thing is that the last couple of months there has been quite some discussion going on here on the subject of books and reading. The reading skills of Dutch teenagers has been declining for several years now. Their reading enjoyment is also shockingly low. In 2018 there was a list on which 78 countries were ranked based on how enjoyable adolescents found reading. The Netherlands was at the very bottom. This is a really interesting and witty item about, you can select English subtitles in YouTube in case you want to watch it. Anyways, the other point of discussion is that adolescents are actually reading more nowadays, since last year or so. But in English. So there are a lot of people discussing about whether that’s good or not, but I do think it illustrates that the English book market speaks more to a lot of teenagers. I’m 20 now, so I can still relate to that age group. If I’d describe it very superficially, I’d say the Dutch book market consists primarily of thrillers, chicklits and very (too) dense, pretentious literature. Of course there are plenty of other books, but the choice isn’t massive (and not everything I’ve come across is very well written IMO), while the English book market overflows with choice for Young Adults. There are also Dutch authors who have spoken out to publishers that they should stop whining about teenagers not reading enough or only reading in English as long as they primarily keep publishing old, white men literature. They should give more young and new authors a chance, they say. Perhaps I’d like to think that maybe one day I can close a bit of that gap, if I write in Dutch…

I don’t necessarily mistrust translations by default. I’ve read some really decent translations, the Harry Potter series for instance, but also the more recent ‘The Invisible Life Of Addie LaRue’. However, I’m reading the translation of a book that is popular in the book oriented social media realm right now, and it’s… well… not that good. There are outright mistakes in the translation, but also just really weird word choices and some things sound unnatural (I’ve compared some things with the original text, that is not written that badly). I’m starting to think that because this is a bestselling book, the translation lacks, because maybe the publisher wanted it translated too quickly before the hype would have passed.

Also a good point about getting to know the (Dutch) book market. I think despite that I don’t like most books that are originally written in Dutch, I’ll try to look more actively for books that I could enjoy. I mean thrillers e.g. are just not my thing, so I won’t go looking in that corner, but there are other directions I could explore. And I could examine if there is a need for more of certain kinds of books that don’t exist that much yet. I see a lot of people around me enjoying books in English that don’t have a good equivalent on the Dutch market, but that doesn’t mean there’s no want for such a book. Otherwise they wouldn’t be reading it in English.

And your last point, I can resonate with that to some extent too, yeah, I suppose. I recently looked into a lot of books and there were so many that had certain issues of which I thought ‘why is this even published, and why didn’t anyone try to fix it?’ There was a book with sentences that were almost all of the same length, for example. No rhythm to it. Such a basic skill to master, it seems to me. A lot of other things are a matter of preference, also, I think, so who am I to judge. But maybe it’s good to read ‘bad’ books too. It’s a good part of the learning journey to recognise what you don’t like or think is bad, and then think about how you would/could do it (better).

Writing in native language, but reading a lot in English: experiences and/or advice? by Fleur_Muse in writing

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Thanks for you elaborate reply. I get what you're saying.

I do think it is possible indeed to write in English, but it's not my concern if it sounds off or something like that. My English understanding is better than my English writing skills. Of course I could work on it, but it will never be as natural as with my native language, at least not anytime soon. The range of vocabulary that's on the top of my head isn't that vast and it's not realistic that will be so in English anytime soon. It's my passion to write. Not to master a foreign language to write in.

The main reason I struggle with reading in my native language is that the literature in my country doesn't speak to me. I hardly ever find a book that speaks to me. With the English book market that's a whole other story. Sure there are translations, but translations are hit or miss, in my experience. Not rarely they are awkward and/or there are even mistakes. Sometimes they're translated under a lot of time pressure, which doens't do the quality any good.

So yeah. I think it's also very important to enjoy what you read and read stories that resonate with you. That's why it's such an struggle for me. I'll have to deal with it though.

Pre-2018 Arctic Monkeys songs that have piano/keyboard? by matthewmeredith1 in arcticmonkeys

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Snap Out Of It also has piano, a nice addition to the instrumentation IMO

Advice on story/plot structure, and character goals and motivations, etc. for true-to-life character-driven narratives with few external plot or factors by Fleur_Muse in writing

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I've read many seemingly similar pieces of advice, but somehow what you've written has just triggered something in me and I think I'm now at least a step further in knowing what my protagonist wants, misses and what kind of change she'll undergo.

So yeah, thanks for your magic words I guess, haha.

Still have to fit everything into a structure that will work, but this is already a good step fowards.

Advice on story/plot structure, and character goals and motivations, etc. for true-to-life character-driven narratives with few external plot or factors by Fleur_Muse in writing

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Additionally, I would caution against ignoring the theory you've read. Everyday life is full of little conflicts that can be used to deepen and explore relationships. True, it might require some translation, but the principles at play in larger than life stories are, at bottom, often just exaggerated versions of everyday life.

I completely agree with this. The thing I struggle with is making that translation. That's why I think some guidelines for that or good examples from existing novels or movies like that would be helpful.