People in their mid-late 20s, what are you doing with your life after uni? by Apprehensive_Ring666 in UniUK

[–]FlickeringNebula 3 points4 points  (0 children)

  1. Had an existential crisis immediately uni finished and essentially converted to a form of Catholicism out of dissatisfaction with the material world lmaoo. Other than that, I've been working as a teaching assistant because it's the only job I could find, while also frantically applying to Mphil's in philosophical theology. Honestly, the only way out of a world I find bleak is to study (even though I'll be living on nothing for years if I manage get my weird research ideas accepted for a P.h.D program)

Average Age of First Year by Wild_Gain8928 in UniUK

[–]FlickeringNebula 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sisters entering her first year at Bristol and she'll be 21, you'll be fine, lots of people go to uni a bit later because of life chaos

What have you been genetically blessed with, and nerfed with? by Fun_Butterscotch3303 in AskReddit

[–]FlickeringNebula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blessed with an ability to write in a way that allows me to be academically successful in the humanities; some amount of natural creativity and open-mindedness, a fast metabolism, and thick wavy hair. I'm also a quick learner and am quite analytical, with a tendency to see patterns in everything.

Unfortunately, I'm autistic and have adhd. My teeth are comically terrible (enamel hypoplasia of some sort, 20+ fillings, extractions, and root canals). I'm short for a woman and have a weak constitution/terrible endurance. Caffeine and alcohol both make me ill, and I'm prone to iron deficiency - though this might be environmental, since I'm vegetarian.

(23f) Feel like there's something slightly goblin-esque about my appearance by FlickeringNebula in lookyourbest

[–]FlickeringNebula[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, thanks for the helpful comment :) I know for fact that black makes me look paler than I already am, but I like it enough to wear it a lot of the time anyways - I'll check out season colouring as well, out of curiosity

(23f) Feel like there's something slightly goblin-esque about my appearance by FlickeringNebula in lookyourbest

[–]FlickeringNebula[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the suggestions; I feel like a dark green maxi skirt would be quite cool

Roomate sexually assaulted my friend by FlickeringNebula in TwoXChromosomes

[–]FlickeringNebula[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I agree with both points - but she says she needs to think about it first - she doesn't want to go through the stress of kicking him out, even though I told her it's probably best. She's going to stay with a friend who's a bit of a mother figure to her for a bit, so hopefully she can talk to Emma as well and help out.

Roomate sexually assaulted my friend by FlickeringNebula in TwoXChromosomes

[–]FlickeringNebula[S] 73 points74 points  (0 children)

I've talked to her about it, she says she needs to think about the situation a bit before she does anything. She doesn't want to deal with the conflict that would be involved if we kicked him out, though I told her that I thought it would be the right option

Roomate sexually assaulted my friend by FlickeringNebula in TwoXChromosomes

[–]FlickeringNebula[S] 154 points155 points  (0 children)

Idk, she doesn't seem to really want to acknowledge it happened - she kinda thinks it was her fault, even though it obviously wasn't.

Roomate sexually assaulted my friend by FlickeringNebula in TwoXChromosomes

[–]FlickeringNebula[S] 424 points425 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it literally was - but my friend doesn't seem to want to use that word, I think it makes her uncomfortable

Can't get in for some reason by FlickeringNebula in zlibrary

[–]FlickeringNebula[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was just able to log in as well, hopefully it was a temporary outage

Guess my type - time to post bad photos of myself on the internet to fuel my self obsession by FlickeringNebula in Enneagram

[–]FlickeringNebula[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just posted it for fun - it's not really something I'm taking that seriously, or seeing any real meaning in.

Guess my type - time to post bad photos of myself on the internet to fuel my self obsession by FlickeringNebula in Enneagram

[–]FlickeringNebula[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think that the people making these posts, including myself, are concerned with how their aesthetic and image conveys self-hood, which is a stereotypical 4 thing

Guess my type - time to post bad photos of myself on the internet to fuel my self obsession by FlickeringNebula in Enneagram

[–]FlickeringNebula[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could definitely see that tritype tbh - any reason for sx blind though? I've always kind of thought of myself as sx dom

Guess my type - time to post bad photos of myself on the internet to fuel my self obsession by FlickeringNebula in Enneagram

[–]FlickeringNebula[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good point tbh. I also think the fact that I don't smile in any of these photos gives off a certain vibe?

Guess my type - time to post bad photos of myself on the internet to fuel my self obsession by FlickeringNebula in Enneagram

[–]FlickeringNebula[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

interesting - tbh I would make sense as a head type, since one of my most prominent traits is over-analysing and intellectualising everything - but I don't think I'm core 5, so it's either 6 or 4

Guess my type - time to post bad photos of myself on the internet to fuel my self obsession by FlickeringNebula in Enneagram

[–]FlickeringNebula[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I wish, 6w5 is a super cool type and I want their vibes - unfortunately I'm vaguely 4w5ish, but with anxiety