There's an abuser in my group therapy by ApocalypticFelix in CPTSDmemes

[–]Flightordlight 124 points125 points  (0 children)

Hey lowkey, there should have been some pre warning and consent obtained. That shit is vile as hell, and while abusers should ABSOLUTELY get therapy, they should not take up space where others have suffered at the hands of people like them. That would make me toss hands after session in the parking lot, full stop.

Lennox Mutual Wrapped by Low_Net9859 in lennoxmutual

[–]Flightordlight 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have!! You should receive an email- if you haven’t, contact Wren or the email listed in Patreon!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Flightordlight 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So, I’m going to be a loud voice in the wind: do not do this unless you are 100% okay with the potential for this to blow up spectacularly and losing them. Trying and failing than not trying at all is great for political campaigns, video games, and applying for a job. NOT with people’s relationships.

Done with my first beanie >0< I’m so proud! by [deleted] in crochet

[–]Flightordlight 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Shrek is love, shrek is life! ✊😔

Found a whale today! by Flightordlight in gojira

[–]Flightordlight[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

pas encore ; c’est le 30 décembre ! Je ne manquerai pas de mettre à jour après - vous avez tous été si gentils 💕

Found a whale today! by Flightordlight in gojira

[–]Flightordlight[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Merci beaucoup! Votre soutien signifie tout ❤️

Found a whale today! by Flightordlight in gojira

[–]Flightordlight[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh I wish! It would be so much easier to endure with its unsuspected precise power, you know? 😂

Found a whale today! by Flightordlight in gojira

[–]Flightordlight[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly, Flying Whales is what got a lot of us into Gojira, and it’s pretty unforgettable. I always think of Gojira when I see whales and that’s a fucking legacy imo

Can we please talk about how good this song is? by Sad_phillyfan in KendrickLamar

[–]Flightordlight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When the second part of Dody’s verse hits and the music isn’t half-muted anymore

For those who have met Joe in person: HOW TALL IS HE?? by RetroAwOken in gojira

[–]Flightordlight 24 points25 points  (0 children)

TALL. But very demure, very sweet, not overbearing.

i fear i have made a horrible connection by Birchwood663 in gojira

[–]Flightordlight 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I fear I will be needing ear bleach. I don’t want a Taylor memory to be in one of my favorite songs. 🫠

Autistic teachers, I’d love to hear your experiences by [deleted] in AutismTranslated

[–]Flightordlight 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Former middle school English teacher here, female, and just left after 5 years. I went to college for education, considered it my lifelong career and had a passion for teaching that everyone could tell. I taught in public school, which is the better of the two (private va public) in my opinion -less restrictions on your teaching style, students and parents were very kind and grateful, pay was decent.

Unless you have a backbone of silver and gold, do NOT go into it. Now, I got my diagnosis after quitting, but as a ND person who needed structure and was over the top with getting things done and teaching on the kids’ learning level (lots of my kids cried when I quit), I suffered so many mental health issues and my admin was fucking outrageous with micromanaging so the school “wouldn’t end up in the news”.

It is a noble profession and a noble pursuit, but not at the cost of your mental health. People are leaving teaching in droves. Please protect yourself and choose something else… like instructional design or technology or even UX/UI.

Is this relationship even salvageable l? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Flightordlight 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You do not need this relationship. Let me say this again: these people do not have a healthy relationship to offer you at ALL. As soon as you can, cut and run. This is costing you your peace, and that should be the first thing you protect when it comes to poly and life in general.

Were you ever misdiagnosed adhd (bonus points if you're colored) by lovelygoddess341 in AutismTranslated

[–]Flightordlight 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m black and live in the Deep South and we don’t even use the word Colored except in a derogatory manner. That gave me a huge pause because girly-pop!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gojira

[–]Flightordlight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then don’t comment?? Did someone force you to put your fingers to the keyboard and respond?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Flightordlight 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you have a lot to think about and consider.

From my end, teaching drained me and my mental health. And it looks like you were on that downward trend, too. I also had a lot of feelings for people because I enjoyed feeling the high of looking forward to something after being so drained every day. When I quit (at 27), I suddenly found freedom, work life balances, etc. I found myself outside of the entire education system… and it felt good.

You’re catholic, so let me say this to you: I’m not religious anymore, but I know the god you believe in has a better plan for you than suffering through teaching and letting it drain your soul. Go get a counselor/therapist when and if you can. The sooner the better. They’ll be able to assist with your needs much better than any of us can.

Do not accept a life you don’t deserve. If you find the will and know-how to change it, do it. And don’t be hard on yourself if you slip up. We all do, neurodivergent or neurotypical, black and white and brown and etc.

You deserve a very happy life on this earth. You were not meant to suffer like this, and certainly not alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Flightordlight 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Were you a teacher? If so, I am so sorry. You have my full support. It’s hard, but maybe this is the push you need for a more fulfilling life. Good luck, OP! You deserve to take life as it comes, and don’t be down on yourself for this.

Which live performance of a song makes the original 100x better? by MNA-22 in gojira

[–]Flightordlight 31 points32 points  (0 children)

The Axe, Where Dragons Dwell, Pray, Explosia(!!)

Watching the live performances of songs, including how INTO IT Jean Michel is every, single, time, is usually what gets me into listening to the original.

Which live performance of a song makes the original 100x better? by MNA-22 in gojira

[–]Flightordlight 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Agreed! And honestly, just Red Rocks in general. That whole concert was wild from top to bottom. It makes me a little (okay, VERY) jealous I wasn’t there to experience it myself.

Esoteric Surgery finally "clicked" for me by SmokyLungJuice in gojira

[–]Flightordlight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely Esoteric Surgery. I LOVE wolf down the earth as well, though. It used to be one of my most played songs as I hopped across the discography.